David Good’s Bachelorette Blog: Episode 2

I have got a lot of slack about saying that I feel this season of guys is a good bunch.  I guess a lot of people disagree.  (Oh how spoiled we all get.) J There are guys on this show that rank in the 99% of wealth, smarts, charming, looks and with good personalities yet everyone thinks they suck. Maybe we all just want some mystical creature that is perfect for Emily?  If this is the case I will let it slide but give some of these guys some credit where credit is due.

Give me your top 3 in the comments below.  I want to see whom ya’ll think is good for her and who you like so far.  Maybe I am being to easy on them?  Let’s get the show started!

I love the fact they are filming the show in Charlotte.  I believe this is a first.  This shows how much ABC and Emily care about the well being of little Ricki.  Props to both.

Ryan gets the first one-on-one.  He is my favorite so far.  He has confidence and is pretty laid back.  Seems polite and has some good Man Code qualities. J I think he will for sure get a rose.

WOW!  They are going to Em’s house to put away groceries and make cookies for Ricki’s soccer team.  I would love this date.  First off I am a bad a@# cook and would definitely put her to shame in the kitchen.  I’ll bet you money Emily.  ;)    Get me a stove, grill and sit and drink some wine.  Rose would be mine!

Emily does not want Ryan to meet Ricki yet and I agree with this 100% and he respects it.  I think he was a little upset about not getting a huge extravagant date but I think in the long run it will be better for him.

They do have a night part of the date still to go so it will probably get even better.   Yep! OMG my dream car.  I love Aston Martins.  Sex on wheels!  He gets to drive to a dinner date with her.  Emily is really dealing out some hard questions at dinner.  Some great questions about whether he thinks this is a game with the other guys.  Ryan does a great job handling the Q and A and seems to be sincere in his answers with her.

Haha… I was just about to say he reminds me a little of Brad and she literally just said that.  He speaks the same and has some of the same mannerisms.   Even with that he gets the rose.

When they get up to leave they walk out the corner to a huge crowd and Gloriana playing.  They danced in front of a huge crowd.  I have to say that I love the song they played.  They killed it!

You could see he wanted to kiss her but she was putting it off so he got the cheek.  I have a feeling that is going to be a theme throughout this show.  I wonder who will get the first real kiss.  WHO DO YOU THINK?

Next is the group date. They are raising money for a charity close to Emily, The Levine Children’s Hospital. HAHAHAH…They are going to be performing with the Muppets!  Everyone knows the Muppets; if you don’t your not human.   The guys are going to be performing stand up comedy.  This would be so much fun.

Charlie is freaking out…like freaking out.  Like a 6 year old girl that just saw a spider…or me when if I see a spider.  Same thing.  He actually goes to Emily to talk to her about it and say’s he can’t actually do it.  He has insecurities about speaking in front of people still because of some issues of a past accident.  I feel bad for the poor guy.  That had to be hard to do.  She lets it slide and gives him a different part where he can just dance and reassures him it is ok.

The theatre they are performing in is pretty big and over 500 people are there!  Miss piggy calls Aaron, Charlie and Jef to the stage for a dating game.  Charlie is sweating it big time but when called upon Charlie came through and performed under pressure.  Good for him!  Emily actually killed it!  She did so well in front of the crowd.  Kermit then calls Ricki up to the stage.  She is so cute.  She nailed it!  Michael said “it was neat to see her with Ricki” but every time he speaks I wonder if he is a woman under that hair?  Might be a nice guy/girl but his hair weirds me out.  The show looked pretty good and the guys did a good job.  What a cool experience.

Question:  Is the voice of Miss Piggy a girl or a guy?

After the group date they all go back to a cocktail party.  Emily sits down with Chris and tells him “he is really good looking” and Chris is super flattered and that had to be a huge confidence booster.

Emily sits down with Jef and say’s “I am super uncomfortable around you” but I think it was a good thing because she is interested in him.

