Jesse Csincsak’s Bachelor Pad 2 Blog: Finale

Okay, I want to start off by saying that my blog is based on MY OPINIONS of the people on this show. A lot of these people are not what their edits make them out to be and I am going to point that out in this blog. So that means if you are going to freak out about what I have to say about each of these people NOW IS A GREAT TIME TO STOP READING! Also, I am not a writer or English major so save your spelling and grammar corrections for someone who is worried about it (NOT ME). I also want to mention I would never say anything in my blog or in any other media outlet that I wouldn’t say directly to someone’s face! I know and have met most of the people I speak of in my blog. With all of that said, onto Monday night’s episode!

Vegas Contest Cirque de Soleil

I would like to start off by saying I love seeing Jason Mesnick, Trista Sutter and Ali Fedowtowski in Las Vegas as judges! What’s one thing all 3 of these successful couples have in common? NONE OF THEM LIVE IN HOLLYWOOD! Jason lives in Seattle, Trista Lives in Colorado and Ali lives in San Diego. Just a little lesson to all the People who have been on this show who are thinking about moving to LA to make it – DON’T BOTHER!

Onto the contest ­­­– This is a game show based around relationships, right? Why strap a bunch of people who are scared of heights into some harnesses? With that said I think Graham, Michelle, Michael and Holly did a great job with this challenge.

Onto the Final 4 decision by Michael and Holly – I am not sure I would have picked Graham and Michelle even though it worked out the best for them. I think picking Vienna and Kasey would have been the smart choice as they had upset a lot of people on their road to the finale and wouldn’t have gotten the votes that Graham and Michelle got.

Onto the studio audience finale:

Jake – For God sakes man, you came on to get more camera time and win the money just like Graham. I wish you guys would cut the crap already and at least be honest with yourselves. No one goes on TV to make things right with an ex! This isn’t Jerry Springer! You came on hoping to win and make Vienna look like the bad guy in the process plain and simple! If I have to hear you talk about extending an olive branch one more time I am going to vomit. Who do you think you are, Adam from of Adam and Eve? Get over yourself and stop talking like you’re reading what your saying out of a book, it’s super annoying!

Blake – When I watch you on TV I kind of feel like I am watching a high school football player who is full of himself falling in love with his airhead cheerleader girlfriend. Before I say what I am about to say I want to point out that you just met her a few weeks ago in a group setting with her ex-fiancé living with both of you. It’s not like it was a romantic setting like being on the Bachelor or Bachelorette either. How many people do you know who have known each other for less than a few months that can actually make a marriage work while having a relationship in the limelight? Let me help you out: NOT A LOT! I will tell you like I told Stagliano a while back: she will leave you for the bigger better deal – I promise. She has done it a half a dozen times now (Google it), what makes you think your situation is any different from Stagliano’s? My advice would be to marry her before the next season of the Bachelorette ends or she will break off your engagement and leave you for the next new guy off the show like she did with Stagliano. Oh, and Blake, when she does leave, you can’t get mad at the guy for stepping in on you because that’s exactly what you did to Stags.

Justin Rated R – I have to say I was actually impressed with your question to Stagliano at the finale. You asked him what his partner Holly had actually brought to the team throughout the contest. He really didn’t have an answer he just said “trust” to be nice. But you asked the question that everyone was thinking and I LIKE THAT.

Stagliano – I have never met you but I have to say I am totally impressed with your actions throughout this contest! You are a better man than I will ever be. You took your emotions out of this game numerous times even though inside you had to feel like dying. YOU ARE A CLASS ACT! I HOPE TO MEET YOU ONE DAY AND WISH YOU NOTHING BUT THE BEST IN THE FUTURE! WELL DONE BRO!

That’s it for me and this season of the Bachelor Pad, I’m Out!


  1. oh please he Blake spent more time with Holly there & after the show then the guys on the bachelor period & they got engaged.. Engagment these days does not apparently mean the same as it did years ago.

    The one absolutle part of believe of Jessies rant is what he said about Jake & what is more annoying is the fact now all of a sudden some past contestents are siding up with Jake.. Fickle dysfunctional bachelor family to say the least.

    Vienna is not perfect but she also did not deserve a lot of the crap past contestants are throwing at her. Don’t call it a game & say no hard feelings its all in fun when you know damn well its not. I am totally shocked at how ABC supported Jake this time around & Chris Harrison trying to needle Kasey & Vienna about there relation ship was nauseating & he couldn’t have show anymore dislike for someone on that show then he did to Vienna.. It is clear when they brought Jake back they had a motive & it was directed at Vienna.

    We know what ABC did to Michelle on Brads season & how they then turned her around & some of the people blowing smoke up her butt were also trashing her from that season & you know who you are.

    One thing for sure Vienna is a strong woman & good for her & truth be known I have never been an ardent fan of Vienna but she wins me over on this one. The fact that ABC chose not to include her giving Jake & hug also shows also ABC motives. Sad not even the contestants from teh finale that witnessed that all take place have not stood up in her favour. A bunch of Chicken crap all still trying for there 15 minutes..

    I expect a totall bash of Vienna & Blake & Holly on Bachdown tonight. Nothing will have chnaged in that dept & don’t get me started MAN frigging code. Real men don’t kiss & tell or incinuate an event took place or didn’t. Those are cheap shots liek bullies hiding behind man code.

    Now I am done & these are my opinions only mine alone!! Thank you for the forum to do this.

    Comment by blinded — September 13, 2011 @ 11:30 pm

  2. I think I am the female version of Jessie……he took the words right out of my mouth! Here’s to wishing Blake and Holly nothing but the worst. Hope that 25k and that ring was worth selling out what little self-respect you had left. Hey ABC, why not step up and do the right thing and make Mike Stagliano the next bachelor. Least you could do after you tortured him for ratings!

    Comment by Kat Showalter — September 13, 2011 @ 11:39 pm

  3. I feel bad for your wife because you can’t get over Holly. Dude you need to build a bridge and GET OVER IT. You are the ultimate fame whore in every way. What kind of a father would make for a toddler a twitter account?. Only a dead beat dad like you. Blake is way out of your league; he looks much better than you, more educated than you, more articulated than you and he got the girl that you were and still obsessed with. Loser/hater get a real life.

    Comment by jen — September 13, 2011 @ 11:44 pm

  4. Why don’t you call it comments the contestants that you hate instead of calling it blog. This rant of yours is getting old. You are commenting the same people over and over again with the same fabricated stuff. You can’t past the fact that you got dumped multiple times in public so you are trying to heal by putting every one you don’t like down.
    Stag doesn’t want your advice

    Comment by cindy — September 13, 2011 @ 11:53 pm

  5. ABC sure did target Vienna and Kasey. Kasey was out of control on the BP but it was of real character for him to admit it last night. ABC has always tried to make Jake look good. I think it’s too late for that.

    I think Michael let Holly walk all over him all during BP. Just like Justin said – she did nothing to earn it. I was smiling when Graham told Blake he wasn’t a fan of his. Was never a Graham fan but he sure impressed me last night. Holly showed disrespect for Michael last night with the engagement. If she cared one ounce for him she would have done the engagement privately. Tacky but that’s Holly and she probably needs the money so she screwed Michael over one more time.

