ASHLEY SPIVEY’S BLOG: EPISODE 10

The WTA is a tough episode to watch on every season but I assure you that it is even tougher for the girls involved. We have to sit through the season and keep our mouths closed on Twitter and Facebook and watch as girls, who we thought were our friends, talk crap about us. Or we get answers to why the guy was never interested in us. This leads to us having A LOT to say on the WTA and not enough time to say it.
I can’t imagine how any of these girls felt going on the WTA. They must have had so many questions, so many things they wanted to say to each other, an arsenal of insults for Courtney, and a deep need to kick Ben in the balls. I can completely empathize with the girls on this episode.
First up, however, is the Bachelor Reunion in Vegas that was basically a try-out for Bachelor Pad 3.

There was a lot of talk about love, which really cracks me up. But then again, I guess there are just as many successful relationships created from BPad as its more respectable counterparts.

Ed might be doing the show I guess – not really surprised.

I don’t really know who Sarah is but she’s already pretty much called dibbs on Ed.

Ryan Park can’t wait to do Bachelor Pad and I am super pumped for some more sunhearts! (ps. I’m never letting this go. Sunhearts foreverrrrrr)

I know the cast isn’t confirmed but I’m just really surprised to see Reid all up in the promo. Say it isn’t so Reid!

The short clip of Ali and Roberto’s engagement gave me the sadz because they were the ones that gave me hope that you could find love on the show.

Ali and Frank are reunited again and despite their undeniable chemistry, he still is in a happy relationship with his girlfriend that he lives with!

I’ve thought a lot about why I think Erica Rose made the comment about Ali that she did and I think she was commenting more about the exact moment when Frank dumped Ali. Erica said that Ali wasn’t exactly looking her best and I think she was referring to Ali in this moment http://videos.nymag.com/video/Bachelorette-Frank-Dumps-Ali-Fo#c=TWSWF62HWJBZYRZB&t=Bachelorette: Frank Dumps Ali For His Ex Nicole (fast forward to 1:33). No one looks their best when they cry and I don’t think Erica meant it the way it was portrayed.

No ladies, this wasn’t Jake Pavelka performing his newest act at Chippendales. Just Nick “The Body” Peterson giving my season 15 girl Lacey a little striptease in the club. Does this mean we’ll be seeing Nick on BPad?

Where was I during the Bachelor reunion? Dancing the whole time apparently!

Dear lord.

Oh man – whatever! It was fun! I loved meeting everyone and getting to see my Bachelor 15 ladies again. It honestly wasn’t as scandalous or as gross as I thought it was and I had a blast!
Did y’all enjoy the WTA? I have to admit that I wish Courtney would have been brought out sooner, the girls would have given it to Ben harder (haha), and Jenna would have gotten some time in the hot seat!

I thought all the ladies looked lovely and we all collectively gave Kacie a “bless her heart” at my viewing party when we saw her sweating through her dress. Little word to the wise for girls who go on this show after this: wear sleeveless dresses!

Blakeley takes the most crap at first when she admits that she wasn’t there initially to make friends. However, not everyone was ripping on her and by judging from photos taken after the WTA, I think everyone is ok with Blakeley now. I thought she looked really pretty and demure in her conservative dress!

I’m still a little confused as to why Brittney was so angry during her segment but I’m guessing that she didn’t really get along with everyone and that’s the real reason she decided to leave.

Shawntel came out next and in her eyes you could tell how hurt she was by the whole situation.

Everyone was pretty apologetic though and I think Shawntel knew that she didn’t handle the situation as well as she could have. It was a tough night and I think everyone has learned their lesson.

Emily was up next and holy moly, where was she hiding her boobies all season? I’ve seriously missed her eye-rolls, side-eyes, and dramatic shoulders since her departure! I also love how she rips on Ben without overtly saying anything mean.

I loved how she called him out on the skinny-dipping and how it caused him to think about sex for the rest of the season and not a relationship.

Can we make both Emilys the Bachelorette for this next season?

Nicki was up next, looking gorgeous, and I’m glad that she knew that she didn’t do anything wrong. I know it was tough for her but I’m glad she has a healthy outlook on the whole thing.

Kacie comes out and a lady in the audience is already crying!

I think that Kacie is still really hurt by everything that happened but I hope she knows that she deserves better than she got this season. Nothing is wrong with her, nothing is wrong with her family, and she didn’t do anything wrong. You will find someone amazing Kacie and everything that you learned on this show will help you find the right person!

I thought that everyone smashing the black widow (Courtney) was hilarious. You know, we all talked a lot this season about how the girls never really seemed to bond. Maybe that’s the great thing about Courtney – they all bonded over their dislike for her?

Casey S. really tried her hardest to take up for her BFF.

She claimed that Courtney didn’t do well in group settings. No $h!t lady.

I don’t really think anyone bought it.

Then Chris announced that Courtney was in the studio…

and I just knew it was about to get crazy!!!

Emily looks like she’s been waiting for this moment for months!

I don’t really think that Courtney actually said that much. Everyone was too busy yelling stuff at her or infighting and she just sat there. I don’t really think her apology was that sincere and here’s why…

Blakeley brought up some good points but Courtney couldn’t even give her the respect to look at her when she was talking to her.

A true apology means looking in the eyes of the person you hurt so you can fully express how sorry you are.

I can’t believe she didn’t know Jennifer’s name for a week! I mean there are a lot of girls in the house but it’s really easy to learn everyone’s name by the second day!

If she was there to really apologize – she would have responded to Jennifer at this point and told her that she was sorry and that is unacceptable. She didn’t. She just nodded her head.

Kacie questions her about her comment, “How’d that taste coming out of your mouth?” and Courtney even smiles when Kacie says it. Maybe not the best thing to do when you’re apologizing.

She looks up a lot when she’s “crying.” I don’t remember her doing this before when getting emotional on the show.

Emily asks her why they all should forgive and forget with Courtney when Courtney made it clear that she wasn’t the type of person that forgives and forgets when Emily tried to apologize. I think Courtney’s brain almost implodes at this point.

Seriously! What the heck is on the ceiling and why does she keep looking up there?

Courtney does make the comment at one point that the apology is for Ben because she was only ever there for Ben in the first place. She says that if she could take it back she would – however, you can’t take it all back. If she was truly sorry she should have went on there and apologized to every person individually. She could have taken note of all the hurtful things she said about every person and then tried to make it better. But she didn’t. Also, did anyone else catch when she said she “cared” for Ben but quickly corrected herself? Uh Oh!

Here’s my last thought about Courtney. It doesn’t matter if we like her or not. We don’t know her. We only know her from the show and how the show chose to portray her. Regardless, Ben likes her and they probably have a long, hard road ahead of them. Whether you choose to accept her apology now is insignificant. Ben made his choice and he has to live with it.

Ben comes out and says that this is his nightmare. This is why Brad was a million times better than Ben – Brad commented first on how pretty we all looked.