Back in the house Joe gets the one-on-one date card.  I have a feeling Joe is going home.  I don’t know why he just kind of acts weird to me.   We will see.

Stevie is spending time with Emily dancing and Kalon comes along and wants to chat.  Right after he sits down Aaron comes along and asked to talk with her and Kalon asked for 2 more minutes and Aaron says no.  Emily is feeling really awkward and Kalon is very mature about it and says, “ok I don’t want to put you in this spot, I will go.”  I thought he handled that very well.

Stevie and Kalon are not getting along in the house and it has only been 3 days.  That is not a good sign.   I see major issues, obviously in the near future.

Jef ends up getting the rose on the group date and Chris is really upset about it saying, “there is no way they had as good of a conversation as we did.”  Well buddy you can’t really say that.  She might be connecting with someone else in the house as well as you.

Next up is Joe’s one-on-one date.  He is picked up in a limo and taken to the airport and they are taking A PRIVATE JET TO WEST VIRGINIA to her hometown!  They are going to The Greenbrier a REALLY old school high-end resort/hotel.  At least he gets a cool date before she sends him packing. J

Back in the house Kalon and Doug have a little dispute because Kalon said he thinks Doug is putting on hold being a dad to come to this show.  I don’t think he meant harm by it but Doug really got upset and told him basically to apologize and “check it.”

Kalon has a weird approach with his words.  I don’t think it was that big of deal honestly but the way he says things pisses people off.

Joe and Em have a talk at dinner and Joe is really just shooting himself in the foot.  I can tell she does not like him at all.  Could tell from the jump.  He seems like he is just along for the ride here to me and not really up for the challenges that would be in store for him.  It is really hard for her to tell him and she gets upset..  L

Emily’s mom is super hot!  HELLLOOO Em hook your boy up!  J

Ryan wrote a note for Emily and Tony had to sit and watch her read the whole thing.  It was just a little long!  Like Seven pages!  Poor Tony.

He redeems himself though and they have a great time and he breaks the news that he also has a 5-year-old son.

For the first time since I have seen the show I feel like it is actually a positive to have a kid.

At the Rose Ceremony Emily sends home Aaron and Kyle.  Good choices in my book.

It is late has been a really long day and I am spent!  That is all for this one.  See you next week!  I know my grammar is not the best but extra sorry for this one!  Had to do it 35,000ft in the air and super worn out.  Ya’ll have a good week!

P.S. – Still want to know your top 3 so far!

D

 

59 Comments »

  1. my faves are jef, doug, arie and sean

    Comment by lola — May 23, 2012 @ 12:23 pm

  2. “I have got a lot of slack about saying that I feel this season of guys is a good bunch.” I think you either meant “Flack” or “Haven’t gotten a lot of slack” cause slack means the opposite of what your next sentence is saying. Anyhoo sorry to nitpick. Overall a very entertaining blog!! :-)

    Comment by Heather — May 23, 2012 @ 12:33 pm

  3. Hi Dave,

    My top three:

    1. Charlie – He had a hard time on the group date, but I was impressed with how he handled himself on stage nonetheless. He seems sweet and super hot as well.

    2. Ryan – He’s both mild mannered and confident, which seems like a good fit for Emily.

    3. Tie: Doug and Tony – I don’t know enough about them yet, but they both seem like devoted dads, and I think these guys may fit into Emily’s lifestyle better than some of the others.

    Comment by Phoebe — May 23, 2012 @ 12:39 pm

  4. I think she’s got a good bunch of guys, but my number one is definitely Jef! He seems really down to earth and sweet. My top 3: 1) Jef 2) Arie 3) Sean

    Comment by Mette — May 23, 2012 @ 12:48 pm

  5. Great blog Dave! I feel the same way about Kalon and I know he’s probably going to be a “villain” this season but I think he is probably just a little insecure and unsure of himself… He’s still pretty young and clearly has more money then he knows what to do with so I think he kind of hides behind that. Clearly I’m not a shrink though – so who knows!

