Jesse Csincsak’s Bachelor Pad 2 Blog: Episode 5

Okay, I want to start off by saying that my blog is based on MY OPINIONS of the people on this show. A lot of these people are not what their edits make them out to be and I am going to point that out in this blog. So that means if you are going to freak out about what I have to say about each of these people NOW IS A GREAT TIME TO STOP READING! Also, I am not a writer or English major so save your spelling and grammar corrections for someone who is worried about it (NOT ME). I also want to mention I would never say anything in my blog or in any other media outlet that I wouldn’t say directly to someone’s face! I know and have met most of the people I speak of in my blog. With all of that said, onto Monday night’s episode!

Blake – There just so happens to be an unspoken code among men! Since you don’t seem to be aware of it, I will fill you in, the code is called the MAN CODE. Feel free to hit up Dave Good and he can fill you in further, or just Google it if your feeling a bit embarrassed that you don’t know what it is, that’s okay too. Where I grew up, if a guy did what you are doing to Stagliano they would just walk him out behind the barn and give him a good old fashioned a$$ kicking and fix his little problem, but this isn’t the good old days (lucky for you)! However, I think you are starting to understand that people don’t really like you. In the game this week everyone told you they don’t like you. Glad you’re not just hearing from me this week!

Erica – If you hate on Erica Rose, STOP! She is one of the few people on this show that says it how it is! I loved watching you give Blake a piece of your mind telling him he has two sides that he lives. Hilarious! You make Ann and I laugh! We want you to have your own show so we can tune in each week and laugh our faces off! YOU ROCK. I also loved when you called Michael out about Holly. He needed to hear that he is being blinded by love! NO ONE deserves to be treated the way that Holly is treating him. Keep on saying it how it is girl!

Stagliano – You’re not the only person in America who wants to punch Blake in his perfect little dentist teeth and I am sure there are plenty of girls who want to punch Holly in her two faces after seeing how she’s treating you!

Graham – Everyone knows I am not a Graham fan but I have to compliment him on his tactics with Michelle to win the Nearly Wed Game! BRILLIANT! WELL DONE! However, don’t play with Michelle’s emotions. If you are serious about her, fine, props to you. She’s a rad girl but don’t play her like you usually do, she doesn’t deserve it!

Holly – Why are you so jealous of Erica on a date with Blake? Just wondering. Also, just like I told Blake in weeks prior, you can’t play two people in the same house, it will get you in to trouble. Blake found that out tonight! If you love Stagliano, fine, then be with him but don’t tell him you love him and kiss Blake 30 minutes later. Not cool.

This show cracks me up! What would be totally inappropriate in real life is just day-to-day activity on this show! AWESOME.

Next week is the finale. Who will win the $250K prize? I have my money on Michelle Money! Until next week, same place, same time I am out!

109 Comments »

  1. Don’t know why you are telling Blake about the man code, he has NO commitment to Michael whatsoever. Like Holly said, for 3 months he never wanted to give their relationship a chance and now she’s getting attention from Blake he’s jealous. I say GO FOR IT Blake and Holly! You two look cute together. No blog on Kasey and Vienna? Please do tell us what you think about last night and Kasey throwing up Wes and David. I love your blog and would like your opinion on them. I say Jake spoke the truth when talking about the relationship with her. Just my opinion.

    Comment by bhall — September 6, 2011 @ 6:47 pm

  2. Spell checked- looked good! Grammer – gr8! Opinions-fine!

    Blake is the asshole that everyone has dated once (or twice or 3x’s)

    As for Holly, you know her best, but I don’t hate her. She is just a immature backstabber. I think she should write to “woman-code” and consult with Dave Good.
    Seems like she needs some Happy pills, because she is miserable.

    Love your rtvzone show.
    szia
    Szolt!

    Comment by Szolt Szerley — September 6, 2011 @ 6:57 pm

  3. I have to say that I love your blogs. It’s nice to get an “inside” perspective on what these people are really like. I find it ironic that all these people read your blog and then get angry about what you’ve written. Its simple, if you don’t like what he’s writing, don’t read it. I agree with bhall, no blog about Kasey and Vienna? I thought their fight was HILARIOUS. To quote the Jersey Shore, is there a “smoosh” room in the BP for people to get it on in private? I also seem to recall the two of them getttin’ it on while they were talking about getting rid of Jake a few weeks back. Blake and Holly have no class. It’s one thing if they are attracted to each other and maybe want to explore a possible relationship, but couldn’t they have waited until AFTER leaving the show? I wonder if the producers pushed them to pursue each other because it would make for good tv?

    Comment by Michelle — September 6, 2011 @ 7:18 pm

  4. This comment is directed at BHALL….. you wrote:
    “Like Holly said, for 3 months he never wanted to give their relationship a chance and now she’s getting attention from Blake he’s jealous”

    well let’s see.. She only broke off their engagement and decides a month later she wants him back. He’s supposed to turn off his hurt and receive her with open arms? Would you take someone back and move forward like nothing ever happened after they called off your engagement for simply cold feet??

    Holly is a bitch, she’s stringing Michael along. She loves the attention. I don’t care if she hooked up with Blake there is a time and place for everything and in front of Michael’s face sure wasn’t it.

    Comment by jt — September 6, 2011 @ 7:27 pm

  5. Agree with BHALL–Holly is free game, and has been showing through her actions who she is interested in. Past few weeks she’s been showing and telling Michael she’s not reciprocating the get back together feelings. Not fair to her that she has to be loyal to Michael because he suddenly is staking a claim on her after all this time. Blake and Holly shouldn’t have been making out in front of the fire for all to see though–bad call on their part. Tacky. Michael seems to think though that if he gets rid of Blake, all will be well with Holly again. He doesn’t seem to understand she’s not under some spell–she’s a grown woman making choices. He probably just cemented blake & holly getting together afterward by being so insistent with pushing Blake out. Now Holly will spend the next week pining after Blake. Just my opinion!

    Comment by Star22 — September 6, 2011 @ 7:35 pm

  6. Jesse,
    Love your blogs, very honest and straight to the point with no bulls@%t. You are so right about Holly. She is just as much to blame as Blake is. They could have waited to act on their feelings until after the show. She was with Michael for 2 years, shes such a bitch for prancing around with Blake right in front of him. It was like she was rubbing it in his face. Sorry, but to me she seems like a big tease. She was leading Michael on the whole time she was in the house telling him she still loved him and then going and kissing Blake. She is gonna lose so many fans for that, not that she ever had any. But anyways, I think Michele and Graham will win !!! :)

    Comment by Chloe — September 6, 2011 @ 7:36 pm

  7. Hey Jesse,
    Lots of talk about Holly and Blake and the whole love triangle going on. My personal opinion is this, yes Holly is fair game, but the game that everyone should be focusing on is the $250,000 at the end of it. Holly and Blake have lost focus of that and that’s one of the reasons that sealed Blake’s fate last night. Even though it’s been 3 months since Holly and Mike split, it’s actually still 3 months! To me, that’s still a short amount of time to be prancing around the house with another guy right in front of your, not boyfriend, ex-fiance! Have some common sense and save the emotions you have for someone else for after the game is done. Show some respect for the man that you did agree to marry and then LEFT FIRST! But I’m not going to act like I know their personal lives so well, I only know what I see on tv. I want to see strategy and I want to see people focused on winning this $250,000! If you choose to enter a game like this, be like Michelle and Graham, and leave your emotions at the door where you will attend to them later. Get your head in the game!

    Comment by Esther Lee — September 6, 2011 @ 7:53 pm

  8. I think Holly and Michael are just in a really uncomfortable situation. Living with an ex-fiancee is a terrible idea. Especially when they aren’t on the same page. Maybe its worth a chance for $250,000… but then again maybe not.