I think maybe the meanest comment of the night actually went to Jennifer when she asked Ben why he would get rid of her, but want to bring Blakeley home to meet his parents.

Ben doesn’t really answer the question but I do notice how much he uses his hands when he talks.

Nicki comments that Ben is still the best guy she’s ever known and I snort and eye-roll so hard that I almost had a stroke.

Ben apologizes for the way he sends home Casey but I like to pretend that he really said this.

Then Jamie comes out of nowhere and says that she would still totally get fancy with Ben.
He still has nightmares about their fancy time together.

I have to say though, that my favorite part of the night was the funny blooper at the end when Monica asked Jenna if she would accept a tampon! So cute and funny! I’m glad that all these ladies mostly get along by now and I wish them nothing but the best while being a part of Bachelornation!
What was y’all’s favorite part of the show? Who were you surprised by? Who do you still love? Do you think Kacie’s gonna be ok? Do you think Courtney really was sorry? Do you think Ben did a good job in front of the firing squad?
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81 Comments »

  1. Dearest Ashley ~ Love your Blog girl! You are the only one that absolutely makes me LOL.. it is hysterical! Sad and sorry the girls did not confront the skinny-dipping thing.. I fear they were warned not to bring the subject up. Absolutely love Emily… that girl has it going on! Kacie B is just adorable and I do pray (and believe) she will find the perfect guy. Nicki too.. sad she is still feeling the love for a guy who was a jerk!!! Sad Ben has chosen Courtney. Don’t believe that is an everlasting love… though you could say it is a match made in Heaven. Ultimately believe she will take him for all its worth ~ Courtney won’t ratch up the sales of his vineyard wines, but this publicity will do her well. Praying they won’t get married and he will lose 50% of everything. All the other girls will become friends in Bachelor nation and all will be well. Hope you are happy with that beautiful, funny, and intelligent personality!

    Comment by Floridian — March 9, 2012 @ 11:24 am

  2. I can’t believe that Ben said “welcome to my nightmare”. How rude. Those women put their lives on hold in hopes of meeting a real man and finding a life long partner.

    In my eyes, the only way Ben can redeem himself and become a real man like Brad Womack and JP, is if he sticks it out with Courtney and really gives their relationship a chance. He was warned repeatedly, but chose to ignore all negative comments. If he truely loved her during the filming, he will fight for their relationship and for her. A coward will walk away and let the pressures of the tabloids and the general public rule him.

    I really hope they can work on this.

    Lindzi is totally getting overlooked in this whole process. She is probably glad;however,she is so deserving of a good man to love her.

    Comment by Jacquie — March 9, 2012 @ 12:07 pm

  3. I think it was very brave that Courtney faced the firing squad to apologize…and believe me she didn’t have to. She did it because she wanted to. I truly believe in given someone a second chance especially when they apologize for their actions.
    As far as not looking at Blakely at that moment…I noticed looking back on it that she did say she was sorry to her and looked right at her but noone heard her because all the girls were talking over each other. So, Blakely asked her again.
    Also, why in the world would she get up and hug each one when it was definitely obvious that most of the girls were not accepting it. I have to say that I was not a fan of hers in the past but after seeing the WTA I truly believe she is sorry for her actions.
    I do need to ask you Ashley…have you ever done anything that you regretted?? I’m sure you have…
    She just did it in front of millions of people and also the exaggerated edit didn’t help.
    My lord Ashley give her a break already…we all make mistakes.

    Comment by Shelly — March 9, 2012 @ 12:10 pm

  4. Ben and Courtney are a pefect fit. Two weirdos who like to be naked and drink alot of wine.

    Comment by Melissa — March 9, 2012 @ 12:28 pm

  5. Hi Ashley, if you are saying that you don’t know Courtney, then does that mean you are taking back the 666 inscription you put on her forehead previously?

    Comment by Lola — March 9, 2012 @ 12:30 pm

  6. As I have stated before, Ashley has the best blog of all the former castmates who are blogging. Even after The Bachelor edits it(like last week). Her saynotocosmo blog contains the real mccoy.

    I also had to take a step back to look and recall that this is a television event that is PRODUCTION created. I have to think there is a lot of tape on the editing floor that will never see the light of day. Feeling this is mostly BS from the Bachelor franchise who are attempting to offset the embarassment they have suffered from the actions of both Ben and Courtney. No desire to broadcast any further info, i.e. the girls attacking Ben re: the skinny-dippiny etc. The primary goal was to put both of them in a better place in the viewers’ eyes.

    I’m unaware if anyone else had the reaction my nervous system had to watching Chris. His hands never, never are still. After the first 15 min or so, I had to glance away when he was on camera. Made me think of the guy with the 3 cups and a pea.

    Last year I would have thought that Ben would have been well received into the Bachelor family. But this year there is doubt in my mind.

    I have also responded to those that feel Courtney is deserving of a second chance. I feel that she has been given several second chances already. Emily gave her one by apologizing, and it was refuted. And there has to be a limit on the number of “second chances” a person receives.

    Comment by Divr — March 9, 2012 @ 12:36 pm

  7. LOL @ Lola! You Rock! :P

    Comment by Tara — March 9, 2012 @ 12:50 pm

  8. I have watched the Bachelor through lots and lots of bachelors and bachlorets. I never liked one a much as Ben. He seems the most real to me. I give him a pass because he is a fairly young guy and young guys are all about sex even if they say they aren’t. Give him another 10 years and he will be seasoned to perfection. The girls will be fine. Everyone gets their heart broken sooner or later and usually more then once. I’m like everyone else. I love Kacie and Nicki. Emily is also my all time fav bachlorette. I would LOVE to hang out with her. Courtney I pitty. She will never be happy in love. But we all know that. Your blog is THE BEST! Thanks for taking the time to entertain us. I will miss Mondays with Ben, Emily, Kacie and Nicki. I hope we get to hear what happens to Ben and Courtney in the long run.

    Comment by Elizabeth — March 9, 2012 @ 2:12 pm

  9. I think Courtney might have been looking up to try not to cry… i don’t really know but if i’m in front of people and don’t want to cry, i try looking up and it actually kind of works. i also think she didn’t look at blakely because she was getting emotional. i think the apology was as sincere as apologies get. she always seemed sincere to me, just incredibly childish.
    and i totally agree Jennifer’s comment to Ben about Blakely was the rudest thing she could have said. it seemed bizarre.

    Comment by Angela — March 9, 2012 @ 3:13 pm

  10. GROW THE FK UP ASHLEY. YOU AND YOUR BUSTED UGLY SISTER HAVE THE SAME UGLY ASS FEATURES. YOUR NEW TWITTER AVATAR MAKES YOU LOOK AT LEAST 40 plus YEARS OLD.

    SCARY.

    and that freak Scott. What a dirtbag loser.