    Comment by janey — September 13, 2011 @ 11:58 pm

  6. Lets also not forget Jason Mesnick & Molly & he dumping Melissa on National TV but now there buddies & married & all is forgiven.. Wow how hypocritical bachelor group.

    Its all about the drama. Some people need shrinks & its not the ones you rip on & its not me.

    Comment by blinded — September 14, 2011 @ 12:01 am

  7. I see you are trolling again. Holly has nothing that anyone is obsessed with. She proved again last night what kind of person she is. Michael is now a very lucky man.

    Comment by Kelly W — September 14, 2011 @ 12:08 am

  8. YES :) Finally, someone tells it like it is! You just voiced the opinions of thousands of viewers everywhere.

    Comment by N — September 14, 2011 @ 12:14 am

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    Comment by Holly's PR — September 14, 2011 @ 12:15 am

  10. Jesse,

    Thanks for your blog. I hope what you say about Holly isn’t true. I think Blake is actually a nice guy. He got himself in a lot of pickles, but at the end of the day I don’t think he’s a malicious person and I hope he doesn’t get his heart broken.

    As for Michael, he should totally be the Bachelor next!

    People seem to put too much emphasis on the relationships and not the game. Michael was a stand up guy the whole way through, but had they picked Kasey and Vienna to go to the finals I don’t think it should have reflected poorly on his character. Graham’s reaction to their conversation was inappropriate in my opinion. (I like Graham, but I disagreed with him on that point.)

    Well, until next season…

    Comment by Elizabeth — September 14, 2011 @ 12:19 am

  11. Jesse,

    I agree. When I first saw Blake, I thought he was a gorgeous, articulate man, but the more I see of him adn Holly — the more I am reminded of a smug football player and his airhead girlfriend.

    I almost think that Holly and Blake hatched this scheme at the ski lodge. Holly proposed that they pretend to fall in love on the show and then get engaged to milk the show for publicity for better opportunities.

    Blake has said he will prostitute himself for money. He did it with Melissa. I think he did it also with Holly. I think he likes her and is attracted, but I think the stolen glanes nonsense is ridiculous. They were both playing to the cameras – otherwise they could have waited until after the show to have explored their connection.

    I think it was telling when Holly said that she didnt know what wa real until she saw it on TV. She is living in a dream state.

    Holly appears to be a lost soul. Over the years she has earned the reputation of “Ho” for short. Gee, she looked up and photographs herself looking up womens’ skirts….and she does trade men repeatedly for publicity….in a serious way…She has been doing this since 2007.

    Let’s be honest, Holly is not attractive or talented. She is at best, average to below average looking, with a cute, party-esque personality. She also is a pathological liar. I caught he lying numerous times on the show and on interviews. She keeps changing her stories or perhaps is too confused in her thinking to keep anything straight.

    I think she and Blake are using each other.

    If they get married, more power to them…they deserve each other as they are of the same moral fiber — however I see Blake getting tired fast of her stupidity.

    Holly is just an airhead who has learned to use men. Blake saw her as a meal ticket.

    I don’t think anyone respects or likes either of these two and I think their reputations are permanently damaged. Without integrity, one has nothing.They are not likely enough to be promoted to anything special. Who’d want to watch Holly and Blake. Most people dislike them intensely.

    Not much more to be said really.

    Comment by Holly's PR — September 14, 2011 @ 12:27 am

  12. From a man’s point of view – Michael was an idiot to not keep the money. It’s one thing to love another but continually allow them to use you as a doormat is another thing. Michael allowed Holly to walk all over him on national tv. If Holly really cared about Blake she would not have vote him off. She could have done another love exit like Ames and Jackie. Graham and Michelle look pretty into one another also but we didn’t see them getting engaged for money.

    Comment by Frank — September 14, 2011 @ 12:43 am

  13. Holly’s History:

    Worked as a baby sitter and then attached herself to Justin on American Idol.

    She then went on the Bachelor Pad — either because a.)she auditioned to be the Bachelorette (yeah right!) or b.) she was noticed walking down teh street and asked to be on the show (yeah right as well. She has provided both explanations. Which one is it, Holly.

    She appeared on Matt Grant’s season, played the airhead, wearing immodest cleavage-baring tops and speaking nonsense. Matt Grant used her in the hot tub but decided she was not intelligent or interesting enough to keep around.

    Holly then complained about how he couldn’t be serious about marriage if he didn’t pick someone like her — who only brought sex and stupidity to the table.

    After the show was over, she tried to hook up with Matt again, but that didn’t work out.

    She then attached herself to Deanna’s men — trying to hook up with Jeremy and Jesse. Neither one wanted her.

    She then became Deanna’s gal pal. Together they made gangsta videos where they dance around like a bunch of dumb twits, shaking their booty for the camera in a desperate effort to get attention, somehow thinking they are cute.

    Both go on teh party circuit, randomly hooking up with men. They film themselves in lesbian photographs because they think it’s funny and looking at women’s privates. Holly perfects the dumb, glassy eyed, labotomized look for which she has become famouse.

    Holly whines about how Jesse victimized her and how she and Deanna have fallen out of favor.

    She then hooks up with poor Michael whom she tries to marry with Deanna. She dyes her hair brown to look just like Deanna since they are marrying twins — hopign to get publicity for the show. When they fail to get the requisite publicity, she dumps Michael.

    She then latches onto Blake, accepting a fake proposal on the air while giggling over having won $125,000 by doing nothing beyond slutting herself out to two men on national TV, giggling, and being a complete talentless imbecile for the cameras.

    In the meantime, her codependent, enabling family cheer her on, saying how cute and pretty she is and posting articles and pictures about her on Facebook.

    In the meantime, she calls herself an author, without having published a single book and while remaining borderline illiterate, using phrases like “him and I,” among others which reflect her complete and utter lack of education.

    Holly looks decades older than her years while she is out fame whored by a smarter predator, Blake, who is setting out to use her whiel telling her he actually cares for her.

    However, no one cares about Holly but herself.

    Comment by Holly's Google — September 14, 2011 @ 1:01 am

  14. You are so envious of Blake cause he’s a better man than you are and has more class. His and Holly’s love is more real and believable than those who have come on this reality bachelor/bachelorette shows. Finally Holly has met a guy that has a real career and a dentist, and not trying to be in showbiz like the rest of you. Blake is the type of guy you marry and Holly knows that. He is a responsible guy and a great catch and not someone she will leave. She finally found a real man. I’m sure she regrets dating a pathetic mean spirited negative looser like you. You are so classless for always bashing Holly and Blake in your blog. Get a life and move on. Michael needs to find someone else too and let Blake and Holly be happy. They are truly in love and the kind of love that will make it. And they will be living a normal happy life in south or north Carolina where he has a dental practice, and you will continue to wallow in your envy and bitterness.

    Comment by Tami — September 14, 2011 @ 1:01 am

  15. Hey Jesse,
    Well said! What did u think about Ames & Jackie’s response about not being 2gether? I do think they r very different. Ames seems like a great guy but Jackie…. not a big fan.

    Comment by Happy Girl — September 14, 2011 @ 1:04 am

  16. Ames did not seem to into Jacki, who comes across as a bit mean spirited and controlling. I suspect he felt she was lakcing intellectually. She also apparently made a pass at Jake on BP after she kissed Ames.

    In the Finale, she seemed really into him, more so that vice versa. She should have let him chase her instead of attaching on some tightly so fast.