    Anyways – My top 3 are: Arie, Arie and Arie.. Well okay if I have to pick two others… I like Charlie and Ryan as well. I really like Doug but I can’t decide yet if Emily really wants a guy that already has a kid – that would be another big adjustment for Ricki.

    Comment by Candice — May 23, 2012 @ 12:50 pm

  6. Top 3

    1. Jef- From some of his people water videos and what I have so far seen/heard about him, I think he is very mature. Much more mature than most of the guys in the house. Will be a very good pick for Emily. Also gets along great with kids. Not to mention that he is very good looking. I think he should win.

    2. Doug- This guy is a MAN. There is something ridiculously sexy and manly about him, and I love that he has a son and seems like a great dad. Let’s not forget that he seems completely normal compared to some of the other weirdos.

    3. Used to be Ryan. In fact, Ryan used to be in spot #2. That is until I saw his date. Sure he seems like a nice guy, but they didn’t have much chemistry. And in the later part of the date, he turned very cocky and arrogant. Cracking his gum obnoxiously and pretending like some hot shot A list celebrity when he saw all the fans waiting for him and Em. Just don’t like him anymore. Not a good fit for Emily.

    Now, because its NOT Ryan anymore, I think my #3 is Sean.
    We haven’t seen much, but he seems like a sweetheart, and completely normal. We’ll just have to wait and see. Charlie is pretty nice too. Seems like a geniune guy.

    Comment by Kara — May 23, 2012 @ 12:51 pm

  7. my top 3 :
    1. Jef- he has this quality about the way he talks and acts that just draws me to him.
    2. Chris
    3. Doug

    Comment by jenn — May 23, 2012 @ 1:06 pm

  8. My fav top 3 guys are Arie,Doug and Alejandro. Chris is starting to grow on me too

    Comment by Missy — May 23, 2012 @ 1:13 pm

  9. my top 3:
    1.) ARIE ! he’s just perfect and everything Emily needs.
    2.) Charlie: he’s just so cute and sweet. I kind of feel bad for him though. I hope he gets a one on one sooon!
    3.) Doug and Ryan are tied for me here.
    I DONT LIKE KALON.

    Comment by Allison — May 23, 2012 @ 1:14 pm

  10. My top 3 (not in any particular order)
    1. Arie – I think Emily feeling “uncomfortable” around him because she honestly has a crush on him. He seems like he’s a pretty chill, laid back guy and he makes it a point to mention he likes kids/has dated a woman with 2 kids.

    2. Ryan- I don’t really follow with what most Bachelor Nation is saying about him. Only you and Mike Stagliano share this opinion with me abt Ryan. I really like him, he is a gentleman, but I also think its because he was probably raised that way (being Southern and all). I also think he respects Emily a lot. She did bring up a lot of important questions. (If Emily doesnt pick him, I think he would be great with Kacie B from last season)

    3. Doug- He seems to be there for the right reasons. I hope he has a One-on One date soon.

    4. Jef – I KNOW you said 3 but I decided to throw Jef in the mix just cause…I think Emily has a connection with him. You just know she likes him a lot, he acts all nonchalent but I think he’s trying to guard himself from not going completely in so early in the show. You can tell how he looks at her, that he’s attracted/interested but is unsure about how she really feels.

    Comment by Susan — May 23, 2012 @ 1:26 pm

  11. My top 3 are: Jef, Arie, and Ryan!

    Comment by Nikki — May 23, 2012 @ 1:36 pm

  12. Did you really say this season has the best guys since Jillian’s?

    well if by best guys you actually mean “best d-bags” then i think you’re right.

    Comment by so vain — May 23, 2012 @ 1:54 pm

  13. I have to say up until this point my top 3 have to be Doug, Sean, & Arie!! I certainly hope so, but I’m still skeptical that Emily will even choose someone in the end though!! The promos at the end of the first episode were just different from any of the other and it didn’t seem like there was a proposal at all :(

    Comment by Mandy — May 23, 2012 @ 2:07 pm

  14. I actually think it’s a negative for the other guys that have a kid this season. The reason is because my guess is that Emily wants to stay in the Charlotte area. I don’t think as a mom, in good conscience, she could ask another guy with a child to move to Charlotte w/her. She wouldn’t want him to leave his child, or have that child move across the country away from his mom if he came w/his dad.