    Comment by UGH — March 9, 2012 @ 3:15 pm

  11. UGH – You are my most loyal follower. I thank you for continuing to read and comment on my blog numerous times every week. I admire your determination and effort to creating different names every time but I encourage you to be more creative. You say the same things every time so of course I know it’s you. Thanks for commenting though – the more you view and comment – the more I get paid! YOU’RE THE BEST :)

    Comment by Ashley Spivey — March 9, 2012 @ 4:49 pm

  12. Thank you everyone that leaves comments on this blog whether you agree with my blog or not. It helps to get feed back and know how y’all are feeling about this season! I really appreciate y’all’s comments and thanks for reading!

    Comment by Ashley Spivey — March 9, 2012 @ 4:50 pm

  13. I usually look forward to your blog, Ashley – you’re really creative. But some of your attitudes just seemed juvenile in this one. “Learned their lesson?” The best way to cry (apparently, only your way)? Talking about a tampon is funny, not vulgar?

    I did laugh at your RIP on Ali (worst ‘ette yet, though I think Emily will have a lock on that soon).

    Also, UGH, I didn’t understand your comment to Ashley, when you said she was ugly, yet she looks fabulous 40 (where we all want to be!!). Kind of a contradiction there.

    Comment by Allissa — March 9, 2012 @ 6:36 pm

  14. You’re the best Ashley. I was in shock when Brad let you go!! Anyways, great blog, I love reading it every week. When are you going to become the next bacholorette?

    Comment by Meghan — March 9, 2012 @ 7:53 pm

  15. I love your blog, its totally “winning”.

    Comment by Courtney — March 9, 2012 @ 8:23 pm

  16. Good blog. Very funny. I do my very best not to judge anyone… Not sure why to say except,as always, I wish everyone the very best.

    Comment by elizabeth — March 9, 2012 @ 9:11 pm

  17. UGH- you can get off Ashley’s blog if you’re not gonna say anything nice. Both Ashley and her sister are gorgeous,smart girls. I love Ashley’s new avatar and think it shows how similar she looks to her sis, Alexa! :) Scott is not a freak or loser. He may have said some not so nice things, but he apologized. In any case, he was just looking out for his girlfriend. Ashley, you know I love your blog and you! <3

    Comment by beth — March 9, 2012 @ 9:40 pm

  18. Ashley,
    Your awesome. Your beautiful. Your hilarious. Whoever this “Ugh” is obviously has the mental age of a 14 year old. Amazing how truly ignorant people can be…it worries me for the future.
    Keep up your wit girl!!

    Comment by Amanda — March 10, 2012 @ 12:20 am

  19. I’m glad this season is near over. Does anyone really care who Ben picked? I’m sure had he picked Miss perfect the relationship would go south 3-6 months after the final rose like all of them do. Yeah we all like Kacie B, Emily, Nicki..but lets be real the chances of Ben and them making it is about the same as Courtney.
    Courtney is pushing 29 and women by 30 with no kids their biological clocks tick loud..she is human and no exception. She even mentioned she wants kids and the family, same as all other women on the show, give her a break..so she was extremely competitive and went after what she wanted and got it. kudos to her! I do hope her and Ben have a 50 year marriage and are happy, and I do think with her Ben has passion and respect, and a friendship those are 3 key elements.
    This WTA. I could hardly endure the 2 hrs of it. Just a bunch of bitching and jealousness by the women. They all threw Ben under the Bus (except Kacie and Nicki) thus IMHO these women are all no better then Courtney. Since they didnt get Ben they just have to make fun of him, and wish him the worse..that is just wrong and immature. Micheal here on his blog said that the girls after WTA at the bar were making rude jabs and bad comments at Ben. You know it is a double standard..if Ames and Constantine went to a bar and just ditched on, threw under the bus Ashely they would all be considered the son of Satan after the fact..but if women do it to men its OK..give me a break. Micheal wrote that Rachel, and Emily were the ones who mainly jabed, ditched on, made fun of Ben..Well I hope their next boyfriends take note, cause if they go south..well then they also will be next to be made fun of and thrown under the bus. This is one reason why I love Nicki the entire season..she never threw her x husband under the bus, or never said anything bad about Ben..She is a true women who will stand by, and defend her men! She is the best contestant ever IMHO!

    Comment by Thomas Knight — March 10, 2012 @ 12:26 am

  20. I feel like Ashley was playing it a little safe on this one (Bachelor Episode 10), but understandable. So rude of Ben to greet the women: “Welcome to my nightmare.” disappointing. At the WTA, Emily did look fabulous, but still too angry. Does her personality remind anyone else of Kate Gosselin (of ‘Kate + 8′)? And yes, THE rudest comment was made by Jennifer to Blakely; I was disappointed in her, but I keep forgetting how young these girls are. It would be funny to have Blakely as the next Bachelorette, but too tough to find that many guys who would be ‘her type.’ I’ll miss ya’ll when this is over; it’s like you’re my happy laughing friends.

    Comment by Terri — March 10, 2012 @ 12:41 am

  21. Ashely you said Jenifer made a rude comment to Blakeley. I must have missed that when watching the show. So i went back and watched that segment. WOW!! She says ‘no offense” then makes an offensive comment to this girl. That was BOLD. She obviously thinks she is better then Blakeley, in both personality,her job, and looks to make a statement as such. I was thinking..she would have went insane had that grandmother actually been a contestant and Ben picked her over Jenifer. Imagine the put down she made have made towards grandma.
    Also what is the big deal about taking Blakeley home to meet the family? She was ok. She is pretty, is ladylike in public, and seemed well mannered. So she is cocktail waitress that done some modeling..well so what? So was Gia, and Courtney.
    This chick needs to look inside and see how she can be a better person, before she puts others down. This tends to be a classical physiological thing. People who have low self esteem tend to put others down. its one thing to write a blog and make fun of..that is understood as Ashely does, but to make a personal attack and put down in front of 9 million Americans is just an entire different story. Hope Jennifer can attend a few Tony Robbins seminars, that will help her self esteem, and make her a more positive individual.

    Comment by Thomas Knight — March 10, 2012 @ 12:46 am

  22. Oh my, I didn’t see what Thomas Knight wrote until after I sent my last comment. Good comments by him, and I agree with many of them. Not right if Emily & Rachel were cutting Ben down, when he was right there. But when you remember that they saw new sides of Ben only recently, with the rest of us, one might understand more. So, it might not be totally because they weren’t chosen. Sort of after shock. I agree with Mr. Knight’s comments about Nicki being a classy woman. But sometimes people cut on exes because they were really bad people & did really bad things. Sometimes it’s to laugh & release stress. Maybe Nicki’s ex wasn’t that bad. It’s the degrees to which we do the ripping that we gotta watch.