    Yes Ames is a great catch — but if she were more secure within herself, she would have let him chase her, which he seemed wont to do, and if he didn’t, she should have let him go.

    She seems suffrocating.

    Comment by Francine — September 14, 2011 @ 1:16 am

  17. I totally agree with everything in this blog! I’m interested to know what your take was on the Jackie & Ames situation. I hope both Blake and Jake (the snakes) read this.

    Comment by Jen — September 14, 2011 @ 1:28 am

  18. I noticed Ames would not look at Jackie. She seems so heartbroken. Other than saying, we are two different people, doesn’t make sense. If she did something or he changed his mind he needs to be honest and tell her why. When a person can’t look you in the eye, he usually isn’t being honest.

    Comment by Frank — September 14, 2011 @ 2:06 am

  19. I am not some crazed reality show watching chick, but I will admit I enjoy stepping out of “reality” for an hour or so a week to watch the interesting (usually drama filled) plot that The Bachelor/Bachelor Pad producers have up their sleeves. I have seen your videos you post on facebook were you bring together past cast members from the show to discuss episodes. I have always kept in mind not to believe everything (or even half) the things I see on these shows. With that said, if Michael truly did not know prior to the taping that Holly and Blake got engaged then I feel that the producers of the show really crossed the line from “entrainment” to downright cruel. Sure there are tons of reality TV shows that cruelty is the story line but I have always felt that The Bachelor wanted, or at least tried to betray a sense of classiness.
    Allowing someone to receive that type of heartbreaking news just seemed wrong. In my eyes, and maybe I am wrong there was not enough editing in the world to see how much Michael loved that girl. That is someone’s heart and soul they crushed on national TV. For what? Ratings? Michael’s reaction to the announcement was honorable and TV or not I bet he is a hell of a guy and will find happiness ahead.
    You know those moments when you have something on your mind and it just feels better to put it out there? That is how I am feeling now. My 2 cents may not mean a darn thing to you, ABC, or The Bachelor and that will not keep me up at night. I just wanted to state my opinion, that this “classy” reality show is on it’s way to “trashy”.

    Comment by No Longer A Fan — September 14, 2011 @ 3:13 am

  20. On what planet does Blake have more character and integrity than Jesse? Get real! Jesse is a wonderful husband and father. He is hard-working, funny, nice, and successful. He loves being a dad to his adorable son. Blake is just a smarmy, oily snake who uses women.

    Comment by Corri — September 14, 2011 @ 3:31 am

  21. To all the people who think Holly and Blake are using each other, my mom and dad got married after 2 months of knowing each other and they are still together, after about 25 years. Blake and Holly talked to each other everyday…if they think they are doing the right thing, good for them!They can do whatever they want! And to all the people who think Holly’s a slut, what if maybe this time she is really in love? She’s 28…maybe she does really wanna end up with someone that she wants to spend the rest of her life with (with Blake)
    It’s my opinions…c’mon people, lets show some love!

    Comment by Jess — September 14, 2011 @ 4:03 am

  22. So Jesse,

    Now that BP2 is over and we have been so graciously entertained by your OPINIONS in writing your weekly blog, I have one more opinion to ask of you.

    What actually has gotten under your skin the worst?

    Knowing Michael and Holly whom you’ve shown so much love for week after week, win the money?


    Graham winning the girl and looking damn good doing it?

    Obviously you have reminded us that you’re not a fan of his, but didn’t he kinda prove you wrong in both aspects of your theoy above?

    1.) Very seldom did Graham push to be on camera, even Michelle said they stayed pretty much away from all the drama, that could have gotten them plenty of air time…just ask your buds Vienna and Kasey.

    2.) Money? Does he really need it? I mean, didn’t you in one of your blogs pretty much say if we google 46NYC then we would know where the money goes? hummm…Guess I “PROUDLY” put a few dollars in his pocket then.

    3.) Other than sincerely wanting to win for Michelle because of their UNITED fight in her fathers name, I didn’t see him rallying the troops begging for the money for him personally.

    So sounds like you went 0-2 here, however indeed priceless that you wear the jealousy of GB for whatever reason so well…

    Its been REAL….

    ps…Since Graham didn’t win the money on BP2, the least you can do is visit his website, buy a t/shirt for you and the family in support of Michelle’s dad….that way its to a good cause and Graham can maybe eat for another month….so says you!


    Comment by Junipherbreezy — September 14, 2011 @ 4:31 am

  23. Thanks to everyone for reading ! To all my haters = hahahah Thanks for the Clicks and the Comments $$$$ Howz that for Karma hahahahah See ya next season !!

    Comment by Jesse Csincsak — September 14, 2011 @ 4:56 am

  24. I think Kasey should leave toxic Vienna behind, he never acted that mean spirited on The Bachelorette.Do you think he was really sorry or was it a cover? To me it looks like Vienna can make men act crazy. She reminds of Kate from the show with the kids , a big mouth and thinks she is always right.

    In my opinon the guys that were on the show with Ashley were pretty classy guys and it showed. These guys on the beatdown act like boys in college , laughing at each others jokes ( which are lame and crude) pretty much talking about being drunk and seem to be going no where. Wes is a good looking guy but always seems to try to talk with this “shock value” and Jesse and the guys all laugh and agree with him . Talking about screwing a goat ? hmmm
    One guys eats his dinner, another is talking in the background…… doesnt seem too professional to me. Please Jesse dont talk about any body tring to be fame whores ever again …. that whole “Bachelor/ette family” is doing just that… from blogs to beatdown to get togethers , fashion critic , videos on Utube. and so on and so on. I find your blog to be is mean spirited , hope you teach your son to more compassionate towards others.

    Nice comment btw Karma and $$$$$ whatever…. laugh all you want doesnt show much character.

    Comment by Rae B. — September 14, 2011 @ 5:53 am

  25. I agree with the haters on here… All you do is sell your stories and blogs to the media because you want the attention…. No wonder Deanna dumped you…. I am tired of seeing your name over and over again. Your season ended 2 and a half years ago…. Most of the people who were on your season have moved on to greater things! Move on and quit using your “Bachelorette fame”

    Comment by Rebbekka — September 14, 2011 @ 6:35 am

  26. Jesse spitting mad at the group of people he dislikes what else is new here? LOL Good on Jesse to defend is buddy Vienna but here’s the deal. She made herself look like a fool at the reunion. Of course ABC won’t show the charades part. What was she thinking? She should know that by now! Jake may not be perfect either but NO ONE IS. I feel bad for Kasey but he chose to be with Vienna. She looked like she wanted to slap him for apologizing to Jake. Now that’s a Jerry Springer moment thank you Vienna! I had a huge laugh when she denied being mean to Jake and some of the cast called her out on that. Sorry but comes around goes around. What can I say about Jackie and Ames? Awkward! Poor Jackie! I feel bad for Michael Stagliano but after being upset at the news of Holly and Blake’s engagment (shame on you ABC that was not cool!) he was a gentleman and took the forgiveness route to share the money. He was not gonna be angry. He wasn’t going to be vindictive. That is very hard to do but kudos to him and he will move on. I wish him the best.