    Comment by Nicole — May 23, 2012 @ 2:26 pm

  15. Top 3 are definitely Jef, Ryan, and Charlie. But that’s just from a viewer’s point of view. I haven’t seen enough about any of the rest of them to really tell yet.

    And Miss Piggie has always been voiced by a guy. Used to be Frank Oz and now it’s the muppeteer dude that took over for him.

    Comment by Car — May 23, 2012 @ 2:39 pm

  16. My top 3:
    #1 Jef
    #2 Arie
    #3 Wolf

    Comment by Molly — May 23, 2012 @ 2:41 pm

  17. My top three:
    1)Sean
    2)Jef
    3)Charlie
    It would be Arie but word is he used to date Cassie Lambert, I think that is wrong for him to even be there.
    Great blog!

    Comment by Roberta — May 23, 2012 @ 3:04 pm

  18. Emily’s top 3 IMO shown by the edit so far– Jef, Chris and Arie.

    My top 3- Ryan, Charlie and Doug.

    Subject to change as we learn more about them. Some of the guys have been nearly invisible so far.

    Comment by Karen — May 23, 2012 @ 3:17 pm

  19. First of all, great blog! Love your straightforward approach on the whole situation, and I also don’t think you’re being too easy on the guys, they seem like a pretty great group (so far)
    As for my top 3, it’d have to be
    1) Arie 2) Arie and 3) Arie :)
    but if I HAD to choose another 2, it’d be
    2) Jef and 3) Charlie
    Arie because he’s just so damn perfect (sweet, athletic and VERY good-looking)
    Jef because he’s so down to earth and cute, and he seems to make Emily the most giddy (I think he’s the one she’s got a crush on at this point, but with some more time together we’ll see if that goes anywhere or not)
    and Charlie because he’s mature, pretty brave (with the whole admitting his fear to everyone/Emily) and he’s adorable :)

    Comment by Dina — May 23, 2012 @ 3:32 pm

  20. 1. Sean- I like the look of them together
    2. Jef- Even though I disliked the whole skateboarding thing I he seems kind and a good person
    3. Arie- Maybe because he is a race car driver she will be more attracted to him…. Who knows! Its still early to tell. My opinion will likely change again!

    Comment by Candice — May 23, 2012 @ 3:57 pm

  21. I was thinking that Ryan was lacking in terms of ya Man code no? He asked Emily to sit and read back to him a 7 page long letter in front of another guy o_O. If that isn’t already against the rules of the Man code then someone should add it :p

    Ryan was in my top 3 before seeing his 1-1 date. He seems like a great guy but something seemed off so my top 3:

    1. Sean/Charlie
    Can’t decide between these two but I like them both :)
    2. Arie
    3. Jef

    And it’s funny since physically none of those guys above except maybe Sean/Charlie I would generally say ‘oh that guy is gorgeous’. Shows how much personality can change how you see someone.

    Comment by Olivia — May 23, 2012 @ 3:59 pm

  22. Ryan, Arie, Sean

    Comment by Sheryl — May 23, 2012 @ 4:08 pm

  23. I have to say Jillian’s guys were so much better looking! But my top 3 are ARIE!, Jef, and Doug/Ryan.

    Comment by Crystal — May 23, 2012 @ 4:10 pm

  24. 1.Jef
    2. Sean
    3. Charlie

    Comment by Selena — May 23, 2012 @ 4:15 pm

  25. I agree with your current feelings on Ryan, as I don’t see him as being overly cocky as some bloggers like Natalie are suggesting. I guess time will tell on who stands out as the most arrogant, but if/when Kalon tells Emily to let him finish talking (from an upcoming preview) that is when most of the focus will turn to Kalon’s attitude over Ryan’s and some may be surprised that they ever glorified Kalon to begin with, and his vocabulary thereafter may not be able to save him.