    Comment by Terri — March 10, 2012 @ 12:54 am

  23. Terri- I understand your statements, and yes we dont know all, but life is about forgiving and forgetting and moving on. I learned long ago that being jealous and not forgiving, and having regrets is no way to live.
    On Nickis X it is posted he was arrest for DUIs and such so i dont think he was a saint. YET she never once threw him under the bus..I’m sure had that been Emily’s or Rachel’s X he would have been more evil then Saddam. It Just goes to show the class of these women. I was born and raised in the deep south, and I knew many women whos husbands were loosers, drunks, cheats..yet many of the women never threw their husbands under the bus..they did like the Tammy Wienette song “Stand By You Man” i could see that from Nicki and Kacie B..both are just great women, and I do think Blakely also would stand by her man through the deep waters. This is what a man needs in life..is a women who will love him, support him, and stand by him when he does wrong. No one is a saint and we all make errors and I think the best quality of a women is one who will stick by her man. Now this doesnt mean if the man is a wife beater she should stick by him..it just means when the water is rough, she’ll stick by him. In 20 years when the lights are faded, the age is showing, and the fantasy suite lost its appeal..the women who is still there and who loves is the winner.

    Comment by Thomas Knight — March 10, 2012 @ 1:07 am

  24. Thomas Knight- I agree with almost everything you said. Clearly Ben and Courtney have a connection. Cannot deny that. However I think the rejected girls are mad because of the skinny dipping, and Ben’s borderline douchebag behavior. but let’s be real, the girls this season are all pretty mean, including Kacie, Nicki. Courtney’s mean and hostile attitude may have contributed to the girls’ bitterness. I don’t think it’s fair to compare these girls’ reactions to that of Constantine and Ames because clearly Ashley H was respectful and honest with them throughout. How do you know that Constantine didnot go to a bar, ditch on and throw Ashley under the bus? I sure he did. You just don’t know.

    Comment by Cindy — March 10, 2012 @ 1:28 am

  25. That’s why I mentioned ‘degrees.’ I never said anything that would indicate that I agree with all women throwing exes ‘under the bus,’ as you say. Or anyone throwing anyone ‘under the bus.’ All I was saying is that there is a time & place for everything, and if someone close to you married a pedophile, a rapist, and so on, largely because “Women stood by their men,” no matter what, & nobody every spoke up, that would be a tragedy. Sorry, I hadn’t read whatever about Nicki’s ex. And who knows whether or not she said ANYthing. It could easily have been edited out. I think she is fantastic, and I was agreeing with you more previously, than I think you realized.

    Comment by Terri — March 10, 2012 @ 1:29 am

  26. I should have typed: to: Thomas Knight on my last comment. Sorry.

    Comment by Terri — March 10, 2012 @ 1:31 am

  27. Cindy- I can’t say your wrong on Bens behavior this season..He wasn’t a gentlemen.For example he didn’t give Kacie no closure, Didnt even walk Emily and Rachel out. Was sort of mean telling Emily ‘tread lightly’. And sure that ‘skinny dipping’ did NOT set well with the women. So sure they have every right to be upset since they did put their lives on hold to meet a husband. And YES Kacie was no saint and made some pretty bad remarks towards Courtney, but in some ways I think it was more defensive then offensive. Courtney was an antagonist to her..saying stuff like ‘howd that feel coming out of your mouth’ So in some ways I can see where Kacie was coming from.
    I tend to agree with some other bloggers that Courtney was put on the show to add drama and say mean stuff. And the reason she was on the WTA was cause much of what she said was just acting and not really her in real life, but I could be wrong. Yes we will never know what Ames ect said of Ashely when they hooked up, but those who did say bad of her were vilified..ie Bentley. im sure some stuff Emily and Rachel said were on Bentley levels “how was I ever even attracted to this scum, he is repulsive, a jerk etc” Betley said those things and he is the worse villain in the history of the show, but surely Emily said Betley lines about Ben and many want her as the next B-ette..go figure.
    Terri- I perfectly understand you, and understood all you wrote in the previous post. Cheers!

    Comment by Thomas Knight — March 10, 2012 @ 1:42 am

  28. T Knight, I agree with everything you said about Emily too. I dont get why people want her to be the bachelorette. She is reasonable enough but i just dont see a soft, vulnerable side of her. Too self-righteous. I watched Ashley H’ analysis of Courtney on E news and she brought up a good point, that Courtney came into this being naive, not knowing that her words could be twisted. I think if Courtney had made friends with the women, the women would not have been so harsh on her and she would have been viewed as Michelle Money. Courtney’s problem is she failed to get along with the key players (Emily, Kacie,..)

    Comment by Cindy — March 10, 2012 @ 1:54 am

  29. Cindy- Yes 100% agree with you on Emily being ‘self righteous’ I could clearly see that even before WTA.She came off to me as having a more ‘superior attitude and a know it all’ Ben said he thinks she is smarter then him..I dont agree with that comment..she is ONLY smarter then the other people in one subject medical-epidemiology. I’m a historian and I am sure I am smarter then her in history, and Jennifer is smarter then her in accounting, and Lindzi know more about horse care and ridding then she will ever..So she aint smarter then no one, she is just a subject matter expert in one field of study thats all. But she likes to be on the pedestal. When Ben said to her ‘I think your smarter then me’ she took it all in..where as she should have said..I just know certain things better then you, but Im not smarter..Im sure Ben know more of grapes and wine for example then she will ever know.She just wants to be the smartest person and the know it all. And on the WTA she was the ring leader, and took on that persona. She needs to get off her high horse. Im glad she wont be the next B-ette. With her better then though attitude all the men would be just flies to her and dumb in her book.
    Yes i did not like Emily too much. My 3 were Kacie B-Nicki and Lindzi. I also think Ben was going to send her home around Panama time, but the producers get a pick and kept her around..Noticed she always got the last rose in like 3 rose ceremonials.

    Comment by Thomas Knight — March 10, 2012 @ 2:07 am

  30. Great Blog Ashley! So funny. I look forward to it every week.

    I still wonder why the girls didn’t call Ben out on the skinny dipping, or even ask him about it. What do you think? Maybe they did but it was edited out?

    Are you going to continue blogging for Bachelorette & Bachelor Pad 3? I hope so! :)

    Comment by Bella — March 10, 2012 @ 5:20 am

  31. Ashley, your blog was entertaining to read! I agree with most of your thoughts. I really agree with your thoughts on Courtney…how disappointing that Ben actually picks her! I can’t wait for the break-up!