    Comment by me — September 14, 2011 @ 7:11 am

  27. Oh and you calling the more visible Bachelor and Bachelorette alums famewhores I have to agree with the haters. You could have moved on from the show but you’re still here talking about it and using this blog as a source of income. In a way you are still using the Bachelorette to stay in the limelight. Sorry Jesse but that’s the truth. Not being a hater just being frank.

    Comment by me — September 14, 2011 @ 7:36 am

  28. They have a point Jesse. Ur haters, I mean. While I agree that Blake is an arrogant ass, and Holly is NOT even close to being “all that”, in fact they both rub me the wrong way. Yes, Vienna’s annoying and she’s fake. I think Kasey will see the light sooner than later, and move out of their humble abode. KK’s a sweet man and he deserves to ligve his life being happy. As LONG as he’s w/ V, he will simply wallow in misery. Not worth the “few” times she’s “sweet” to him.

    LOVE Mike Stag! What a good guy. Funny too!!! Not my type looks wise, but he’s not ugly like Blake. I have no idea what girls see in him. Holly’s a douche, what can I say? I didn’t like her, and don’t like her still.

    Ames pissed me off for not looking at Jackie. Jackie seems sweet and she was hurt bad enough to not get out of bed for a week. He OWED her more of an explanation!!! I think either: A)They didn’t mesh sexually or B)he wanted to be out trampin’ around w/ the single boys! There’s pics all over Twitter of him in pics.

    I used to be a huge Ames fan, not anymore. He needs a fasjion expert BADLY. The red pants he wore on the episode where he followed Jackie out made me laugh so hard I almost spewed a kidney!! Good Lord.

    Jake is fake-fake-FAKE!!!!!! U cannot believe anything that comes out of that dude’s mouth. He’s gross. Can’t stand fake ass ppl and he’s a perfect model for one.

    Erica surprised me. She is growing up! Nive to see.

    I understand Ella had a nose job 1 week b4 the finale’. Other stuff too. Said she didn’t have to “pay” for it. Weird. I thought she was beautiful w/o any surgery, but to each there own. Kirk is a cool dude. I wish him all the best life has to offer! He just glows:)

    I was very surprised to find out that Michelle was into Graham, but as time went on, I said- ok, that’s cool…looks aren’t everything. If she likes him, he must be a good dude. I hope they have a long and happy relationship!!!

    Melissa is a nice person, and I know a lot was editing, but she’s wayyyyyyyyyy too emotional! I thought she was crazy, but maybe not.

    Jesse: I do like your take on these folks, but maybe you wanna just gentle it a lil… Just a suggestion, cuz man- even for my taste, ur pretty rough! Clas it up a few, k? :)

    Comment by NorCal Batch Viewer — September 14, 2011 @ 9:05 am

  29. They have a point Jesse. Ur haters, I mean. While I agree that Blake is an arrogant ass, and Holly is NOT even close to being “all that”, in fact they both rub me the wrong way. Yes, Vienna’s annoying and she’s fake. I think Kasey will see the light sooner than later, and move out of their humble abode. KK’s a sweet man and he deserves to ligve his life being happy. As LONG as he’s w/ V, he will simply wallow in misery. Not worth the “few” times she’s “sweet” to him.

    LOVE Mike Stag! What a good guy. Funny too!!! Not my type looks wise, but he’s not ugly like Blake. I have no idea what girls see in him. Holly’s a douche, what can I say? I didn’t like her, and don’t like her still.

    Ames pissed me off for not looking at Jackie. Jackie seems sweet and she was hurt bad enough to not get out of bed for a week. He OWED her more of an explanation!!! I think either: A)They didn’t mesh sexually or B)he wanted to be out trampin’ around w/ the single boys! There’s pics all over Twitter of him in pics.

    I used to be a huge Ames fan, not anymore. He needs a fasjion expert BADLY. The red pants he wore on the episode where he followed Jackie out made me laugh so hard I almost spewed a kidney!! Good Lord.

    Jake is fake-fake-FAKE!!!!!! U cannot believe anything that comes out of that dude’s mouth. He’s gross. Can’t stand fake ass ppl and he’s a perfect model for one.

    Erica surprised me. She is growing up! Nive to see.

    I understand Ella had a nose job 1 week b4 the finale’. Other stuff too. Said she didn’t have to “pay” for it. Weird. I thought she was beautiful w/o any surgery, but to each there own. Kirk is a cool dude. I wish him all the best life has to offer! He just glows:)

    I was very surprised to find out that Michelle was into Graham, but as time went on, I said- ok, that’s cool…looks aren’t everything. If she likes him, he must be a good dude. I hope they have a long and happy relationship!!!

    Melissa is a nice person, and I know a lot was editing, but she’s wayyyyyyyyyy too emotional! I thought she was crazy, but maybe not.

    Jesse: I do like your take on these folks, but maybe you wanna just gentle it a lil… Just a suggestion, cuz man- even for my taste, ur pretty rough! Class it up a few, k? :)

    Comment by NorCal Batch Viewer — September 14, 2011 @ 9:09 am

  30. OH yea one more thing Jesse, Blake never took Holly from Michael they were NOT together. Michael might have wanted to get back together and maybe Holly wasnt sure after seeing him, but meeting someone changed her mind. You Jesse, and others can say she should have waited blah blah but it might have been a romantic setting for them, Jesse who are you to say it wasnt , you were not there. So, you can only fall in love on the Bachelor or Bachelorette ? Uhm wasnt your now wife part of that whole Bachelor/ett family too after Deanna broke up with you? Someone is usally someones ex we all have baggage and a past and if you all “the bachelor/ett family hang together what do you expect?
    its bound to happen. Blake came into the house right after being with Ashley on her show , was he even aware of what that house thing was about same as Ames? I think everyone can point fingers as to when and not fall inlove but if happens it happens.Who are we to say? Everyone keeps saying ABC this and that controls whatever. All I can say is Jesse you are coming across as a big bully and why you never say anything about Vienna we cant figure out . Have you been with her too and are covering up? She looked like a spoiled brat on the that finale show laughing at when Kasey said well Vienna is Vienna. I think she carried on that poor woooe is me routine long enough now…. move on missy! I hope Kasey takes the time to really think about what he is getting himself into, maybe they can work it out maybe not, but to have your bf sit there on TV crying saying she doesnt much meet me half way and is more or less verbally absusive woow!

    Comment by Rae B. — September 14, 2011 @ 10:01 am

  31. Karma is the double standard you use to throw others under the bus by saying they are on tv for fame and money, when you sit here and confirm thats exactly what youre still doing via anything to do with the bach/ette/bp.

    You call it Karma on your part, I call it Ignorance and you seem to wear that very well also…

    Considering you probably don’t make any money from any of your “charity” work, I suppose we should all feel honored to know we are giving you that $$$$$ to feed you and your family as well…


    Comment by Junipherbreezy — September 14, 2011 @ 11:36 am

  32. Ps….Considering you commented right underneath my question regarding your opinion on Michael, Holly and Graham, without having the balls to be so blantantly honest like you claim to be, was hilarious to me, especially when you use the excuse of calling us haters.

    Seems we have no need to hate, you do that on your blogs enough for us….Hopefully your son takes after his Mother!!