    Comment by Ha — May 23, 2012 @ 4:16 pm

  26. My top 3!!
    1. Arie
    2. Chris
    3. Jef/Ryan

    I can’t decide on number 3. I absolutely love Ryan but I think he may not be the right fit for her and Jef, she seems to have a thing for but I can’t see him being a father right now.

    I do agree with you that these guys deserve some credit!!

    Comment by Natalyn — May 23, 2012 @ 4:17 pm

  27. Would you hook up Craig Robinson with some double chin exercises please? It’s about to go to become a triple decker. He’s a drunk ya know!!!

    Comment by barTENDER — May 23, 2012 @ 4:22 pm

  28. Sean, Doug, Arie…Jeff/Travis…

    Comment by Hanna — May 23, 2012 @ 5:30 pm

  29. Oh, and you(David Good) were definitely THE HOTTEST bachelor from Jillian’s season!!!

    Comment by Hanna — May 23, 2012 @ 5:31 pm

  30. I like Arie and Jef.

    Dave, Miss Piggy is voiced by a man.

    Comment by Richelle — May 23, 2012 @ 5:48 pm

  31. Jef , Charlie, Arie

    I think kalon is pretty cool… Don’t know why everyone has to be hating!

    Comment by Jeanne — May 23, 2012 @ 5:59 pm

  32. Don’t rule out Kalon. We all hated Courtney (on Ben’s season) and ABC managed to manipulate that one til the end. I will put Kalon against Arie and (maybe) Ryan or Doug in the finale – (but Ryan is phony – espcially when he ended his seven page manifesto to Emily, “Yours in Christ, Ryan.” Really?? Joel Osteen doesn’t host this dribble – This is ABC

    Comment by Francesca — May 23, 2012 @ 6:11 pm

  33. 1. Arie, 2. Charlie, 3. Jef

    Comment by Vavi — May 23, 2012 @ 7:47 pm

  34. Interesting perspective. I agree with you that I didn’t think what Kalon said to Doug was that bad either, but Doug REALLY blew up about it. He wouldn’t even let Kalon speak to apologize or explain what he meant. And honetsly…if you leave for 6 weeks to go shoot a show, you are putting fatherhood on hold. Hello. Obviously his kid encouraged him and is probably staying with grandparents and is fine, but the duties of everyday fatherhood are on hold. I got what Kalon was trying to say, and he didn’t mean for it to be insulting. I just thought the way Doug reacted to it showed some anger issues…which is something Emily had big issues with when she found out Brad was a bit explosive too. So…I don’t see him being a good match for her!

    Top picks:
    She seems to be enamored by Arie the most, and he seems very normal. He’s confidant, but not overly cocky. They share a love for racing. I don’t think it’s a big deal he dated a producer before–I think we’ve all dated someone it didn’t work out with but we remained friends. Even Emily admitted she still calls Brad to chat. We’ll see how it plays out and how bad it bothers Emily about Arie/Producer prior dating.

    One F Jef–his style perplexes me and I don’t find him at all attractive, but he is definitely a genuine and nice guy, and Emily is crushing on him big time!

    And….my 3rd pick is Roberto. Oh wait, he’s not on this season? Hello! He should be!! :) I still think he and Emily are the perfect match up! haha!

    Comment by Beth — May 24, 2012 @ 12:54 am

  35. Oh one more thing–I thought Charlie was a catch until he gathered all the guys to make fun of Stevie’s awkward dancing with Em. We never once saw Emily ever making fun of anyone, she’s not the type to laugh at others expense. I don’t see him being a match for her.

    Comment by Beth — May 24, 2012 @ 12:57 am

  36. …. I don’t see how everyone loves Ryan so much. Honestly, he’s good lookin fo’sho – but I lost my lady wood for him with his cocky attitude. I love a man with confidence (Arie, Chris….) but Ryan’s shwarmness(?) kills me!