    Comment by Christine Chaos — March 10, 2012 @ 7:36 am

  32. Again, I always looked forward to your blog Ashley, and thought this season of The Bachelor was entertaining (not that I’d like to see them all move in that direction). Yes, I agree what many are saying about Emily on these blogS, and I’ve previously said she came across as self-righteous. With regards to Courtney, I’m not as much of a ‘hater’ as others were (not referring to this blog). However, if you haven’t already, you might want to check out the video on YouTube with deleted scenes with her criticizing the entire group of girls (except for blonde Casey, since Casey is her ‘informer.’). It’s bizarre; Courtney attacks the group of girls & Lindzi (probably the ones Ben shows most attention to). In a group, indoor room setting, Courtney attacks Lindzi and claims Lindzi was giving Elyse (dark-haired, personal trainer) dirty looks, looking her up & down. Courtney mimics Lindzi and the group looks befuddled. Lindzi reacted in a classy way, just looked honestly surprised at Courtney & doesn’t backlash. In the single interviews, Courtney says she was ” least impressed with Lindzi & thinks when Ben gave her the ‘First Impression’ Rose, he was giving it to the horse!” To Blakely, Courtney says: “Blakely, you look like the type of girl your boyfriend cheats on you with…” Courtney tells a large group of the girls, while she gloats: “I get along REALLY well with MEN. I’ve ALWAYS had a boyfriend, ” ** She tells the group of girls that people don’t like her because of her looks (which is probably true sometimes but very arrogant & condescending, especially in a room of equally beautiful women). **On the other hand, she tells Ben she “hasn’t been out on a date in a LONG time,” and doesn’t get asked out very often. She laughs to the group of girls to their faces, and says: “I see the way Ben looks at MEE..” And yes, of course, Courtney does and says rude things to Nicki (“Nicki, you look like an idiot.”, “Kacie, How’d that taste coming out of your mouth .,” (in addition to the Kacie has body of a boy comment) and “Good look, Emily .. nice ponytail ….” To Bella’s question about the girls not calling Ben out on the skinny dipping. Maybe they were afraid he’d put one of them on the hotseat if they asked! You would have thought they might have made a comment. Maybe they thought they’d be easy on him, either just because they liked him, or because they thought he was available, and like Jamie, want to keep their options open! NOT :) )

    Comment by Terri — March 10, 2012 @ 7:56 am

  33. Thomas and Terri- you guys are just a tad bit too much into this show. I fear for your mental health. You are way too invested into fictional characters. Stay away from all sharp objects, especially during menstration.

    Comment by Jamie — March 10, 2012 @ 10:19 am

  34. Thanks Ashley. Once again, you are on point in your observations. Michael said it was Rachel who made jabbing comments about Ben or something that happened on the season and NOT Emily.
    We all watched the show and we know what we saw and what we heard. Everyone is accountable for what they say and the way they act. Action and reaction are equal and opposite (law of physics). Once again, nice blog!

    Comment by Yinye — March 10, 2012 @ 12:05 pm

  35. If you ‘fear for someone’s mental health,’ Jamie, oh gimme a break! Puhlease. Thomas has been ‘replied to,’ by many people other than myself. Other people asked questions. And as Ashley S. says, the more comments, the more she gets paid & stays on. And I like her & her blog. By the way, I’m in severe physical pain, can’t get around too much, and this helps (err -was helping). But a person like Jamie (on the blog) probably would never understand that.

    Comment by Terri — March 10, 2012 @ 12:08 pm

  36. As far as Jamie calling them ‘fictional’ characters, she might want to check out blogs and comments on PBS series ‘Downton Abbey.’ People are much more invested, and they actually are fictional. I guess some people don’t know “THE BACHELOR” and “THE BACHELORETTE” have real live people on them – not fiction.

    Comment by Terri — March 10, 2012 @ 12:12 pm

  37. @Comment by Jamie — March 10, 2012 @ 10:19 am
    I think so! too invested in this crap. thanks. i needed that!!! Cheers and thanks!

    Comment by Thomas Knight — March 10, 2012 @ 12:14 pm

  38. Also- those who said ‘fictional characters” ohhh hardly every women would have got nude with Ben no matter how much they dish..Ohh and many blogs say Emily and Blakeley have intercourse with Ben..He is said to have laid 5 women this season..and I am 99% sure Emily was one of them.
    Nuff of this holier then thou crap.These chicks are no more righteous then the M@M Brothers.
    If i would bet I would say Ben was on a mission to sleep with as many as he could..and he did 5. Douche ….yes…but to him it was mission accomplished.

    Comment by Thomas Knight — March 10, 2012 @ 12:23 pm

  39. If Emily had sex with Ben, why would she call him out on skinny dipping and ultimately accusing him on having sex and thinking of sex therefore sabotaging the real intent of developing relationships?
    If you watch back on all Emily’s dates with Ben, you will notice that Ben was actually the one initiating all physical contacts with Emily. Ben initiated most of the kissing, holding of hands and even hugs. Emily was not very emotional with Ben and I think that didn’t go well with Ben.

    Comment by Yinye — March 10, 2012 @ 12:58 pm

  40. I’d tend to lean more toward what Yinye says about Emily -not having sex and not emotional (enough) as far as Ben was concerned.

    Comment by Terri — March 10, 2012 @ 1:18 pm

  41. Sorry, when I typed that long excerpt at 5am (8amPST), I really thought many or most of those scenes had not been aired on The Bachelor show. I didn’t recall having seen many of them. (YouTube Examiner Is Model Courtney Rob… Manipulating .. 2/28/12). I must have confused it with one marked ‘.deleted scenes.’ That’s what I get for typing @5am! Sorry again if I screwed up.

    Comment by Terri — March 10, 2012 @ 5:10 pm

  42. Yinye- I cant confirm if Ben had sex with Emily, but let us also not be naive. Mike Fliess even says the ave bachelor sleeps with 3 women while on his season, and many blogs and some tabloids say Ben slept with 5 women this season. So this alone says that some women were indeed really drawn towards Ben..and thus we cant say it is fictional.
    I only tried to think who the other 2 women were “I am 99% sure he made love to all 3 of his fantasy suite gals” obviously he did Lindzi and Courtney “Look at the photo him and Lindzi that is near rated X. Anyway I think the other 2 ladies were most likely Emily and Blakeley..Or Emily and Kacie B (Kacie was way too overly invested for a gal who never slept with a man she was dating) Yinye- We only seen what TV wanted us to see with Ben and Emily..Im sure they made out much more then was shown.
    After watching this season, watching the skinny dipping,and viewing Bens youtube rap video. I think Ben was not on the show to find a wife, but to get laid with as many chicks as he could…YES HE IS A DOUCHE, and I think the tabloids are correct saying Ben slept with 5 women this season..one tabloid says Ben is even going around bragging about this stunt. One must realize without TV Ben was likely getting 1 date a year, then he becomes the bachelor and has 25 hot women to pick from..He was like a kid in a candy store. No wonder he went crazy over that model Courtney. The dude is hardlt fit, has a butt cut hair style and really is your ave Joe a chick would find at the local bar. He is hardly Brad Pitt.
    Emily OBrian and Ben..Most likely the best guess..Most are sort of nerdy and both likely sexually depraved before the show. Also would explain all the animosity Emily had towards Ben on the WTA..aint no chick would be like her who only had 2 dates with the guy who she suppose never slept with.

    Comment by Thomas Knight — March 10, 2012 @ 7:17 pm

  43. Like I said earlier, Emily’s body language didn’t indicate that she was that intimate with Ben. Go watch their dates. Ben was the one initiating the physical contacts they had. Even when they kissed, Ben was the one pulling her to him. She held her emotions in check.
    I think Emily is hurt because of the way Ben threatened and treated her when she was only looking out for him and finding out that she had been disrespected all along by his skinny dipping and sex with Courtney was the last straw. No right thinking woman would accept that from any man.