    Comment by Junipherbreezy — September 14, 2011 @ 11:40 am

  33. Junipherbreezy , youre right , I dont hate him , acutally I feel sorry for him a man of his age acting like a kid and he if anyone is always “hating” on someone. He is one of those guys with double standards , its all ok for him but no one else. Being mean and hurtful just for the sake of it , isnt right. He doesnt even know half these people.
    The only beatdown show I watched was the last one and he kept trying to compare Blake taking Holly and the “MAN CODE” in a way if it was his next door neighbor, Blake didnt even know Michael. Holly and Michael had broken up twice alreay. His childish “man code” comparsion made no sense. He acts like he hosts all these “events/parties” for bachelor/ett/pd people makes him an expert on love relationships etc. Like I posted earlier he is the kind of guy who acts like they never got over college and “the good old days” move on pal.Move on for your kids sake. Leave this bachelor/ett/pd life style behind. Let these people live their own lives however they want too.

    Comment by Rae B. — September 14, 2011 @ 12:03 pm

  34. Love your blog Jessie! very honest and straight forward.

    I cannot believe Chris Harris’s stupid questions to the contestants at the BP2 finale. Was he trying to run a relationship treatment centre? who the heck is he judging other poeple’s relationships? So does Erica and William. It is pathetic for them to JUDGE on other’s relationships while they cannot even find anybody to be with in real life.

    Blake is awful for not being man up to apologies what he did to Melissa. What he did was disgusting.

    Holly, the slud, doesn’t even worth my attention.

    Watching the BP2 finale made me feel this show is so evil. They use vuneralbe people and torture them over and over. They catch the worst moments of these people and let them re-live it over and over. It is OK to play the game but they go too far by tearing people like this.

    If any of you have half of the brain, you wouldn’t want to apply to be on this BP thing. Look what they do to you all?

    Comment by Ali — September 14, 2011 @ 1:05 pm

  35. As usual you prefer to spread hate and negativity, instead of looking for any good in people. Whatever anyones past is, everyone deserves to fall in love. You can never predict when that will happen. I am so happy for Blake and Holly.

    The producers have the most blame in the way Michael found out. Michaels phone was turned off on Monday, you can see how all the contestants stopped tweeting on the 5th of September. But honestly, Holly and Michael broke up over 6 months ago. Blake and Holly did not have to go to him and explain.

    Michael is really milking the sympathy to sell his songs on itunes and to promote himself to be a bachelor on the series. I fell bad for him if he truly loved Holly but it is time to move on and find someone who loves him.

    I wish Holly and Blake the best in life. Hopefully they can get through the next few weeks and not let the negativity get to them. Just remember all the crap Ashley had to go through, now look how well she and JP are doing.

    I could end this by saying negative things about you,but I prefer to spread positivity and love, so have yourself a great day.

    Comment by Louise — September 14, 2011 @ 1:16 pm

  36. For those who want to have a discussion with others without being told you are a hater if you disagree with Jesse, check out the ABC boards.

    Comment by Lisa — September 14, 2011 @ 1:36 pm

  37. what they did to MICHAEL on national tv about the engagement of Holly and Blake was totally wrong. i fell so sad seeing Michael being hurt. He should just KEEP the money in my opinion. i wish him the very best. I wish they make him the next bachelor cause he deserve to be happy/loved. I always like BEN F he will make a good bachelor i’am so excited for him. he’s successful, nice and real. GOODLUCK BEN ON YOUR JOURNEY in the bachelor, i’m sure you’ll find the love of your life.

    Comment by grace — September 14, 2011 @ 4:29 pm

  38. There’s a lot more hating going on in this comments section than I’ve ever seen in Jesse’s blogs. Just because he has a few negative things to say about what he suspects are Holly’s intentions, doesn’t mean he’s pining for her. I hope Blake and Holly are for real and they do stay together, but like many others on these shows, the less than stellar actions they took were edited into the finished product. People aren’t perfect, just because the rest of us have some annonimity here, let’s don’t throw all these stones. I was glad to see Michael win and in the end, Holly did support him completely and both agreed to share the money so let’s just give them credit for that. The smarminess of the proposal is all in ABCs court. I don’t blame Blacke and Holly for accepting their money if they really wanted to get engaged.

    Comment by Anne — September 14, 2011 @ 5:00 pm

  39. Ali,

    I agree with your remark that this show is evil. This is the last time I will watch this stupid show. The BP was too much to stomach and knowing this whole thing is contrrived just to make a bunch of nobodies “famous” for sleeping around and getting drunk and destorying the lives of everyone who participates is too much.

    Anyone who signs up for this signs a deal with the devil — you get PR/ career opportunities but only if you degrade yourself and/or others.

    I can’t get excited about a season with Ben or watching another bunch of losers duke it out on BP3.

    It’s very demoralizing to watch.

    Comment by HoHo — September 14, 2011 @ 5:25 pm

  40. Jesse Csincsak you are a bad person and ugly inside and out. Get a real job and stop milking your 15 minutes that’s long gone. Blake has a real career and started his own dental practice which is respectable – but you are happy about making money from your stupid blog. You are pathetic. Holly had to kiss some frogs to find a prince like Blake obviously. She won money and the love of Blake and a nice future together. They are winners and you are a loser.

    Comment by Cassie — September 14, 2011 @ 5:48 pm

  41. @Anne I agree Jesse is not pining for Holly but he has to LET GO of whatever ill feelings there is left because that is what his critics see not in the amount of words he says but how he writes it. Blogs can be either objective or subjective. Its up to the person commenting to decide whether Jesse is being too harsh, subjective or playing favorites. Sure editing plays a big part in reality tv but remember these people signed up to be on these shows Jesse included. Once the ink is dry they are fair game. It also applies to blogs.

    Comment by me — September 14, 2011 @ 5:55 pm

  42. Michael and Holly’s phones were taken away but she was still sucking up and kissing on him before the finale. She could have told him but she didn’t to insure her chance at the money. Holly only cares about Holly. You could tell Michael was shocked when he was told. Two sides to every story people and you only see one. Sounds like the snake and family members on here again. Funny how Michael blames Blake but doesn’t face the fact that Holly screwed him over. He will one day.

    Comment by Frank — September 14, 2011 @ 9:04 pm


    Way to go Holly!!!

    Got the money, got the guy and got a wonderful life coming your way!!!


    Comment by Natalie — September 14, 2011 @ 10:00 pm

  44. What Jesse said on this blog is based on his opinion, it doesn’t mean he make him a bad person b’cause of that, everybody is entitled to have their own opinions, you have yours, i have mine. Jesse there are always haters around. love your blog keep it up

    Comment by grace — September 14, 2011 @ 10:04 pm

  45. Frank — I agree. The public opinion has universally turned against Holly and Blake. The disgust over what they did has spewed all over blogs, media shows, articles online. Anyone with any sense of decency and conscience is repulsed by their conduct. Holly/Blake family members are the only ones rooted for these two – as they think their cute little darlings don’t have to face the consequences of their actions for trading their integrity and human decency for easy bucks and infamy. Beyond a few curious folk, I can’t imagine that Blake’s practice will hold up well throught his. who’d trust him? He’s an admitted liar. You’d almost be afraid he’d molest, rob, or stab you when you’re under anesthesia.

    All of this just to be shown in some gossip rags and do the rounds with movie stars? These two must be so attention starved and desperate to do something like this.

    It’s all very pathetic.