    I loved what Michelle and Graham did to win the game. Awesome! I think they have been controlling the game since early on and were just hiding behind louder members in their alliance (which was also brilliant on their parts). Since Kasey has been targeted by their opponents (albeit unsuccessfully) and neither Michelle or Graham have ever been named for elimination.

    The show is great but I like the blogs even more. I may not always agree but I think your take balances out some of the other blogs on this site. Keep up the good work!

    Comment by Rebecca — September 6, 2011 @ 7:53 pm

  9. Look Stagliano said it best when you want something you go for it. He is trying with Holly & so is Blake.. if Stagliano was still dating HOLLY then yes there is a man code but Stagliano messed up in that relationship which puts him back to being a pursuer as is Blake.. NO MAN Code in this case. Ya all are buddies & I get that but not one of you Jessie, Dave etc wouldn’t push for a girl that was single regardless if buddies or not Quit being hypocrites.

    Holly is fair game & may the best man win. Good luck to both of them.

    NOw I have some faith in Graham but still have apprehension so he better not be playing Michelle.. Isn’t it interesting how manipulative an EDIT can be from the bachelor to another show BP2 & Michelle. With that said your still basing your opinions on an edit of what you see so lighten up on the trash talking & be fair in your opinions for all the participants. EDIT plays a huge part here & you know it. We keep hearing its just a show & you tell people not to get so caught up in it but who is spinning the wheel & also being mean in there opinions based on who they like on a personal level & don’t?

    Comment by lol — September 6, 2011 @ 8:24 pm

  10. Love your blog Jesse! As I always say – I don’t agree with everything you say HOWEVER I love hearing your thoughts & opinions.

    I have to say though in regards to Blake – why does he owe Michael anything? I understand “man code” but he wasn’t friends with Michael and it seems like in his eyes he cares for Holly so who gives a f*** what others think. I could be waaaay off base – just my opinion. : )

    Your blogs also seem a little tamer from when you first started. Either way- I can’t wait for Bachelor Pad Beatdown tonight.

    You have been one of my favorite “contestants” through ALL the Bachelor shows/franchisees. Sending love to you and your beautiful family!

    Comment by Jennifer — September 6, 2011 @ 8:24 pm

  11. Blake is a douche. Holly is a douche. Perfect match.

    Comment by Corri — September 6, 2011 @ 8:33 pm

  12. Thanks to everyone for your support on my blog !! I greatly appreciate it !

    Comment by Jesse Csincsak — September 6, 2011 @ 8:41 pm

  13. Thanks Jesse…always a quick and fun read. You didn’t mention Kasey & Vienna this week? Anxious for your bachelor pad beatdown tonight!

    Comment by Sue — September 6, 2011 @ 8:57 pm

  14. Im happy that this show is gonna end next week. Blake was the most interesting person to watch this season. I was on Michael´s side but now… Its so easy to say that Holly is making him suffer and bla bla bla. Its so obvious that she is not into Michael!! She told Michael what she was feeling! If he didnt listen and is still trying to get the girl back its HIS fault!! I like Holly and Blake.
    About what you said about Graham I just wanna say – Jealousy will get you nowhere. Leave the guy alone!

    Comment by Kina — September 6, 2011 @ 8:58 pm

  15. You seriously think Blake should listen to Mancode advise from Dave Good! Honestly, after we heard he slept with Vienna. That is totally disgusting. Blake had a lot of class when he tried to gently turn down sex with Erica. If a man had pressed a woman as Erica did to Blake, they would charge him with sexual abuse.

    Love Blake and Holly together. It doesn’t matter what has happened in anyones past. You never know when you will find love, so you have to take it and run when it comes along. Everyone has a past. I wish them great love. Holly was a single lady entering the house. She had no reason to be beholden to anyone.

    Comment by Susan — September 6, 2011 @ 10:10 pm

  16. You love Erica because she’s knee deep in the Michael/Blake/Holly situation.

    Congrats on actually having something good to say about Graham even though it’s peppered with your message of disdain for the man.

    Your blog is still just about personal issues you have with people. I enjoy the blogs that talk about all the other parts of the show. What was the deal with that fight between Vienna and Kasey? How did the rose suprise affect the outcome? What was the deal with Erica not taking a hint when she was coming on to Blake? There were so many great things to poke fun at!

    Basically that’s it…have fun…why is it still so personal? Most people are happier to forgive and move on.

    And yes, you’re welcome for my financial contribution to your income.

    Comment by Jo — September 6, 2011 @ 10:21 pm

  17. You’re an idiot.

    Comment by lol — September 6, 2011 @ 10:46 pm

  18. I pretty much agree with everything you said this week! However, I don’t think Blake should be nearly as much to blame for the whole Micahel thing as Holly is. I’m losing respect for Holly each episode. He was never friends with Michael, but she spent two years with him!

    Comment by Phoebe — September 6, 2011 @ 10:56 pm

  19. For all you Holly defenders–Holly being single is not the point. The point is, she is LEADING Michael on while flirting with Blake and trying to pursue that. She needs to tell Michael she is done. She needs to STOP cuddling with him, hugging him, crying in his arms, and saying she’s so confused.

    Comment by Corri — September 6, 2011 @ 11:11 pm

  20. I am not sure what to make of the Blake situation. I think his problem is that he is too sexual. He started at an early age and probably has had quite a few lovers since. He is drawn to women for sexual reasons.

    What does he have in common with Holly beyond the fact that she is physical, fun, and very free with her sexuality?

    Holly knows, what other women know, is that females have powers of seduction. Instead of being respectful and courteous, she exploits her femininity to the max.

    Good women don’t do this. They know their affect on men and don’t go out of their way to flaunt their sexuality. Men don’t like to be used sexually any more than women do.

    Holly seems to thin that pouting/acting cute? is her ticket to fame. As long as she can dance around shaking her body and acting dumb, but seductive, she will get fame, fortune, and an endless supply of male attention.

    She seems to be a narcissist — all about herself and ready to lie, cheat, exploit others, do whatever it takes to get attention herself. She doesn’t seem to have the standards for propriety that other people have nor understand nor care about how her actions affect others.

    I almost think her little Blake send off might have been another bid for attention — by trying to copy what Ames and Jackie had to create publicity for herself.

    I don’t think she cares for Blake beyond physical attraction and her appreciation for his weakness for her. She seems to be using him for headlines.

    This season she made fools of Michael and Blake, all to get attention for herself.

    Walking through the kitchen in a bikini was just another example of her narcissism. A loving/classy thing to do might be to have pinned a rose on Blake’s label, to give him something to remember her by. All Holly could think of to offer was her body.

    She sells sex, and Blake buys.

    I hope Blake will wake up, and start reigning in his sexuality. Women see his weakness and exploit it. They aren’t doing this to Graham because he won’t allow it.

    Right now he has been entrapped by a wicked, self-serving, ruthless sociopathic slut who is using her sexuality to control him. He is allowing this to happen as he is hungry for it, and Holly is all too willing — sex without strings attached.

    In a purely objective sense, they are not a match in any sense. However, women who use their sexuality get men who succumb to it. Good men avoid such women, and what Holly fails to realize that by entrapping him with her body, she has acquired a man who can just as easily be swayed by the next. Blake will never be able to trust she will be monogamous — and I expect neither will fully be able to trust the other, unless they have a fully open relationship and simply don’t care.

    Holly has achieved her goal — of acquring attention and news print for her antics. In the process, she has lost self respect.