    Comment by Yinye — March 10, 2012 @ 7:34 pm

  44. Your right.

    Comment by Pennie — March 10, 2012 @ 9:53 pm

  45. Yinye- OK, we must realize that these women who are on the show are stuck in a home 24-7, have no TV, phones, music..and all they are thinking about is the bachelor and how to get a rose..and some women would do anything for a rose..and that means slept with the guy.
    Like I said I am not sure if Emily did sleep with Ben, but I would say it is a good guess that Ben and Emily did it. I went back and watched Emily-Bens 1st date in SF, at the meal she was open mouthed sexually kissing Ben..I didnt see where she ws ‘cold’ towards Ben As a guy I thought her body language around Ben was sexual and aggressive.Same with Blakeley. Thats why I think those were the 2 others he slept with and if not Emily..then the wildcard goes to Kacie B.

    Comment by Thomas Knight — March 10, 2012 @ 11:32 pm

  46. What are the odds Courtney was a ploy planted by ABC for drama? She is a model/actress. It explains her heartlessness. I think they may both have been in on it.

    Comment by Anne — March 11, 2012 @ 12:21 am

  47. Anne- I’m near sure Courtney was a paid actress -plot put there to add drama. This is why we seen a totally new Courtney at the WTA, because all the evilness, bad comments etc were really just her acting to add drama.Thats why I think in real life she is a decent person. I think each season The bachelor has a few paid actors…think Bentley, Michelle Money….I didnt really expect Courtney to make it to hometown dates..I am surprised ABC let her last till that ‘and till the end’

    Comment by Thomas Knight — March 11, 2012 @ 12:27 am

  48. Again, in SF who initiated the open mouth kissing? It was Ben. She went for a hug initially but Ben when in for a kiss. Go back and watch. Even the on the group date after party in panama her body language did not say Emily was intimate with him. Notice he was the one holding her hands. They were on his laps; he also initiated the kissing, open mouth and all. Emily had said earlier on the rejection and heights were the two things she feared most. She was guarded all through the process.
    In Belize, Ben initiated the kissing and all and they weren’t physical while discussing during dinner. As at the time she left she had only told Ben-she instantly liked him, her family would love him and that her family would see she was happy with him. That tells it all.

    Comment by Yinye — March 11, 2012 @ 12:57 am

  49. @ thomas, perharps this link will help you understand better.-http://www.wetpaint.com/the-bachelor/gallery/what-ben-flajniks-body-language-says-about-his-remaining-bachelorettes-kiss-kiss-bang-bang-photos/photo/ben-flajnik-and-blakeley-shea-kiss-on-the-bachelor-season-16-episode-6

    Comment by Yinye — March 11, 2012 @ 1:51 am

  50. @ thomas, perhaps this may also help you too-http://www.wetpaint.com/the-bachelor/gallery/what-ben-flajniks-body-language-says-about-his-remaining-bachelorettes-kiss-kiss-bang-bang-photos/photo/ben

    Comment by Yinye — March 11, 2012 @ 3:08 am

  51. Yinye- I viewed those pics over at wetpaint. Yeah that one pic with Emily near the pool does look as if she is being reserved. maybe they didnt have sexual intercourse…But from my viewing of the season i would have picked her as one of the 5. I also doubt he had sex with Kacie B..mainly cause when they were on that romantic isle they were doing survivor stuff. if it was a man who was really into Kacie B..that date would have looked more the the Chris Isaak – Wicked Game video on youtube. I didnt see any romance on that Isle date with Kacie. After that date I knew her days were numbered.
    So who was the mystery women Ben slept with then..its pretty clear he did 5 of them. Maybe Rachel? But i dont see that. Thus my process of elimination points to Emily again.

    Comment by Thomas Knight — March 11, 2012 @ 3:23 am

  52. http://jenfrase.blogspot.com/2012/02/bachelor-recap-ben-swims-in-butthole-i.html

    This blog says Ben got paid 300K to be on the show and confirms that he laid 5 women while doing his season here is a cut>
    Aaaaaaanyhoo, let’s get to it. We are down to six chicks this week. I admit I watched this show with a different attitude this week. For one, I just met Ben a few nights ago, and although he was perfectly nice, I felt pretty strongly about the fact that he just wanted to go on the show to promote his wine business. Now when I watch it, I’m kind of mad at him. What a douche bag thing to do…Chicks get REALLY into this show, so it’s kind of dick to purposefully go into it knowing you’ll hurt people. I admit I’m kind of an asshole too, but this seems extra mean.

    I was trying to talk myself out of this, when I heard some horrible Ben gossip from a very reliable source. Without telling you who it was, this person is one degree away from Benny, so I trust it. I suppose you never REALLY know the true story, but from what I can gather from my very limited journalistic fact-checking skills (um none), I think what I heard was true.

    This person tells me Ben wholeheartedly DID go on the show solely to promote the business. He had no intention of picking anyone. He was paid a lot of money to go on the show. I can’t tell you the exact amount, but I’ll tell you it was somewhere between $299,000 and $301,000. And remember a couple weeks ago when he got naked with Courtney in the water and we were wondering if they had sex? So yeaaaaaah, he had sex with FIVE chicks on the show. Nice.

    Comment by Thomas Knight — March 11, 2012 @ 3:46 am

  53. The truth really is that the women won. They came out of this experience way better- in every area I might add – than the so called bachelor who has earned himself some unbecoming names for all time!

    Comment by Yinye — March 11, 2012 @ 12:27 pm

  54. I think bringing Ashley and JP onto Ben’s final rose show is as insensitive and as having Holly Durst blindside Michael Stagliano by announcing her engagement to Blake in front of the cameras, in front of millions , and right before the vote.

    When I read Ashley H’s comments about Ben skinny dipping with C.R. meaning that he ” pretty much had sex with her” and “pretty much married her” and that this ripped off the other women and if she were one of them she’d be pissed, reminded me of the old adage, “People in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones”. I guess she would know about having sex with Ben seeing that she “ripped off” the other men when he didn’t return until a.m. from their 1-0n-1 date (” because she needed to see if they had “an emotional and physical connection”)and that later in the journey she “pretty much had sex” with both JP AND Ben in the Fantasy Suite so she is “pretty much married” to both of them! I know it’s mean but the one person in the so called bachelor “Family” who HURT and HUMILIATED Ben the most was Ashley. In fact she deceived him before Courtney ever did so the last person who should be throwing any stones whatsoever at him is her. She kept trying to tell people that she didn’t see what everybody else saw but was being treated as if she had. Michelle tried to warn her, Chris Harrison tried, the producers tried but she didn’t listen and was bashed for it. Ben’s situation is exactly the same. If she has no sympathy for him and can’t support him then how about saying nothing. I’d put Ben’s character up against hers any day. After watching her entire season I’d say her moral compass is as broken as the one West gave her.