    Comment by Rick — September 14, 2011 @ 10:16 pm

  46. I don’t know these people only what I’ve seen on tv. I don’t spend alot of time on computer jumping from blog to blog because I am too busy for such nonsense. I started watching the beatdown cause people at work were talking about it and loved it. I laughed so hard at how crazy the guys are.

    Dave Good said he personally knew M&H but after the finale he had lost alot of respect for her because of the way she treated M. I have to agree with him. If she had any standards at all before it sure didn’t show on BP. Not a H fan and I’d say Blake needs to beware after seeing what she did to someone she’d been with for 2 years and said she was so in love with. She is a shallow person.

    Comment by Jodi — September 14, 2011 @ 10:35 pm

  47. I thought Blake said to Chris Harrison that Holly had told Michael about the engagement. Then Michael comes out and is blindsided with the news. I might have to watch the Chris and Blake talk again to see if he did say Holly told Michael.

    Comment by Frank — September 14, 2011 @ 10:43 pm

  48. Frank, I think Blake said to Chris that Holly told Michael about moving to SC. (I think) Im not sure tho.

    Comment by Rae B. — September 14, 2011 @ 10:54 pm

  49. It looks like Holly’s family and friends are spending alot of time on the blogs defending her latest actions. They must not be getting much sleep these days.

    Comment by Jean — September 14, 2011 @ 11:16 pm

  50. Jean,

    Holly’s actions are indefensible. The truth is, I don’t think her family has the discernment to see it. They are just so thrilled their little Holly is marrying a dentist and appearing in magazines all over the country.

    I looked into her past, not because I have so much free time, but I was just so appalled or curious that anyone could be capable of doing what she did. It made me sick to the core.

    Turns out, she is a very disturbed and misguided young lady and has a history of poor judgment, much of which has been laid out in these blogs and boards.

    Any future employer is going to see all of that — as will the friends of her Dentist husband. Can you imagine introducing her as your wife, with the rest of teh professional community snickering behind your back? Everyone will know — and if they don’t, word will get around.

    She may be in the public eye and “famous” now, but I doubt she will go far with this as she is so desperately disliked. She is not clever or interesting enough to have much of a draw. Balke is especially reviled and has seriously injured and betrayed Michael Stag, through deception. Mike, of course, is beloved by many.

    Blake is not wholesome or professionaly like Dr. Travis Stork. He comes across as swarmy and sick. I pity Holly for being so taken by him, but then wonder if they aren’t as bad as each other.

    Watching both has turned me off this franchise to the point where I will not watch another show. My time is too valuable to spend thinking about such people, much less contribution to their pocket books by adding to the station’s advertising revenue through my patronage.

    I am reassured to know that the country does not embrace their sordid values. There is hope yet.

    Comment by RealityStevo — September 14, 2011 @ 11:38 pm

  51. One more thing — Jesse is totally vindicated on everything he said about Deanna and Holly. Wow, just wow!

    Comment by RealityStevo — September 14, 2011 @ 11:40 pm

  52. I watched the RTVzone beatdown with my wife last night. I didn’t know alot of what they were talking about but I was entertained with their cutting up and joking around with one another. My wife showed me all of Richard’s countdowns and I was in stitches laughing. She has to explain all the history of the characters from the BP. My wife had taped the BP from Monday night. I was watching the football game. I watched the beatdown first then watched the BP from Monday night second. A little in reverse but after seeing the beatdown I was hooked and needed to know more about these characters. Trashy show but then again, I’m like the guys on beatdown, all American and I throw out the swear words, too. After watching both shows then my wife shows me Jesse’s blog. Wow!! I have two things to say. 1) Michael, you are screwed up to the point of being stupid. The one you need to be upset with and hit in the mouth is Holly. 2) You people on here defending what Holly did are idiots. Must be relatives. If she were my sister, I’d slap her and go have a beer with Michael.

    My wife said there are more blogs. I think I might have her take me there and I’ll probably have more to tell you. I don’t want to get hooked on this reality shit.

    Comment by Art — September 14, 2011 @ 11:49 pm

  53. LMAO @ Art!! That was funny!

    I wanna know why no one is commenting on Dave or Reid’s BP blogs!??? Love Dave!

    I just want to reiterate: Holly’s a douche, Blake’s a smake. He is smarmy like y’all have said. Good descript.

    Can’t believe ABC took their cell phone’s or stopped them from using them! A bunch of contestants said on Twitter: I will be w/o my phone for a few days. Or I won’t have cell service for a few days.

    I’m very disappointed for ABC doing that to Michael. Then avain- MAYBE THAT WAS ALL AN ACT TOO!?? I understand they paid Jake to be on PB2. Excuse me????

    Comment by NorCal Batch Viewer — September 15, 2011 @ 1:46 am

  54. oh boy, lots of Debbie downers. What a shame.

    Congrats to Michael, Holly and Blake.

    and to Jake too!

    Comment by NotDebbie — September 15, 2011 @ 2:27 am

  55. I think Blake is a very foolish man. By his own accounts, he bought his own dental practice. He essentially holds a public trust position in which his patients must have absolute confidence in his integrity, competence, and judgment.

    He has already demonstrated that he is willing to lie and exploit others, quite shamelessly for money and use women for sex. So, how will patients know to trust him — are his recommendations based upon professional assessment or Blake’s desire to line his own pockets. If women go under, will he molest them? If he can’t even demonstrate self-control and integrity with cameras on him, what is he like when they are off?

    He seems to have no sense of remorse or concept of right and wrong.

    How stupid to act like this on national TV, especialy as a dentist. I would have to wonder if he was willing to do all of this out of desperation for money. Did he lose it all to gambling debts or is his practice heaviy in debt?
    Is he therefore using Holly for money, publicity to cover his bills?

    Holly also seems insidious. Accordng to Michael, Blake assured him privately that he was not interested in Holly romantically and that he was merely taking her own for strategic reasons. I understand that this was a game, but why lie to Michael about his own ex-fiance who was intimate with Blake’s own lover. Did he think they would not talk?

    UNLESS Blake coached Holly to pretend she still loved Michael in order to cover for Blake and his lies, helping to explain her contradictory reactions.

    I truly believe they hatched this little scheme in the ski lodge to get publicity/money for themselves and that it backfired on them big time. Blake has lost the trust and confidence of the American people, and any prospective clients he gets out of his newfound fame will know about his integrity issues.

    Holly could not possibly be a partner for a professional man, like Blake, who will need a suitable wife to reflect well on him. But she has bedded so many men so publicly. She is a laughing stock. As hated and despised as she currently is, how many opportunities is she really going to get out of this — or will she wind up a flat broke, desperate, unskilled reality TV show deluded with her own importance?

    I am reminded of the wisdom of the Bible:

    Seek first the kingdom of God and all the rest shall be added unto you.

    Witness: Michael.

    He acted with integrity and now has the world at his feet and the esteem of his peers.

    The Bible also says this:

    What profits a man when he gains the world but loses his own soul.

    Witness: Blake

    Blake may feel smug that his wily behavior helped him acquire the money, fame, fortune, and a girl, but his marriage/engagement is under question; he has tarnished the reptuation of a woman to whom he is betrothed; He has brought shame on himself, his prospective wife, and his family. And he is nationally reviled.

    BUT HE IS FAMOUS AND ENGAGED TO A WINNER WITH $125.000 (or probably $90k, if that, after taxes.)

    Was it all worth it? I guess time will tell.