    I don’t know what happened to her looks either. Once upon a time she was actually cute. Now, people are saying she is the doppleganger for Peppermint Patti, and simply the town bicycle. Not sure what happened to her – if it was hard living, but women who are free with their bodies like that tend to ge tthat hard, ugly look about them.

    She is no longer fresh and cute, just used.

    I believe her skin folds around her face, or droops, because she has abused her body in her quest for narcissistic supply. She has lost a lot of weight — in her quest to be “attractive,” (She was more attractive before) presumably seeking a body ripe for clubbing. When you lose that much body mass, the skin just hangs, as it does on her face.

    She has tanned excessively, aging her skin, in a quest to be perpetually tan.

    For Holly, her whole shtick is about being cute, making weird faces, and laughing uncontrollably while saying nothing of any substance. However, as a user, older, uglier woman, that act just looks rather incongruous.

    I really pity Blake for being caught up with this girl. He seems so much better than this — but Holly is the kind of women men end up with when they think with the little general.

    Comment by Blaked — September 6, 2011 @ 11:20 pm

  21. Jesse,

    On your Batchelor Pad Beatdown, can you ask Dave Goode about his love affair with Vienna!

    Thanks!

    Comment by Blaked — September 6, 2011 @ 11:23 pm

  22. @Jesse Did you see Dave says that Blake doesn’t break Man CODE? here you are…
    http://www.wetpaint.com/the-bachelorette/video/bachelor-pad-1-winner-dave-good-blake-isnt-breaking-man-code-by-hooking-up-with-holly-in-season-2-episode-5

    I’m glad you are not the bachelor!!

    Comment by Mel — September 7, 2011 @ 12:06 am

  23. great blog, straight forward and honest!

    I agree with all you said. I am just totally not fan of Holly. to a certain degree I think Blake is innocent. He thought Holly and Michael are no longer together so being someone who is overly confident of himself, he pursued Holly. But there are so many wonderful women out there, don’t know why he set his eyes on Holly, somebody who comes across not very intelligent, but it certainly proves that she does know how to get men, but looks like she just cannot keep them around for too long.

    Blake kept saying him playing with Melissa is all a game to win the money, so why is he not sticking with his gun and keeps playing the game? so when it comes to Holly, there no more game to play?

    Comment by Ali — September 7, 2011 @ 12:26 am

  24. I think it is fair to say that this is artistic license at it’s best! Come on people, reality tv? Really? The footage that we see is probably cut to shreds and stuck together with tape to show us the juicy bits! Jesse, you tell it as it is! I’m pretty sure it is very stressful in the house. Living with the most annoying couple on the planet (K & V) must be hard enough. I agree about Erica – she is a pretty class act in a slutty kinda way. No excuses. What you see is what you get, take it or leave it! Graham and Michelle seem well suited. She came across as so desperate with Brad but is more comfortable in her own skin now Hopefully, Graham has matured. I think Michael and Holly should go their seperate ways. sad but true. Ella and Kurt should win but probably won’t! Kasey and Vienna should take a long drive off a short mountain pass. Could they be any more pathetic? OK, nuff said. keep up the fab blogs!

    Comment by jac — September 7, 2011 @ 12:31 am

  25. I am very curious. Why no comments about V & K? Are you being biased? If you’re gonna dish, dish on them all, just saying.

    Comment by Lisa — September 7, 2011 @ 1:00 am

  26. People who live in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones.

    1st Megan, Katie, Stacey, Mykella, 2nd Megan, Kelly

    Just to make a buck? Really?

    Comment by Question — September 7, 2011 @ 1:32 am

  27. Lets start with the obvious…Blake is a tool regardless, I dont have a problem with him and Holly getting together, but you would think, with it being just a few months, emotions are still raw and its like putting it in Michaels face in the house….Who goes on a date, claim its the best they ever had, then comes home and plays tonsil hockey with the ex….Dont care what you say its IGNORANT, on both Blake/Holly’s part..

    As for Erica, that chic is awesome, she will win court cases hands down, because she would kick some major a@@ on cross examination..Love watching her come up with some of the stuff she says!

    NOW………heres where I say SERIOUSLY JESSE? You take the time to type this blog and give us your input on these episodes, yet you still find a way to TELL Graham what he should and shouldnt do in a relationship? First of all Michelle seems to be a very smart young lady and from watching the show, she handles her and whatever is going on with her and Graham VERY WELL, and to say he plays women…Pot meet Kettle?

    I found it amusing that the very ones that probably need some kind of counseling, you failed to mention this week. Why is that? It may be a reality show, but ffs, those two are seriously the couple from he!!. Maybe next week, we shall see how much of the man code Kasey uses by throwing out a few more names on tv.

    So stop showing us that Graham gets under your skin for whatever reason, because from EVERYTHING I have seen this season, not only has he been one of the few in ALL the drama, its OBVIOUS he clearly would do anything for Michelle, stop sweating his nuts, give them the well deserved compliment without showing us how jealous you obviously are (and why?) would love to hear that one..

    Rooting for Michelle and Graham all the way!!

    Comment by Junipherbreezy — September 7, 2011 @ 2:44 am

  28. Love your blog Jesse !!!!

    Comment by Marjorie — September 7, 2011 @ 3:45 am

  29. Why you have so much hate towards Blake and Holly? jealous?

    Comment by June — September 7, 2011 @ 3:55 am

  30. Nothing said about your wifey’s and your best friend Vienna, and Kasey?……….If you say anything she will not come to play with you guys in Breck.

    Graham gets by on his looks, which is no different than what Michelle is doing..

    Michael Stagliano is not a man, he is a runt of the litter…Dave L Good is not a man either, he is a punk.
    Your wife says nothing to you being a woman that you endorse this Man Code?…She still a girl that had to settle for what was tossed her way…

    If you are going to blog than do it on all that happened, on the show….This blog is half done…Some day you will talk the same way about your wife, like you do of DeAnna and Holly…As a woman she should be proud how you view you other women.

    Comment by Sack — September 7, 2011 @ 5:30 am

  31. You seem like you’re a pretty angry person. I get that you are upset…but aren’t you a little more upset than the actual people involved?

    Comment by Elizabeth — September 7, 2011 @ 6:10 am

  32. What’s with this “man code” business? Its totally not applicable to this situation. Blake isn’t Michael’s friend…he isn’t his homie….or even buds. Blake’s single…Holly’s single…Michael likes Holly….Holly likes Blake. Seems pretty simple to me.

    Erica is actually not only the most entertaining in the house…but also pretty smart. She had it right…if Michael should be mad at anyone, it isn’t the stranger going after a girl he likes (again, this isn’t Mike’s gf here)…it should be the girl he had a long history with…that broke off their engagement….that wanted him back when he left…..that flirts and kisses Blake in the house (and in turn disrespecting Mike as well)….and is basically stringing Mike along as she wants to keep him in her back pocket as she explores a new exciting relationship. Gross.

    Comment by Doh — September 7, 2011 @ 8:40 am

  33. MAN CODE is when his buddy Kasey throws Wes and the aurthor of MAN CODE himself under the bus, by letting us know once again, Vienna is not only a famewhore so says her man on national tv, but pretty much a plain whore so says her man…of course we can just blame it on the editing…

    Maybe he should have been guarding and protecting something besides her heart…

    Comment by Junipherbreezy — September 7, 2011 @ 11:23 am

  34. I thought it was ABSOLUTELY hilarious the answer Vienna gave to the question about how many dates it takes before she sleeps with someone…22….bahahahahah

    NOW THAT PEOPLE WAS PRICELESS!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    I was gonna give her the benefit of the doubt and assume under pressure she meant “2″…but then again I’m sure Wes and Dave would probably tell us that was a lie…hehe

    Just my “honest” OPINION Jesse!