    Comment by Jennifer S — March 11, 2012 @ 6:45 pm

  55. Yinya-I totally agree about Ben is now in the top 3 of all time worse bachelors..Jake-Ben and Bob.
    I dont think the women ‘won’ they didnt win anything but 15 minutes of fame. And most of this seasons women are just not appealing if inside or out. Lets look at a few
    Jaclyn- I have no idea she was ever even casted for this. Not only the most unattractive women this season, her inner beauty is ugly esp how she treated Shawtel newton “Who was one of the hottest chicks of the 25″
    Samantha- Was rumored to have been sleeping with a producer on the show..And they sent her home the easy way telling Ben to get rid of her. She is a loud mouth , and fame whore seeker.I wish they would have done a Roselyn stunt with her instead to smear her. She got off lucky.
    Blakeley-I like her, but she is 34 or 35 now..Ben is 28, The chance of her ever getting to the final 2 was 0% Again dont even understand why she went on the show beyond wanting 15 minutes.Was no way in the world 28 year old Ben was going to pick her.
    Rachel-A very attractive women, but not a good communicator..that Utah date was hard to endure. I guess she needs a man who does 99% of all the talking.
    Kasey b- Hardly the good Christian. Has a potty mouth, and talked quit bad about Courtney.Also coming from a Puritan family is radical.I’m sure had her parents been born in 1650 they would have been the main instigators of the Salem Witch trials.
    Nicki- My favorite girl..she just was all around good.

    Comment by Thomas Knight — March 11, 2012 @ 6:48 pm

  56. Jennifer S- Yes totally a double standard. Ashely and Ben on that 1-1 date did sleep together, and they did again in the fantasy suite. Yes everyone gets mad at Ben for skinny dipping with CR, but no one got mad at Ashely when she had like 7 men left and Ben returned in the AM “any man would know they had sex” If you go back and watch that episode you can see all the men were upset esp JP. Also it is rumored that Ashely slept with Bentley in the early stages..that is why she grew very attached to him. When her and Brad went to the Fantasy Suite..I dont know if they made love, cause it was not very sexual, they seemed to have lost their vibe. But who knows..
    I think Ashley was the worse B-ette ever. Not too pretty, a bit slutty, and kind of dumb.

    Comment by Thomas Knight — March 11, 2012 @ 7:00 pm

  57. To Jennifer S.’s comment here – Eww, re: Ashley H. making such comments about Courtney and Ben skinny dipping “.married,” etc. — that’s pretty much like the pot calling the kettle black. Ashley shouldn’t have said anything. Haven’t read the comments to which you are referring yet, but I saw an earlier (I’m guessing) video interview with Ashley and J.P., and Ashley did stay a bit quieter. J.P. just said something like: ‘hmmmm, strange – I got to know Ben pretty well, and Courtney is definitely not who I would pick for him.’ That would have been enough from both of them. I wasn’t crazy about Ashley H. but I really liked J.P. I hope we don’t end up hearing any condescending advice or ‘lessons’ from Ashley H. to Ben on ‘The Final Rose,’ if they’re going to be there.

    Comment by Terri — March 11, 2012 @ 8:00 pm

  58. Hilarious, as usual. “Jazz hands” is definitely my favorite. And, I totally agree about Brad being better; he actually seemed happy to see everybody on his WTA.

    Comment by Sarah — March 12, 2012 @ 5:55 am

  59. @Thomas Knight and Terri: your later comments are more than ridiculous!! THose are rumors and they are false. here are facts: NO Ashley H didnot sleep with Bentley or Ben.

    And Ashley H is the best bachelorette ever. She knew how to navigate the process to get her own love story. I’m guessing you are the same people from ABC board like spaceship or sport or whoever haters out there; or one of you must be abysmala.. who ‘s been spreading those stupid rumors on all Ashley ‘s season youtube clips.

    And no you dont know if ben slept with 5 women or not either. Stop being a troll

    Comment by the bachelorette for dummies — March 12, 2012 @ 12:43 pm

  60. @bachelorette for dummies: You should get your facts straight and see who wrote what. I never said anyone slept with anyone. If you would have read, I stood up to Thomas and supported Emily, by saying I agree with YINYE that Emily probably did not have sex. I wasn’t a hater of Ashley H. and said nothing about her being a ‘bad bachelorette,’ having sex, etc. My writings were nothing like ‘Thomas Knight’s', & mine were much milder than many, many OTHERS on here.

    Comment by Terri — March 12, 2012 @ 1:04 pm

  61. @ bachelorette for dummies: Can you please SUPPORT your comments and attack at me and tell me WHERE on here (or any other blog) that I said – or even insinuated – that Ashley slept with Bentley or Ben?! or anyone?! And I certainly did NOT call her names like some others have.

    Comment by Terri — March 12, 2012 @ 1:13 pm

  62. oh I’m sorry Terri. I meant @ Thomas and jennifer S. Not you. I’m terribly sorry!

    Comment by the bachelorette for dummies — March 12, 2012 @ 1:19 pm

  63. @bachelorette for dummies. Thanks, and apology accepted. I can understand why you’d be an Ashley H. fan. :)

    Comment by Terri — March 12, 2012 @ 1:47 pm

  64. OMG! Can you please always write this blog. You are so freakin funny! Courtney sucks. She gives this show a bad name.

    Comment by julie — March 12, 2012 @ 6:30 pm

  65. This totally made me lol .. It’s so funny I love it.

    Comment by Shingles — March 12, 2012 @ 7:31 pm

  66. @ bachelorette for dummies- hey Ashley and Ben both put themselves out there for both the media and tabloids. And yes reliable sources are claiming that Ben is bragging about his 5 conquest. Their are a few people who have connections and the knowledge of Bens adventures. Do i think he slept with 5 women..YES I do.Just watch this season..watch the fantasy suite stuff..the man clearly went on the show for easy lays.
    And on Ashley H, I hardly think she is the Virgin Mary..And seeing ben this season I would go all in to say she and ben had sex.

    Comment by Thomas Knight — March 13, 2012 @ 1:27 am

  67. To Thomas Knight- you took the words right out of my comment lol! Natalie episode 10. About tread lightly,skinny dipping and giving the women no explanation when Ben let them go. Exactly!

    Comment by Jennifer Z. — March 13, 2012 @ 2:28 am

  68. I would like to thank ALL OF THE BROADCASTERS AND TABLOIDS for giving us the opportunity to see a PERVERT in action. Every man wants a girl to strip and act like they are 4 just to make them feel like a man. WHUUU WHOO abc you get and A+ in my book. Those two will stay together because that is exactly how her parents stayed together he mother acts like a baby too. http://www.facebook.com/cybamed –http://chat24seven.blogspot.com/

    Comment by Cynthia Baker — March 13, 2012 @ 8:31 am

  69. The only reason CR couldn’t carry hand gun is because she is not of AGE.. NOW, there’s some reality for ya ABC. I have previous knowledge to perverts, I was kidnapped with I was 7 and male perversion has continued since, I am now 53…like I told my girl friend last night, after the show, I think I’ll just go shoot myself. http://www.facebook.com/cybamed –http://chat24seven.blogspot.com/

    Comment by Cynthia Baker — March 13, 2012 @ 8:36 am

  70. Reply to Cynthia Baker’s comments. I’m not on facebook. Otherwise I would have posted at that site. Possibly someone there can give her references of sites for help and HOPE.