    Top 3: Arie (even with lack of air time) – Charlie – & Chris. …

    But, seriously, You’re right. I’m spoiled. Cause none of these guys are doing it for me!

    And I have a confession. I won’t lie, I was not your biggest fan on J’s season! I(we, my friends and I) called you “Dave, the rageaholic…”. After reading your blogs, I see how wrong I was about you. Deep apologies!

    Comment by Siobhan — May 24, 2012 @ 6:42 am

  37. My top 3 favorites: Jef, Sean, and Charlie
    My top 3 favorites for Emily: Jef, Sean, and Charlie – LOL!
    I also love Ryan though and he’s getting a ton of slack for not “smiling enough”. People need to leave the poor guy alone…maybe he’s shy.

    I heard Reality Steve is coming out with some shady information on Arie today… I’ll make my decision on him after reading the info.

    Thanks for writing the blog Dave!
    Have a great holiday weekend. xoxo

    Comment by Jennifer — May 24, 2012 @ 8:25 am

  38. My Top 3

    Jef, Arie & Ryan! Jef is number one by a long shot in my book, he just has something really special about him, I am intrigued and obviously so is Emily

    Comment by Lindsey — May 24, 2012 @ 9:40 am

  39. Top 3:

    Charlie
    Jef
    Tony (NOT).
    Ryan

    Comment by sevzies — May 24, 2012 @ 9:30 pm

  40. P.S. Arie reminds me of a the red flag every person shoudl not ignore: “If he/she seems too good to be true, investigate”. Don’t think he’s a good guy but just a gut feeling.

    Comment by sevzies — May 24, 2012 @ 9:31 pm

  41. Jef! He just seems so much more interesting than the other men. My favorite by far!
    Followed by Sean and Doug.

    Comment by Kimberly — May 25, 2012 @ 4:58 am

  42. I do not see a connection between Ryan and Emily on a romantic level. I really like Charlie! I think Emily mostly has eyes for Jef and Arie.
    Having a child might be a plus this season but it also complicates things when it comes to moving to charlotte etc.

    Thanks for a good blog! Enjoyed reading it.

    Comment by antonia — May 25, 2012 @ 7:47 am

  43. To the 2nd Poster, Heather, have you ever heard of a colloquialism? The term a lot of slack is commonly used in all parts of the country.
    But I digress, my top 3 are Jef, Doug and Sean. The latter because he’s just so hot, and I don’t generally like blondes. Jef, because he’s so cool and nerdy,I really like nerdy guys. Doug, because he’s a single dad and he seems to really want to be there.
    Dave, I love your blog! I didn’t really think too much of you on your season, but fell in love on BP. I may like nerdy guys, but I also have this other side that loves a man’s man.

    Comment by MamaBear — May 25, 2012 @ 10:44 am

  44. 1. Ryan
    2. Charlie
    3. Doug or Sean

    Comment by Shawna — May 25, 2012 @ 10:47 am

  45. Few things: (1) Anyone who writes a 15 page letter after the first date is crazy, fake or both. I thought this was insincere and totally over the top. Also, when she was reading it, it seemed as if she was saying the same thing over and over again. There is no way this guy will get the final rose. (2) Dave, I will personally read and edit your blogs before you post them so people stop picking on you about your grammar. You may want to consider taking me up on my offer. It’s my job, and people actually pay me $400 per hour for this type of work. For you, I’ll do it for the cost of all the beers I can drink next time you’re in Chicago ;)

    Comment by LA — May 25, 2012 @ 11:57 am

  46. It`s too hard to tell who my favorites for her are yet. But I can tell you who I think are her top 3.

    1. Arie – obvious choice for her. There is such a natural chemistry between them, and in preview for next episode the way she`ll kiss him reveals a lot.