    Comment by Junipherbreezy — September 7, 2011 @ 11:28 am

  35. I just heard that Holly is moving to be with Blake. Well, she finally find the dentist that she can depend on, for how long? BTW, what does she do? she wrote one children’s book with a few sentences about choclate or something, what a joke!

    Just don’t understand about this Blake guy, trust me, that spark that he has with Holly will soon be wearing off and all that leaves for him will be a woman with fake boobs and long legs, that is all that I see in Holly.

    Comment by Ali — September 7, 2011 @ 11:56 am

  36. This Jesse Csincsak guy has issues. Your jealousy of Blake is just eating you up like you’re about to lose your mind. Holly and Blake make a nice couple and have fallen in love. Get over your resentments. Blake seem like a better man than you, and doesn’t come across the way you do with the tacky negative obnoxious attitude you display.

    Also, its good that Holly finally found a guy like Blake who is a dentist and can have a good career outside of the reality show. They have genuinely falling for each other and they deserve to make it. Its over with with Micheal, and its his fault for not trying to reconcile until the show. He should move on, and so should you. You seem delusional in this blog insinuating Holly wanted to be with Michael on the show. It was clear she was wanted to be with Blake as much as he wanted to be with her. And Blake comes across decent in his blog, and you come across like a typical crazy, classless reality show contestant. Get over it. Your bitchy blog only reflects badly on you. I didn’t watch your season and based your blog your personality is bad.

    Comment by Tamra — September 7, 2011 @ 12:55 pm

  37. You’re just a disgusting pig.

    This is about your opinion, its a shame the network lets such a fame-whoring wannabe get to continue to stroke his own ego with such narrow minded BS.

    I feel sorry for your wife and child for the miserable life they will have being part of your’s!

    Loser!

    Comment by Aussie Fan — September 7, 2011 @ 1:21 pm

  38. Great blog. Funny how all the blog bashers are the first ones back next week to read what Jesse has to say!

    Comment by Sven — September 7, 2011 @ 4:39 pm

  39. @sack – what is up with this board troll…still remember same one trolling the abc boards before as “sinsaky” until the moderator finally shut her down for good…not very smart to indicate your bashing intention in your screen name.

    Comment by S — September 7, 2011 @ 4:55 pm

  40. Aussie Fan, you sound like that dumb Holly, time to come out of the closet!

    Comment by Ali — September 7, 2011 @ 5:05 pm

  41. I really loved Beatdown this week. Even though it was shorter than usual, you were all really on yoru game. It would be great if you could be like that for the full hour — focused, entertaining, on point, etc.

    As for Wes and Dave hooking up with Vienna, people aren’t disgusted by the fact that she is ugly. Vienna is attractive enough. It’s the promiscuity of it all. In a way, you are all colleagues, and here you are hopping in bed with one another, pretty indiscriminately. I know you are all living it up, but from an outsider’s perspective, it’s kind of gross.

    I wish Blake the best. I think Holly is lucky to have him, but again beyond the hormones, I just don’t see the connection. I think Blake wanted someone, was sexually frustrated, and Holly was available. Too bad. He seems to have so much more going for him than that.

    Maybe he has self esteem issues. Everyone looking outside in wonders what he sees in her and why he settled for her? No one gets it. He has it all. She has nothing. Giggles, starvation, overtanning, and stupid faces can only go so far before you will actually need something to talk about and to be seen in public together. Beyond stupid reality show appearances, where could you take Holly and not be mortally embarrassed. She’d flirt with everyone and have nothing to contribute to the conversation. She’s probably wind up drunk in the corner somewhere or try to get all the attention on herself by swinging from the chandaliers…As I said, I just don’t get what Blake sees in her. Blake, YOU CAN DO BETTER! SO MUCH BETTER.

    I think this show really ruins people. Poor Michael, who used to be so sweet and innocent, not looks angry and jaded. Holly, who was so cute and innocence once, now looks like a used up mop. I don’t even want to know what will happen to Blake through all of this.

    Somehow this franchise brings out the worst in people and encourages/celebrates a culture of debauchery and degeneracy.

    On your show you asid that the pornography is filmed at the house next door. Does any of this surprise you? Mike Fleiss is married to Heidi Fleiss, who provides call girls to the Hollywood elite. This show is all about promoting promiscuity and sensual indulgence. For all you know, Fleiss has a stake or role/hand in the porn business next door.

    Great blog and beat down. Enjoyed reading/watching it.

    Comment by Blaked — September 7, 2011 @ 5:32 pm

  42. Sorry-Mike is Heidi’s brother.

    Sorry for typos.

    Comment by Peed — September 7, 2011 @ 5:34 pm

  43. Man Code is only in effect if the guys are friends. Or even somewhat friends. Blake had JUST finished “The Bachelorette”, I doubt he knew any of the other people, and if he did hardly made it so that he had a duty to Michael at all…
    Yep, it sucks when your ex starts dating someone else, even more so when it’s inside the same house but it happens. Mike is a good guy, he’ll find another girl.

    p.s. Blake to me seems like one of those player guys who plays girls until he finds one he really likes and then will treat them like gold and commit like the best of them. Mark my words… That girl is Holly for him.

    Comment by Valerie — September 7, 2011 @ 5:40 pm

  44. Valerie,

    I don’t think it’s Holly. Blake is only interested in her from a physical perspective. I can’t see this lasting. It takes more than physical chemistry to make a relationship work. Once the sex wears off, I am not sure what they will have left.

    I think he’s just a sexaholic, like Holly.

    Both will cheat with each other. Why did Holly say she was flirting with all the guys in the House. Why was Holly playing Michael while flirting with Blake. She was not even sure of his feelings and thought he “might be playing the game.” Blake said in the Nearlywed game that his greatest fear was “dying alone.” He seems desperate. He was like a kid in the candy shop once he walked into BP and wanted to try them all but was only confident enough to pick broken women, like Holly and Melissa. He even seemed tempted to accept Erica’s proposition, but only stopped as he was afraid of APPEARING like an even bigger player.

    My prediction is that once the infatuation wears off, they will both cheat on each other eventually. Players are always players — they might marry but they cheat on their wives. Maybe they will have an open relationship.

    Geez, Holly has bedded: Michael, Jesse, Jeremy, Justin, Matt, Blake (and this is on reality TV alone.)

    If Blake finds her “special,” God help him. I guess it’s his choice, however. Maybe his self esteem and standards are THAT low. Ugh.

    Comment by Blaked — September 7, 2011 @ 6:09 pm

  45. so agree with you Blaked.

    That “Aussie Fan” felt sorry for Jesse’s wife and kids, I think you “Aussie fan” should feel sorry for yourself for being such a low mean spirit. Jesse has a beautiful wife, kid, it is a happy family. I truly feel sorry for you and please leave them alone!

    Comment by Ali — September 7, 2011 @ 6:42 pm

  46. erica made blake feel so awkward about him turning her down, but it was so funny like him getting a taste of his own medicine, since he made melissa go crazy and the whole michael and holly situation. the whole michael/holly/blake thing is as annoying as kasey guarding and protecting vienna and jake bs. the only likable people on the show now are michelle, michael, and ella.

    Comment by le — September 7, 2011 @ 8:14 pm

  47. I think you and Michael are the only ones in America who want to punch Blake in his perfect little dentist teeth. Most would rather want to slap Holly in her two faces. It takes 2 to tango.
    And I don’t know what you have against Graham. Maybe something happened on your season of the bachelorette season?