    Comment by Terri — March 13, 2012 @ 4:27 pm

  71. Ben Flajnik Cream Dream http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XWt_DifczOM

    Comment by andy — March 14, 2012 @ 3:34 pm

  72. I’m laughing so hard (not at all at andy’s reminder of Ben’s disgusting YouTube video). But if you want to lighten up & laugh: 1) someone said that Ben looks just like FRANCINE of the cartoon ‘ARTHUR’ — same hairstyle, etc. You should check it out. and 2) when quoting what Ben said in his Final Bachelor Blog, a site’s author wrote that he said he & Courtney broke up because of “lack of pubic support..” (no I didn’t forget the letter ‘l.’)

    Comment by Terri — March 14, 2012 @ 10:13 pm

  73. @andy — Thanks for giving me a reference to Ben’s classic taste in music video theme and composition. You’re a doll. http://www.facebook.com/cybamed –http://chat24seven.blogspot.com/

    Comment by Cynthia Baker — March 15, 2012 @ 9:50 am

  74. You are so good! I just discovered you a few weeks ago and you’re writing is delightful.

    This was the worst season ever. Ben, who seemed to have somewhat of a personality during Ashley’s season, turned out to be a cold douchebag who did not exactly exhibit gentlemanly behavior.

    I’m still trying to figure out how Courtney did the one tear trick. Did she pinch herself and a tear only came out of one eye? Or did she only hace time to put visine in one eye before the camera came back to her?

    Linszi…you lucky, lucky woman. And you are so diplomatic not calling it “dodging a bullet.” You looked so happy and relieve to be out of there. At what point did you realize you and Ben had no chemistry, and you were there because Courtney didn’t see you as a threat?

    You are worth 100 Courtney’s! The audience really didn’t get to know you well, due to it becoming The Courtney Show, but you will find someone deserving of you some day. Sorry ABC and Ben chose to use you like they did.

    Thanks again for the fun read!

    Comment by Karyn — March 15, 2012 @ 4:32 pm

  75. gotta watch this!

    http://www.starpulse.com/news/Kevin_Blair/2012/03/17/david_spade_spoofs_the_bachelor_in_hil

    Comment by Francesca — March 18, 2012 @ 6:41 pm

  76. Good info and right to the point. I don’t know if this is really the best place to ask but do you guys have any ideea where to get some professional writers? Thanks :)

    Comment by Andrew Pelt — May 30, 2012 @ 12:50 pm

  77. Ben is without doubt a big jerk asshole. Some of these ladies aren’t attracted to him and can’t understand how these other gorgeous fellows are so head over heels into him. He might think of himself as a nice guy but he is definitely the bad dude. Women really do love jerks. Some people think it’s because he’s rich. ($100,000-$150,000 per year isn’t that wealthy, to be honest.) Because he has a bad hair and he is not beautiful. By Jan 2012, Courtney’s mom didn’t keep it a secret “I wouldn’t pick him out of a crowd for my daughter. Physically he’s nowhere near the drop dead lookers Courtney has dated. She can do better than him i.e. Jesse Metcalfe, Adrian Grenier, Jim Toth [and some more Hollywood nymphs and photographers.]” (Now we all are confirmed about where Court got her sass from.) This girl was recruited by Abercrombie & Fitch at 18. Sure enough her BFs were hotter than Ben. And by Nov 2012, she cuddled with Arie, the ultimate prince.

    Comment by Flower — April 12, 2013 @ 5:04 pm

  78. Court’s apology is like when a teenager steals her dad car for some romantic getaway with her BF and wrecks it or accidentally burns down her neighbor’s tree house. She’s sorry but she’s still thinking “Yeah right, nobody can do no wrong but me.”, “Everything I do is always regarded as manipulative, mean, evil, fake, callous, vain, all satanic… I’m just too tired to explain right now.”, “Those cruel producers and the editing team puts all my obscenities together and use it over and over again in a row. I’ve got no chance, no airtime for the nicer moments.”, “Most of the times, I sleep, I’m going smooth with my solitude yet some of these b*tches don’t leave me alone. I only confront b*tches who have the audacity to trash me behind my back. I gotta teach them some lessons.” She’s still thinking “Why do y’all have to take every bit I say so personal. Gimme a break.” When ppl ask her about the snarks that come out of her mouth. She’s not pround of her actions at all but she’s stll justifying it in her mind, she’s still blaming other factors. Except for the part that she’s too pround to accept an apology. She should be nice to ppl who are nice to her regarding the only females who accept her are her sister, her best friend, a few of her old friends and Casey S. Everybody else just thinks she’s weird even those who are nice to her, kind of like Kalon McMahon, if not a downright b*tch. She might be sorry but she’s not feeling guilty at all. It’s kind of like everybody is at least a little bit mean, everybody makes mistakes, everybody has his/her moments and flaws but in the end I got all the blames.
    I think the producers also script her apology on the show since it’s pretty obvious that she’s gonna win. I don’t think she herself is feeling it at all. She had not yet seen how she has been portrayed, she didn’t know how terrible she had come across. Like when Kalon apologized about the baggage comment. Was he feeling it? No. He even later dissed that whoever believe he really feels guilty about that are too naive for TV. The difference is Court had really humilated herself on TV but what goes through her mind is that “That is so taken out of the context.” “My jokes go over a lot of people’s heads and turn 180 degrees..” She has a condescending pretentious attitude “These are not the people that I’d be friends with in real life.” And she had stirred up some dramas at the cocktail party by accusing Lindzi of secretly hating on other people.” But because she’s always on her own side, she doesn’t see that. She thinks she’s just being honest about the accusations. While Kalon has never said stuff so personal and outrageous (only for 2 ppl – Doug and Emily then a bunch of their friends.) The word has its connotation but these ppl are so self-image focused that she feels the need to protect her child from the slightest thing such as a hamster that ran out of the cage and for the sake of anger/drama/the need to show she’s not just nice and boring. It’s stupid and not nice but still boring. How predictable is that? Very desperate attempt to demonstration of the inner psycho. Doug is a hot mess, nuff said. Is Kalon offensive? Yes. Is Courtney offensive? Yes. The thing is Kalon gets so much hype from females, gay males, pussified males and professional ass-kisser Chris Harrison, plus Kalon is male. Courtney on the other hand continues to shoot herself in the foot by confiding in the producers with her sass about her competitors.

    Comment by Corona — April 14, 2013 @ 6:49 am

  79. Court is not that bad of a person. There’re unfortunately still much more bitchier women around. She just stayed the longest and lived in the moment with a mean spirit a little too much before she considered how much of those could have been used against her. Most other girls bashed on Jamie Otis just like the way Court bashes most other girls. In all fairness they didnt show that

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