    2. Jef – I want to see from him that he likes her. Unless he`s gay he must like her, what guy wouldn`t, she is very pretty and seems sweet (- if he isn`t that rare type that likes an ambitious, educated woman that is not pre-occupied with looks that is, but then he wouldn`t be on The Bachelor -). And I never imagined her with that kind of guy so this is all interesting. I wonder if she`ll be as into him if he opens up a bit more and starts showing that he likes her.

    3. Chris – if she thinks he`s that attractive (I think she and I have totally different taste) he must be top 3.

    And I have to comment about Ryan…in the first episode he was my favorite for her and I really wanted to like him in this episode and tried to see him in best light, but he continuously dissapointed. And whatever he says and writes to her seems so rehearsed and not sincere at all. He revealed it himself, he loves the chase.

    I think also like someone else mentioned the guys having a child can be a minus in this season too. Also understand guys who are concerned about Emily having a child, when you get children you have to plan according to them if you are going to be a good parent. But if you applied for the show knowing she`ll be The Bachelorette, better handle it.

    Comment by SJ — May 26, 2012 @ 4:53 am

  47. P.S. Dave I read something about you or watched video (can`t remember) thinking it`s a bad idea for Emily to be The Bachelorette because of the child. What made you change your mind? Meeting her?
    I remember totally agreeing with you then and if I was a mother I wouldn’t want my child to get that public attention, both on screen and the paparazzis that follows with it.

    Whatever the reason is that she chose to do it I’ll respect it. It’s her life and she seems like a good mother with the best intentions, so I wish her all the luck1

    Comment by SJ — May 26, 2012 @ 5:02 am

  48. Ok, so I couldn’t decide…Jef, Doug, Charlie, Chris, Sean

    Comment by Lily — May 26, 2012 @ 9:10 am

  49. If I were a betting girl (which I am not since it is against my religion)… I’m pretty sure about my top three:
    1) Sean
    2) Jef
    3) Arie
    I read the spoilers, so I know these are the top 3 but no one has publicized the order. I am predicting Emily kicks Arie to the curb because he is such a player (besides finding out he dated a producer, see RealitySteve’s site on all his sleeping around). I also predict she chooses Sean over Jef because Jef said “I’m glad to be back in Utah” after he left the show. No winner would be glad to be back home, they would want to keep spending time with Emily if they were really in love. Too bad because Jef is my favorite one so far.

    Comment by PixiePoet — May 26, 2012 @ 7:59 pm

  50. David, you know nothing about relationships ok. And you don’t know what you are talking about most of the time. Leave Emily alone. Let her make her own decisions for her and her daughter ok.
    You’ve been proven wrong so many times.

    You said JP was a bad choice for Ashley and look at how well they are doing now. they take the media in stride. They handle bad and good press with grace and class like no others. They are the most well-rounded couple of this franchise (intellectually, socially…). Your other choices for her would not have been able to handle that pressure. (Ben is socially awkward and Constantine is too small town minded)

    Next thing you were wrong was about Ben and Courtney. Look at how they are doing now. You are from a totally different world than these interesting people. And you are no psychologist or sociologist to analyze anyone’s thought process.

    I hope you dont offer any commentaries on Emily’s choice, because you dont know what she wants and what she needs or what her type is. Write the blog just for fun. Oh and you know what else you were wrong about, you said Emily was gonna be a beautiful bachelorette that every man/contestant would fight for, and guess what, the contestants this year are just lukewarm and they are focusing too much on the house drama among one another. As beautiful as she is, Emily has to go out of her way to try to seduce Jef. And she is clearly smitten with Arie, only to set herself up for heartbreak (if you read Reality Steve’s account of Arie, you’ll know what I am talking about).

    So please please please do not give relationship advice, or running your ignorant mouth in Wetpaint’ s exclusive interviews this season. You’re no expert.

    Thanks,

    BTW my choice for Emily is Jef, because he seems to be the most sincere guy at this point.

    Comment by confused — May 26, 2012 @ 8:42 pm

  51. Seriously with the spoilers, PixiePoet? Come on, it’s not like they’re some nationally-kept secret. Pat yourself on the back for being able to click on Reality Steves website. Ugh!!