    Do Holly and Blake have bright futures ahead of them? If character is destiny, I would think not.

    Too bad their families can’t see this.

    Comment by RealityStevo — September 15, 2011 @ 3:29 pm

  56. RealityStevo go see a psychiatrist you need it. And stop quoting the bible to support your negative judgmental mentality. God isn’t with people like you who wish bad things for others. Blake and Holly are in love and didn’t do anything to you. Michael told Blake he could take her on a date and give her a rose despite knowing they liked each other. The viewers and whole house saw they were into each other too. Michael is the shady one for acting surprised when they stayed on the date. Blake and Holly were single and shouldn’t have to deny their love. She was not married to Michael. Move on and stop bashing them for falling in love. They are happy and moving on with their lives together. Holly made the right choice being with Blake.

    Comment by Cassie — September 15, 2011 @ 5:32 pm

  57. @NorCal Batch Viewer Not a big deal if Jake was paid for BP. Other Reality TV stars probably got more than he did. Rob and Amber Mariano was reportedly paid $100K for the Amazing Race 7. Do you think Boston Rob, Colby Donaldson, Rupert Bonham and Parvati Swallow would agree to do multiple Survivor appearances for free? NOPE.

    Comment by me — September 15, 2011 @ 5:59 pm

  58. I guess I could appreciate Jesse’s harshness if it made sense. He reserves it for the people he doesn’t like and backs off on the people he’s friends with.

    I just don’t understand the arguments. You can criticize Holly for hooking up with other bachelor alumni, yet, you did the same. In fact, you started the parties to bring the alumni together TO hook up and have fun. Most people didn’t see Holly’s name out there all the time, but you were always doing things to ride the Bachelor/ette train. Good for you…but own it and don’t be a hypocrite.

    You criticize Holly for getting engaged for the 2nd time in a year. Well, that’s fine if that’s your opinion. Just remember, Deanna was ready to marry Brad and within months accepted your proposal. Or perhaps you have the same opinion of your good friend Jason Mesnick. I don’t have issues with it…but it seems like you do when it’s not you or someone you like.

    I just want to say that it was a crazy season and fun to watch. Thanks to the cast for all the drama that isn’t MY life. You guys on the Beatdown are right, it’s the viewers who are to blame for watching this show. It’s also because of us that we may become fans and it gives some of you something to do. If there was no show, you wouldn’t have a Beatdown or blog to help you make your living. The arguments that some of you make just don’t make sense to me. All of you who go on this reality show make your own deal with the devil.

    Congrats to Mike and Holly. I like them both and I’m sure they will both be happy no matter what happens. Thanks again to the cast of Bachelor Pad for some crazy summer entertainment!

    Comment by Jo — September 15, 2011 @ 6:05 pm

  59. Jo- I liked comment and agree also. Others have done the same thing and Jesse rags on them. He met his now wife at a bachelor/ett party got her preg and married her. I have no problem with that , but he shouldnt be fast to judge others. Didnt Graham date or have a gf while he was on the Bachelorett thats why he couldnt open up to Deanna? Bottem line is we all have pasts these people on the show included. Jesse has never said one word about Vienna and her dating habits I liked how Gia put it she lives out of guys apts and doesnt have one of her own. If Jesse dated Holly and Michael was engaged to her why is Michael Jesse’s boy ? See his double standards. Honestly none of them have the right to bash anyone on the beatdown. They all have their skeltons in a closet.
    If Holly is willing to move to SC and get out of “Hollywood” good for her. Heres hoping they make it work.
    As I reflect on the finale when Michael found out the way he did , I thought wow, but looking back and he knew she was moving anyway to SC so why was he acting so shocked and so much drama. They were not together and had broken up twice already. I think he kind of milked that situtaion abit. Did she really owe him that? Would he have to call her up if he wanted to date someone? I dont think so. In the end they were just partners in a game for money. I understand he had feelings but didnt he get she wasnt as interested as he was about getting back together.Oh well Im sure he will have a great vacation and good life he seems like a nice guy.

    Comment by Rae B. — September 15, 2011 @ 8:54 pm

  60. All of you people that think Holly’s actions were ok need to get busy blogging on all the sites to try and convince 99% of the tv viewers that what she did was right. From what I’ve read Jesse is only one person of that 99%. Seems like you all spend much time on here telling him how he is so wrong when everybody is saying the same thing about Holly. She blew it and all of you just can’t see it. Must be relatives doing all this writing. Whoever REalitystevo is, you are right on with what you said. Looks like now Michael sees what Jesse already knew.

    Comment by Art — September 16, 2011 @ 12:06 am

  61. Funny how the snake is on here blogging with several names to try and make it seem like so many agree with her about Holly. Holly has really gone over the top with her nasty self this time.

    Comment by Kelly Ann — September 16, 2011 @ 1:27 am

  62. Ever wonder why Jesse gets 61 comments, and the other blogger’s only a handful?…Jesse and the wifey posting themselves the positive comments, and slapping themselves on the back.

    Comment by Sack — September 16, 2011 @ 7:32 am

  63. Susan,
    You are the one slapping your own self on the back when you change your name. You are a joke and everyone knows it. sjcaligurl the only one who gives you the time of day is your owner Holly and now she is moving out of phonyland. She has told you so much crap about Jesse and you believe it. She has wrapped you around her finger and you are too dumb to see it. Jesse is happy and that’s something you will never have because you are a sorry ugly person. People love Jesse and you are jealous of that. You can’t handle the fact that people don’t like you or your owner. You get blocked from groups because you are a nasty person. You think all these comments are from only a few people, wrong. The other bloggers don’t have you bashing them. When are you going to stop this nonsense. Holy has had you doing this for two years now. You are a crazy old black woman and you need to get professional help. You are out numbered again and alone. You bash and people come after you. You are an evil person if not the devil himself. That’s why we call you Medusa the snake haired person.

    Comment by Kelly Ann — September 16, 2011 @ 9:31 am

  64. Susan,
    Have you ever met Jesse? No, but yet you believe everything Holly has told you and you have bashed him for over two years. That tells me what kind of person you are, shallow and dumb. Take a good hard look at yourself. There are so many comments on here because you use so many names and we come after you. When you stop your nonsense this will probably all go away. Act like a mature grown woman instead of a crazy stupid one. Sad thing is it’s as though you have nothing in your life and you get off on this.

    Comment by janey — September 16, 2011 @ 10:14 am

  65. Gosh Kelly Ann and janey chill out. Are you blog police or what? Who are you talking too? there are no comment by susan or sjcaligurl , is that who Kelly Ann said I was? Well I told her Im not get over it. How do people get “blocked” from blogs and who is “everybody” ? What are you both talking about ? You two on here just like others so maybe you dont have a life either like youre trying to say about this susan or whatever her name is. And by the comments on here not everyone loves how Jesse blogs and his comments. He has the right to his opinion yes like we do ours. Isnt that blogging is all about- debating a subject? Well girls have a nice day… I will

    Comment by Rae B. — September 16, 2011 @ 12:47 pm

  66. I had one other thing I wanted to say to the two girls Kelly Ann and janey, running from blog to blog after “susan” these shows go out all over the world not just America, so to come on here and try to pick out people who you happen to think is this person. GOOD LUCK! And to keep calling someone “a crazy old black woman” is just pathetic. Just because someone doesnt want to bash Holly. Molly didnt mass murder a family she dated a few guys from the same sort of social circle and didnt go back to an ex who broke up with her. BIG DEAL! SO WHAT! You keep saying to this person to get a life well maybe you should stop running all over blogland accusing of people being her, and to say things “we dont want you here” blah blah blah how jr highish.If thats what makes your day, so be it.. enjoy yourselves.