    Comment by J — September 7, 2011 @ 9:24 pm

  48. Angry Little Leprechaun ~ Jeremy gave you the perfect name. bwah!

    Comment by lol — September 7, 2011 @ 9:40 pm

  49. in an interview:

    http://www.realitytvworld.com/news/blake-julian-and-erica-rose-discuss-their-bachelor-pad-experience-12645.php

    Blake said Holly lied to him. I think she’s more of the problem. She is a silly, self-centered, narcissistic twit who knows how to use and manipulate others. Blake seems like a professional.

    I foresee a lot of heartach for him, especially since they are planning to get married.

    Holly is a full blown sociopath. Cute and convicing as hell — but no conscience. You can see she lies easily and feels no guilty about it.

    Comment by Blaked — September 7, 2011 @ 11:40 pm

  50. I have no respect for Blake any more. With all he has going for him, he picks that trollop. WTF?

    Comment by Gross — September 8, 2011 @ 12:01 am

  51. “Blaked” – you are insane and obviously very envious of Holly. She is cute enough and fun to be around, you shouldn’t be so surprised she landed a hot guy like Blake. By the looks of your numerous comments, your are literally obsessing over, what you think are her faults. A sociopath? really? That’s slightly dramatic. Speaking of, why don’t you put more of your energy into someone like Melissa, who needs some insight and advice.

    Comment by kiki — September 8, 2011 @ 12:27 am

  52. Ali…

    Jesse and Holly have history.. He obviously isn’t over it or still holds a grudge about their past and that’s why he is such a pig about them…

    He goes on about Blake and the Man Code, Dave Good himself on Jesse’s own beatdown said Blake did not break man code, Blake and Michael are not friends, Blake owes Michael nothing….

    My low mean spirit toward Jesse comes from my reaction to his low mean spirit of 2 people who are getting a beating about 60mins of edited TV…

    The only people who know the truth are the people in that house, his beating of Blake and Holly shows his judgement based on edited TV..

    Again I say LOSER!

    Comment by Aussie Fan — September 8, 2011 @ 2:21 am

  53. Oh looky looky Jesse. The Snowboard Babes from Cafemom came to your defense again. Can’t you tell those old ladies that you are a big boy now and can defend yourself? You already have a mother. Otherwise, a great blog Jesse and Beatdown too. Are you going to expand into other Reality shows?

    Comment by SBBagain — September 8, 2011 @ 2:23 am

  54. Jesse, If anything, your blog creates a lot of discussion! I loved your insight but, like others, I’m surprised that you never bring up the drama with Vienna and Kasey. Why? Their fight on Monday was comment worthy.

    Comment by Susie — September 8, 2011 @ 2:56 am

  55. kiki,

    I’m not jealous. I think she’s disgusting. She’s a liar — adn looking at her videos on youtube, she comes across like a party girl or twit. I am a professional person, attractive, and happily married.

    She’s has gone through reality show coupledom like water and reflects the word of society — the narcissism, shallowness, and lack of morals.

    She thinks she is special beause she is on TV and has no accountability for her actions nor concern for who she hurts. She is clearly uneducated and unaccomplished. All she appears to have to offer is her body and endless giggling. I have yet to hear an intelligent thought come out of her mouth.

    Cute? She looks old. I am in in my 30s and I look younger than her. I don’t find her attractive on any level. Actually, few people who appear on this show have any redeeming value or talent. Most are just lounge lizards.

    The only people of class and intellect — were Matt, the doctor, and possibly Ames & Jacki. Otherwise, most of the women are sluts and the men are meatheads.

    Even Deanna, whom I thought to be a strong, intelligent woman has proven herself postshow to be little more than a silly party girl. Melissa comes across as more thoughtrful and intelligent than HOlly — adn certainly more honest.

    What you may not realize is that people with a conscience and soul doubt themselves and are more likely to feel pain. Sociopaths are the least conflicted as they don’t have the moral qualms which weigh others down.

    So Holly can sleep around, use and discard lovers, lie, deceive others, etc. and still be her happy, giggly self. She lied in the game to Blake, Michael, and Melissa. Healthy people do not lie — much of the lying wasn’t part of the game. She is just a liar for lying’s sake.

    I don’t find being attractive just shopping at Anthropologie. Her style does not suit her.

    Frankly I am not concerned with her outward beauty. Her inner ugliness shines through.

    I can’t see what Blake sees in her but listening to him, I am not sure how educated he is either. Jean Jammin’ ? “This show I roll? Sounds more like Charlie Sheen than a professional man. Dry humping fellow constestants a day after meeting them? Who does this on a national TV show? It takes a certain kind of sleazy person.

    You’re insane if you think Holly is anything other than trash. Read the blogs and boards — she is roundly hated and despised. People call her the town bicycle for a reason. She is routinely characterized as the woman men pass around, someone who is indiscrimate.

    She has done little with her life beyond hook up and appear on reality shows. Sorry I don’t envy her. The men she has attracted are of poor caliber too. Jesse? Michael? Blake? I wouldn’t want any of them.

    Blake reminds me of the typical sleazy, sex crazed guy who will bed anything in a skirt. He is easy and easy women like him. Men like him are a dime a dozen. I prefer men like my husband who have strong character.

    I think it’s too bad that Blake is wasting his substance on a twit like HOlly because he seems smarter than the average contestant and to have a modicum of charisma and on camera presence. However, I certainly wouldn’t want to know him socially as he seems pretty shallow himself.

    In fact, both have conducted themselves like sociopaths on this show. There is a reason Blake was teh most hated person in that house — and that Holly is now one of the most despised women in reality TV. She is now considered a slut — and that will be a hard reputation to live down.

    How can she be a credible children’s author when she plays a slut on TV? Who will buy her books? What mother woudl want her as a role model? She is not good looking enough nor charismatic nor intelligent enough to do much on TV beyond playing the giggly, boy crazy ditz.

    The world is full of Holly types. They are a dime a dozen. She is as common as they come. So are Blakes, though the only think outstanding about Blake (and Ames) is that typically intelligent, professional people do not participate in this show. This show attracts people who are perpetually on spring break and want to live the lifestyle of indiscriminate sex, hooking up, drinking, and self-indulgence. Few seem to have careers or any focus or purpose to their lives.

    I don’t envy any of them.

    Blakes’ motivations are pretty clear — as even though he is more intelligent than most contestants, he is still on their level ethically. He wants to sleep around and play the fool, only he’s smart enough to know what this is doing to his reputation and how it will damage him long term.

    Holly is a manipulative slut who has lied to him — and I think like most professional, well educated people, he is easily manipulated by slimely conartists who lack skills beyond street smarts. He likes Holly because she is different from other girls he knew — ie, those who had standards and goals.

    Holly is scary as hell as she has no self restraint. Ali and Ashley were “bubbly” and “cute,” but they weren’t sluts. They were concerned with other people and respected themselves. Holly does whatever suits her in the moment, thinks only of herself, and is undeveloped on so many levels.

    I can’t think that many people admire or envy her — only in your dreams do they do that. If you truly believe she is anything special, you must be either Holly or her family. Most people see her for teh sad, lost soul that she is.

    It’s sad that she is going to now ruin Blake’s life and that he is too much of a sex addict to be able to see her for what she is. He will learn. Sucks for both of them. Thank God I don’t have anyone like Blake or Holly in my life. Wouldn’t allow either one of them into my house, much less place ofo employment. THey are sleazy, dirty people.

    Yes, I expect they look down upon people with standards and think they are “crazy” for not being dissipated escapists and exhibitionists like themselves.

    Comment by Gross — September 8, 2011 @ 3:33 am

  56. Susan Bishop, her lawyer “friend” and her band of merry trolls from Twitter . . Really?? GET A LIFE!

    Comment by Lorraine — September 8, 2011 @ 1:58 pm

  57. Gross and Blaked can you give your dissertation on Vienna and Kasey, please? They have more issues to deal with than anyone in Bachelor/ette history.