    Comment by DeeTee — May 27, 2012 @ 12:05 pm

  52. Jef is the only one I see for Emily. He’s the whole package for her and little Rickie. Watch, she really digs this guy bigtime. Arie would be next, and I don’t even have a 3rd choice.

    Comment by Melissa — May 27, 2012 @ 11:09 pm

  53. 1. Jef…He is truly different then the guys who normally come on this show, like Emily said in an interview. He seems very real when he chats with her, as most seem to be watching what they say and do, he’s all.. yeah, great, followed by a guiet, sexy laugh. They are definately into each other. Watch the deleted, Jef teaches Emily to skateboard video… too cute! Then watch his People Water video and you’ll be on team Jef as well. Love the kid scenes, Love him!

    2. Sean…He is an absolute sweetheart as well it seems. Good catch for any women, like Jef. His values seem to be very similar to hers and he seems like he would make a great husband and father, like Jef! LOL! (Jef’s still my fav!)

    3. Ryan…Although he’s your typical drop dead hunk and could be like Brad. He has said a few things that make me think he’s more genuine, like.. My pastor says treat a women like a queen and she’ll treat you like a king. Nice, balanced remark from a hotty like that. He also works with kids at his training facility. Seems like a great catch as well!

    Comment by Barbara — May 28, 2012 @ 3:59 pm

  54. Looks like a lot of these are spot on with my feelings. The one thing I wanted to answer is about Emily going on the show. Yes I did not think it was a good thing for a mother with a young child to do this but after meeting her and seeing how she acts and what her priorities are I changed my thoughts on it.

    Comment by David Good — May 29, 2012 @ 9:06 am

  55. Alright Dave, I feel the same after seeing this last episode. Her child is really priority and I just like her more and more. What a perfect woman, she seems too good to be true. :)

    I hope to get your thougts on Alessandro and what he said (I loved his honesty and he gave me a good laugh especially in the end there, but man…….). A part of me is very understanding about the point of view. Everybody can say what they want (I know he’ll get a lot of crap for saying what he said I’m sure), but having a child puts a limitation to a lot of things (I see that with my friends who have children) and you have to adjust your life and out your child first. One has to be ready to sacrify his/her own freedom. He had great points, but they came across in a stupid way.

    Emily and Arie were too cute though, perfect match! I am excited if the show can get unpredictable at all now, because I can’t see anybody else for her after this episode.

    Comment by SJ — May 29, 2012 @ 9:19 am

  56. I think Arie, Sean, and Doug are the best ones for Emily. I hope she finds love, and takes advantage of this opportunity because there are lots of single moms who would love to be able to find a man who wants the whole package.:)

    Comment by Sandy — May 30, 2012 @ 9:54 am

  57. 1 Charlie
    2 Charlie
    3 Charlie

    And forget Emily — those are for mydamnself!!! ;)

    Comment by Daphne — May 31, 2012 @ 5:51 pm

  58. seriously, tho looks like she’s hit a sweet spot w/ Jef off the bat. I like Doug for her, too. And She & Sean look like they COULD Be related, So I’m iffy on that pairing. He’s def hot too tho. And she seemed way into Arie. It’s sometimes hard to tell if it’s a real connection between the ppl or just caught up in the moment of the surroundings. Everyday isn’t gonna be a “tv show date”
    1. Jef
    2. Doug
    3. Arie

    Comment by Daphne — May 31, 2012 @ 5:56 pm

  59. seriously, tho looks like she’s hit a sweet spot w/ Jef off the bat. I like Doug for her, too. And She & Sean look like they COULD Be related, So I’m iffy on that pairing. He’s def hot too tho. And she seemed way into Arie. It’s sometimes hard to tell if it’s a real connection between the ppl or just caught up in the moment of the surroundings. Everyday isn’t gonna be a “tv show date”
    1. Jef
    2. Doug
    3. Arie

    Comment by Daphne G — May 31, 2012 @ 5:57 pm

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