    Comment by MaryAnn — September 8, 2011 @ 2:38 pm

  58. Hey Gross you are grose not gross. You’ve said Blake wants to sleep around but can you explain why he turned down Erica the seductive and Melissa the stalker. The only person he was interested in was Holly and he got her. JEALOUS?

    Comment by Tim — September 8, 2011 @ 2:46 pm

  59. Jeremy needs to keep name calling to himself. Just last year he fathered a child and went to great length to keep it quiet. Jeremy likes cougars because they buy him things. Slime balls don’t change.

    Comment by Kellie Ann — September 8, 2011 @ 2:50 pm

  60. Jesse aka hater,

    Blake doesn’t owe Michael any loyalties and Holly was single when they met. It is embarrassing that even Dave the douche bag who is your mentor shot you down on this on wet paint and on your show. Michael seems a good guy and I doubt he would punch Blake under any circumstances. Even if he tried he would failed miserably because on bachelorette Blake has destroyed both Lucas and Ryan in thai boxing so forget that.

    Comment by Jen — September 8, 2011 @ 3:11 pm

  61. Now Holly has 125K to fix the thick lines on her face.

    Comment by john — September 8, 2011 @ 5:07 pm

  62. Holly also has a mom and she is white. Susan you need to stop your trolling and push your fat black ass away from the computer and waddle down to the gym. Work off that fat ass and stop being a man hater and find you one. But then again you wouldn’t know what to do with one. Stop being Holly’s slave and believing everything she tells you and the stupid NY lawyer. Lawyer lady, do you have your teenage daughters blogging with you? Fine example you are, Andrea Green. Holly is a liar and hasn’t gotten alot of things right. Seems she tells things that are untrue and gets her slave Susan to do her dirty work. I also am African American and you are a disgrace to our race. So Aunt Jamina/Susan/Medusa, get a life. Holly dumped Michael because he was going no where. No TV show, daddy had to buy Michael a car, a break dancer so Holly moved on. Producer had a hand in this show making it seem Michael still cared, but he found her out or he would have given the ring back. Amazing what people will do for money. Blake is into the sex cause he knows he will get it from her. Two things Holly does very well, being a liar and being the town bike. I just hope Blake is on antibiotics for a bad tooth. Susan you are a joke and a loser. I’ve watched you for two years. You’ve never met any of these people but you put so much time allowing your black ass to grow so big while you and Holly make up fake accounts to do your blogging. My black ass is small and I have one fine looking man. sjcaligurl you make me puke.

    Comment by janey — September 8, 2011 @ 5:21 pm

  63. Susan Bishop – the reason people talking ALL things ABC shows do more and more on PRIVATE boards is because you are trolling all ABC blogs or other open discussion forums. You have no idea what the other boards talk about anymore because they all kicked you out. Kind of crazy to still hate on Jesse just because some discussion forums who way back when you trolled there were discussing Jesse and the Bachelorette 4 then. Get over it – if you troll boards will kick you out, moderators will block you. Be honest – Jesse supporters were not the first ones who deleted you as a poster.

    Comment by Correct — September 8, 2011 @ 5:23 pm

  64. I must say Susan Bishop, interesting knowing you are a black woman and you are sjcaligurl. You are a mean lowlife bitch. I too am African American and I agree with Janey, you are one sorry piece of crap and you are a disgrace to our people. Fat ass means too much time on it. Holly has really sucked you in. You are stupid.

    Comment by Kelly W. — September 8, 2011 @ 5:28 pm

  65. Face it sjcaligurl, you are a snake and nobody wants you except Holly. Doesn’t that tell you anything or are you really stupid!!! Holly is looking like an old hag and she fits right in phony land. You need to move from San Jose and live closer to the town bike and you could hand out numbers for her. Does your employer know how you use your computer tech talents?

    Comment by janey — September 8, 2011 @ 6:05 pm

  66. Susan Bishop you think you’re so smart, you have NO IDEA what you’re talking about. You speak about what you “heard” NOT true facts. You want to play link games? GAME ON! At least I WAS MARRIED and had children. What’s been your excuse? You’re a loner and always will be. Poor sorry sack of sh*t!

    Comment by SunnyCincinnati — September 8, 2011 @ 7:53 pm

  67. BTW Susan, your link is incorrect — HE WASN’T TALKING ABOUT ME a$$. Follow the discussion STALKER!

    Comment by SunnyCincinnati — September 8, 2011 @ 7:56 pm

  68. Boy Jesse you are raking in the cash here. Sounds like you have a real issue with a multiple personality wacko. How many people is she writing under I wonder. Better get a protection order, she and her computer and her multiple personalities might be lurking. She off the deep end for sure. Great blog however. Keep up the entertainment. We love it.

    Comment by Rachel — September 8, 2011 @ 8:08 pm

  69. This stalker is Holly’s beast unleashed. Holly started all this a few years ago and uses wacko woman to do her dirty work. Lard ass Susan has so many fake names, I’m sure she has a file cabinet to keep track of them.

    Comment by Kellie Ann — September 8, 2011 @ 8:38 pm

  70. I love how Holly’s little devoted fans come to her rescue. Laughable.

    I did notice that Blake didn’t post a blog this week — and that Holly, is supposed to be a writer, has posed nothing. Why is that, I wonder. Hmmmm…

    Holly, you’re gross, slutting around with Deanna’s men, Jeremy and Jesse, and then Michael. YOu know that Jeremy knows Wes and probably also did Vienna. You all are passing around men like candy. Absolutely gross.

    None of them seem to keep you around very long.

    Hey, whatever floats your boat.

    Even if you lack self respect, an education, a career (beyond being a “reality star fame seeker”), modesty, character, and class, you’re very cute — keep telling yourself that and maybe nobody will notice your dour expression, droopy skin, underweight, pre-adolescent body, and overpriced tacky clothing you buy in an effort to copy Jillian’s great fashion sense. You color your hair like Deanna’s. You try to dress like Jillian and dance like Tom Cruise on risky business.

    Can you actually do something original?

    At least Jacki and Ames had wonderful conversations and a real connection. All we saw with you and Blake (or whichever man you’re with — (insert name here) — is just two dogs in heat.

    Laughable.

    Yes, I’m so envisous. I want to be the town slapper too. I can’t figure out how slutting around, being a drunk, and prancing around in a bikini, and slobbering over men you hardly know, pathological lying, gets sex crazed, drunken men to fall all over you. Just boggles the mind.

    Were you the one Wes referred to as “the billy goat who gives good head?”

    I’m so envious and “insane” with jealousy that I can’t be a slapper too. Boy, did I miss out in life.

    Comment by Blaked — September 8, 2011 @ 10:50 pm

  71. Holly?

    Since your writing career has stalled…i have an idea for a new title:

    “Holly Does Dallas, The East Coast, the West Coast, and everywhere else in between.”

    Put a few “cute” pictures of yourself in there, pouting into the camera and dancing like a manaic and then maybe you will be able to call yourself a real best selling author.

    Good luck.

    Comment by Blaked — September 8, 2011 @ 10:55 pm

  72. Jesse, You and your little group of brainwashed followers should really mind your own business. You need to get over your obssession with Holly. You don’t have a very good track record or reputation. At least she didn’t go on cruises and sleep with everyone. You have a family, so if you are truly happy, then it shouldn’t bother you that she found a good, respectable man with a job. Or, is that your problem? Remember your words ‘it’s only a show..a lot of editing’. Same goes for Graham. Who do you think you are to give him advice on how to handle Michelle? He’s a grown man, well liked by everyone in the bachelor/ette world but you. The DeAnna thing is so in the past. Get over it. She sure did. Keep your personal feelings & hot temper to yourself. Not good for your kid to see.

    Comment by Cam — September 9, 2011 @ 5:55 am

  73. PS Kudos to Graham for not putting up with the jerk, Rated R’s snarky remark after the final taping of BPad. Smart Guy.

    And Congrats to Holly and Blake on their engagement. Everyone’s so happy for them. That was inevitable from the beginning of BPad. She & Michael respected each other right to the end and split the $$. Great fairytale ending. Jesse, maybe you can carry on now with your life.

    Comment by Cam — September 9, 2011 @ 6:44 am

  74. When it comes to Holly there is no respect to anyone or for anyone. She is a tramp and will always be a tramp. She only made it to the end because of the free ride she gets from men that she fools. Just like she has fooled you. You are an idiot. How does it feel being a slave to Holly? No one is obsessed with the town bike, far from it. We are all sick of her getting places because she sleeps with anyone and everyone to get there. You run your mouth constantly and know nothing about anything. Crawl back into your snake pit.

    Comment by Kellie Ann — September 9, 2011 @ 9:16 am

  75. Cam, Cam, Cam got some key words here: JOB, brainwashed followers, track record, obsession with Holly. I think I know who you really are “Cam”. I think you’re singing your own song here because what you write is exactly who you are and what you do. Guess misery loves company and you need to share. Well go share with someone who cares because we laugh AT YOU not with you.

    Comment by Elvira — September 9, 2011 @ 2:34 pm

  76. Holly is gross. I hope Blake helps her spend all the money and than kicks her to the curb lol

    Comment by Jenn — September 9, 2011 @ 4:34 pm

  77. Seriously this “man code,” thing is SO high school!As matter of fact BP and the franchises sounds like a high school! I wonder when some of this bunch will ever graduate from the show like Andy Baldwin, Travis Stork, Meredith Philips and Jen Schefft to something else. Of course I’m not surprised with the hooks up either when Kasey blurted out that revelation of Vienna’s liaison with of all people David Good! Like I said BP is so high school. Oh and yes no Kasey and Vienna (again) on this blog. Ok Jesse so you may be tight with these guys but come on you have to write something about them especially You may be free to write about the Holly/Michael/Blake drama but mot one sentence about the most annoying couple in the house. I like Ella and Kirk but I think they are next on the chopping block if the spoilers are correct. Michelle Money wasn’t my favorite on Brad’s 2nd season of as The Bachelor but I commend her for playing the game along with Graham. Good strategy but isn’t that like cheating?

    Comment by me — September 9, 2011 @ 5:27 pm

  78. No to Michael as next bachelor. He’s leftover goods and spoiled by Holly and it would be nice to have a tall man. He is stupid for putting up with Holly’s crap.

    Good if it’s true Justin R. got his whipping. Hard to believe Graham could do any harm to him unless he got him from behind.

    If Holly won the money I must say she did not deserve to win out of all the people on the show. She only made it to the final four because of ho-in around. She is a awful person. This show has gone to the dogs.

    Comment by Kelly Ann S — September 9, 2011 @ 11:50 pm

  79. I think this blog(Jesse’s) and that beatdown show sound like guys who are still in university and thats streching it. Like the pervious poster when do they graduate from BP? Its like the guy who never stops wearing his Uni sweats and has 3 kids. I feel Jesse is is biased in alot of his opinions, its bot being “honest and telling it like it is” I saw one episode of the beatdown and thought all the guys did was complain and talk trash about everyone, and was very childish. Jesse is a Dad , wow. He should never say anyone is a fame whore, is using this BP format for all its worth and then some.That whole BP “family” is.Just because Jesse hosts these parties for the people that have been on there I think he thinks he is the Godfather of anything Bachelor/BP/Bachelorette. Give me a Ames kind of person anyday… Jesse needs to grow up . Big time.

    Comment by Rae B. — September 10, 2011 @ 12:02 am

  80. If Blake was such a bad person he WOULD have spent the night with Erica Rose but he didnt. LOTS of people on the show 1&2 have hooked up eachother for the game, such as Erica Rose (love her btw) Natalie (she said it herself she would kiss anyone to win)(love her too) and thats just a couple. There have been more. Kasey and V lied to everyone to their faces, and then on twitter they kiss everyones butts.. so phoney

    Comment by Rae B. — September 10, 2011 @ 12:19 am

  81. The comments of the haters that keep showing up under Jesse’s FUN and FUNNY blogs must be from people who never had a day of fun in their whole entire life – the best grown ups are the ones who are kids at heart. Totally ironic to demand others to “grow up” when that same board troll spends her “grown up time” and “grown up mind” on hate blogging?!

    Comment by Really — September 10, 2011 @ 12:35 am

  82. The most puzzling is – if you are the kind of person who does not enjoy the Bachelor Pad/Bachelor/Bachelorette what are you doing reading the blogs and following the show anyways…?!

    Comment by Really — September 10, 2011 @ 12:43 am

  83. Well said Really. sjcaligurl have you gone to the gym yet to work on what follows behind you and makes that big shadow? Maybe if you worked off that butt and found a man you would get rid of some of that hate you display when trolling.

    Comment by janey — September 10, 2011 @ 2:19 am

  84. Really—— having fun and being rude are two differnt things. Not too many posters stated they didnt like the show , they were mosting making a point of Jesse being rude. He does have his right to his opinon as do we. If he were a perfect person ok fine, but is he? No. I like others remember him making a web page after he got dumped. When he went on the show it wasnt to win money it was to find love. He has taken that platform and run with it. He is just like the others he calls “famewhores”. He states getting paid to do Bachelor/Bachelorete/pad things so he IS making money off it. And thats perfectly fine, but dont say others are doing just what he is doing. I think he was funny in the beginning too but has since changed. IMO . We all can fun without calling other names and being a cyber bully, he doesnt know everyone thats on the shows.So, more or less he is just like the other viewers. I do have on question for him, why doesnt he rag on Kasey and Vienna? What keeps them out of his rants?

    Comment by Rae B. — September 10, 2011 @ 7:58 am

  85. Rae B.
    You only know half of the story so until you know all of it, you have no clue and your opinion is worthless.

    Comment by Kelly Ann — September 10, 2011 @ 11:38 am

  86. Kelly Ann , Im going by what Ive read on here like others,and seen on TV , its my opinion like you have the right yours and Jesse his but we dont all have to agree. You dont know me how you even say I have no clue? Seems pointless for you to even say something so childish. And you know the whole story? How? nevermind I dont even care….

    Comment by Rae B. — September 10, 2011 @ 1:10 pm

  87. I am curious. Who is Susan Bishop?

    Comment by Sylvia — September 10, 2011 @ 1:33 pm

  88. Like I said Rae B (if that’s who you really are) you have no clue.

    Just saw Richard’s countdown. Great job again. I must say my favorite was you calling Holly out. Truth hurts. If all the rumors are true that there is an engagement for money, how shallow. This show has a history of paying people off to do stupid things and this is another. It will not last.

    Sorry, Jesse, but Michael as the next bachelor – no. He’s not a good choice. Just to put him on there because of what he went thru on BP, not a good choice. He let Holly walk all over him and sorry but he’s week. Love or no love, there comes a point when you stand up for yourself as Erica Rose pointed out to him. America is sick of the Michael and Holly drams. Richard would be a great choice for next bachelor if Ben is not picked.

    Comment by Kelly Ann — September 10, 2011 @ 1:35 pm

  89. Rae B: Your comments are Right-On….Excellent! Ironic, too, that his little group of followers use the same verbage as he does. Most happily married men work, and spend their time with their family, not sitting at the computer all day vying for 1st place in digging up gossip, corresponding with women, applying for freebees, & trying to keep himself in the media spotlight. He thinks he’s the King of Bachelor World, and is afraid everyone’s going to forget about him. Most have or want to…lmao!

    Comment by Cam — September 10, 2011 @ 3:26 pm

  90. Kelly Ann , One thing Im curious about is why cant I be me? Who else would I be? That doesnt make sense? Why do you keep implying Im someone else? I came here to voice my opinion and Im doing that. If you need to know Rae is my middle name. Seems like you cant keep on the topic at hand -just who I am? Strange really. Kelly Ann you know you these people personally? So you know the “real” scoop? Kelly Ann if thats who you really are maybe youre Jesse! Whatever, this is my last correspondence to you, I didnt come here to prove I know these people personally and I am who I am. Stangest post I ever saw. And futhermore my opinion is not worthless.I know that for sure.

    Comment by Rae B. — September 10, 2011 @ 4:15 pm

  91. No, this is not Jesse. I could care less who you are, Rae. I just know Holly is an awful person and I know what she is capable of. The little ring of sjcaligurl holly supporters are disgraceful. Once again, susan, you spend too much time on here. Go find the gym and loose the load you carry. Being a Holly slave is not attractive.

    Comment by Kelly Ann — September 10, 2011 @ 4:45 pm

  92. Cam, As I told you before you are a disgrace to the African Americans. You need to stop running your mouth and spend some time getting your life in order. No man no kids only you and your computer. As I told you before, we don’t want you here and we don’t care about what you have to say like the other sites you have been kicked off. You are a slave to Holly and have to spend so much time defending her. Read the blogs on what they have to say about her. Pretty cut and dry.

    Comment by janey — September 10, 2011 @ 5:00 pm

  93. Just for the record I think Kasey was a jerk asking Vienna to have sex. I don’t know if the producers had a hand in this but it was a tacky scene. I would have sent him packing. Cam, I’m a little sick of your comments. It would be a better blog here if you would kindly exit and not reenter. You truly are an ass.

    Comment by Frank — September 10, 2011 @ 5:07 pm

  94. Kelly Ann,FYI Ive never posted a thing about Holly. I dont know who you are talking about sjckigurl or Susan, sorry. I mostly posted about Jesse and his blog. And dont know why you have singled me out to attack this way. This was my first time to this blog site so I dont know the circle of people you are talking about. Go thru the few comments Ive made I never posted about Holly so what your beef with me? There is none. Go bother someone else, thanks.

    Comment by Rae B. — September 10, 2011 @ 5:13 pm

  95. sjckigurl is susan bishop or Medusa Holly’s unleashed beast. I have not singled you out but your writing is much like sjckigurl. She has been blocked from sites because of her nasty comments. Holly feeds her info and stupid believes it. Sjckigurl needs to work on her own life.

    Comment by Kelly Ann — September 10, 2011 @ 5:42 pm

  96. KellyAnn , just to assume somone is someone else on blog is kind of crazy, no? You just cant go around telling people their opinions are worthless because you “think” they talk/type like someone else. If you read my posts the only ones I really posted about were Kasey and Vienna not being in Jess’s rants. Lots of people have posted their thoughts some being nasty and are they all blocked? Are you somesort of police of this site and all the blogs? Sorry Im not getting what you are saying. I dont know who you are talking about someone who is supposed to be Holly’s unleashed beast. Like I said this is my first time to this site. I only know these people from the show and nothing more. Well we are all here saying what we think , I do have a life and Im sure you do too. So lets leave it at that….. Im not who you thought I was, just someone new trying to post my thoughts….. Have a good day

    Comment by Rae B. — September 10, 2011 @ 8:35 pm

  97. This whole thing is disgusting. I feel bad for the others members of Bachelor Pad who didn’t sell themselves out because they had dollar signs behind their eyes. And right in front of your ex-fiance? PLEASE.

    Comment by ummm — September 10, 2011 @ 10:23 pm

  98. I think BP is scripted by the producers. Didn’t care for the drama with M&H and V&K. It was drawn out way too much and offering someone money to get engaged on tv shows that your values can be bought. If this is all true then they are shallow people.

    Comment by Elaine — September 11, 2011 @ 12:35 am

  99. I’m just curious…what is the thinking that goes into Blake’s judgment? How is he going to live this down? He got paid to propose to the Bachelor bicycle.

    He didn’t win or earn money by being clever or outsmarting the competition but by essentially hooking up on national TV.

    How is he going to explain that to his future patients or in laws? What he has done has reflected so poorly on his character.

    At least Travis Stork is respectable. Where is Blake going to go with this exactly? Who would give him his own show or watch it — over the fact that he is household name for being free and easy with reality show women.

    Is he that desperate for money? Insecure about his future prospects and ability that he had to descend to this? Do these people think they are going to be rewarded with their own shows for being professional pimps/prostitutes?

    Tomorrow a new crop of reality show stars will be born, and then where will they be and who will want them?

    I just don’t understand the thinking here.

    And if Blake truly loved Holly, why didn’t he get quietly engaged to her — out of the spotlight. Why defile her on national TV in front of Michael? Almost seems as though they hatched this strategy on the ski trip to milk money out of the franchise.

    It’s all so sickening.

    Comment by NatFan — September 11, 2011 @ 2:26 am

  100. Holly continues to show us about her values. Another chapter has been added to her Hollywood profile.

    Comment by janey — September 11, 2011 @ 11:12 am

  101. Apprently! Wow!

    Comment by LilBowWow — September 11, 2011 @ 1:13 pm

  102. Yes, just need to mind our own business. Disgusting isn’t the right word, I guess confusion is more like it. But really, it isn’t any of our business and we all should be pushing for love, not hate.

    Comment by ummm — September 11, 2011 @ 10:05 pm

  103. “Pushing for love???” How is calling off an engagement (to Michael) = “Pushing for love?” Holly is pushing for opportunities – and that is the anti-thesis of romantic love!

    Comment by Confused — September 12, 2011 @ 2:53 am

  104. True no love in all this. It’s a bike wreck.

    Comment by janey — September 12, 2011 @ 9:21 am

  105. Im kind of both sides of the fence on the Holly and Michael issue. When she came on the BP2 she wasnt him, he sees her again ( had 3 months to contact her right? ) and then tries to win her back. She is conflicted , isnt sure she can trust him, I think we have all been there on that one. She meets a new guys has feeling for him while trying to consider Michael’s feelings along in this game/process. I can see how you (we) would want to go for the love , and still try to work out your feelings for your ex. Could she have handled it differently ? Well yes and no , yes should have waited till the show/game was over . Would she want to wait and maybe loose out at something? I guess I really cant say , we would all handle this in differnt ways. And if what they say- they are all drinking who knows? I would like to think I would be the kind of person who would come out and say to my ex I think we had our shot at love and its over,it didnt work, Im moving on.I like Michael he seems like a nice guy. I dont feel Blake really did anything wrong but fall for someone he found interesting. I dont know alot of the their back stories so maybe Im commenting out of turn, but I try to be a positive person in life and hope they all can find their happiness in whateve that might be. If the rumors are they got engaged for money or the show well thats really stupid. I hope not.

    Comment by Rae B. — September 12, 2011 @ 2:04 pm

  106. If Holly & Blake did fall in love, get engaged, and got the ring etc paid for, all in 6-8 wks, it’s not any different than what the ‘winners’ on the Bachelor/ette do, including breaking up soon after (most of them).

    Comment by Cam — September 12, 2011 @ 4:33 pm

  107. Another bike wreck.

    Comment by janey — September 23, 2011 @ 10:46 pm

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