    Comment by Rae B. — September 16, 2011 @ 4:31 pm

  67. I don’t run from blog to blog. Why are you singling me out? Obviously you don’t get it. Susan has fake accounts and posts like there are several people posting. So since you don’t know about Susan, you chill out. Have a nice day.

    Comment by janey — September 16, 2011 @ 6:44 pm

  68. Raise your hand if you think that Janey and Kelly Ann are using their real names! LOL! If there is someone who has been on the blogs using Susan or sjcalgurl, why wouldn’t she/he use those names here? Makes no sense. I agree with the people who say there is some crazy going on and it seems to totally be on the Janey and Kelly Ann side.

    Comment by Ramona — September 16, 2011 @ 8:28 pm

  69. janey I already went thru this with Kelly Ann accusing me of being this “susan” so I have been through it with her. ( on the show before this one) And you both posted after I did.I dont get why you two care so much about “susan?Its more about her and less about Holly. Thanks ,janey I will have a nice day….

    Romana you made me laugh…. :) thanks

    Comment by Rae B. — September 16, 2011 @ 8:57 pm

  70. Kelly Ann & Janey, You 2 are the one’s who need professional help. You sound like a couple of lunatics, obviously brainwashed by Jesse. What gives you the right to single out someone and post their name on here? People have the right to post their opinions. Hmmmmm. Perhaps it’s you & Jesse changing your names and posting all the nasty stuff on here. Obviously, the other bloggers aren’t biased, stick to the episodes, make their blogs interesting to read, & are likeable, so there’s no need to be negative. Thank God, this is the last blog *eyeroll* ta ta

    Comment by Cam — September 16, 2011 @ 8:58 pm

  71. Blake didn’t step on anyone–that’s what you are calling it because you are bitter Jesse. I guess you have now til January to consider whether you are truly bitter since any of the Bachelor/ette/pad shows won’t be on til then. Sounds like Mr. Author is just bitter about the relationship that Holly and Blake have, and is so caught up in a never-ending circle of negativity. Best of luck to you anyway Jesse.
    May you learn to appreciate Holly for the woman you once considered her to be, instead of the twisted image of her you are trying to create.

    Comment by C.J. — September 16, 2011 @ 9:42 pm

  72. the best guy won, michael. wish him the best. good luck to holly and whoever she dates/gets engaged to/actually marries.

    Comment by le — September 16, 2011 @ 9:46 pm

  73. Nobody cares who Holly is with. What people don’t like is how she steps on people to get there. Yes, the best man did win, Michael because he is rid of Holly.

    Comment by janey — September 17, 2011 @ 12:27 am

  74. Maybe the Holly/Blake supporters accuse their detractors of “needing professional help” since they drive everyone crazy.

    Just a thought.

    Comment by Man Code — September 17, 2011 @ 12:51 am

  75. Love this blog – finally an “upstander” who speaks and blogs his mind no matter what it costs him on a personal level (such as backlash by blog trolls). What a refreshing difference to all the “bystanders” who avert their eyes when others get hurt (e.g. by actions of female girls targeting one man after the next for monetary gain). Thanks Jesse for your very honest opinions about right and wrong. You are getting it right – and you have indeed warned many who ended up getting hurt – such as Michael!

    Comment by Harley — September 17, 2011 @ 1:29 am

  76. Have you seen Holly’s fans (“family,” no doubt), giggling about how Holly will nwo become a best selling children’s book author from all the publicity she got from this stunt?

    This from someoneee who is borderline illiterate. (How can she write children’s books without a basic command of English grammar?)She will need work for an editor.

    SOmehow she thinks this lifestyle will appeal to children.

    She is so unbelievably lazy and yet thinks she can just pop out a book, which requires substantial hard work — including marketing and pushing and selling the book.

    There are many childrens books out there. The market is flooded with them. But Holly thinks that just by showing up and getting engaged on TV that she need merely write a basic childrens book — of all of a few sentences long and just cash in.


    Comment by Jane — September 17, 2011 @ 12:26 pm

  77. Holly comes across as somewhat charming, if not airheadish, on TV. Her face reveals a hard lifestyle — too much booze, sleeping around, bad diet. Her face makes her look sickley and used and belies the reality that is her life. Just by looking at her I never would have guessed that she was a serial bedhopper and user. She is absolutely disgusting.

    Comment by May — September 17, 2011 @ 12:30 pm

  78. Meant to say that thanks to Jesse, my eyes have really been opened about this girl. Wow! Just Wow!

    Comment by May — September 17, 2011 @ 12:30 pm

  79. Jesse?

    What do you think of the Deanna Pappas interview (on this site) where she is claiming Mike told her that in the Nearlywed Game, he answered “Blake” to the question posed to Holly of “whom would you most like to sleep with” but that the producers showed his own name. ANy truth to this?

    Comment by Name — September 17, 2011 @ 12:48 pm

  80. Deanna is a liar. No one cares what she thinks.

    Comment by Please — September 17, 2011 @ 6:19 pm

  81. What else did Deanna have to say. I have not followed her to know what she has said about the BP outcome.

    Comment by janey — September 17, 2011 @ 10:19 pm

  82. Name,
    Name card might have been changed just to add to the confusion.

    Comment by jesse — September 18, 2011 @ 4:35 pm

  83. Thanks, Jesse.

    Deanna seemed to be insinuating that Michael knew about their tryst all along.

    A lot of confusion about who knew/did what.

    Comment by Name — September 18, 2011 @ 11:46 pm

  84. So glad BP is over and Dancing with the Star is coming on tonight.

    Comment by janey — September 19, 2011 @ 9:10 am

  85. Little confused…..If you don’t like Jesse, why are you reading his blog? If you think he is all about the fame and money than good for him, smart man. You are the dumb a**, by reading and listening to what he has to say you are helping that career of his right along… again who is the smart one here….Jesse.

    He has the right to speak his mind and you just sitting there reading his blogs thinking about what hateful things to say next may need to get learn a thing or two from Jesse…..find something that makes you happy and get a freakin job!

    High five to Jesse he is using his life experiences to do something he enjoys and if it gets him some fame and money then even better.

    I hate HATERS

    Comment by No Longer A Fan — September 22, 2011 @ 2:23 am

  86. hmm I dont get it, if you come to this blog because it was associated with show , doesnt mean you have to agree with Jesse. IF we come here doesnt mean we dont have a job. Of course he has the right to speak his mind, as do we.
    Just because Holly didnt go back to ex after they broke up twice doesnt mean she is a bad person. She deserves to be happy like anyone else. Everyone can sit and blog about how “she did what she did on the finale” but do we really know if ABC would let it come down any other way. I know her and Michael were friends and partners in the show but to be honest did she really need to tell him her business? On the video I saw on the site for the BP Micheal knew she wasnt interested in gettng back together, and he knew she was moving to SC. So ? He is a good guy and will find someone who will make him happy. Obviously it wasnt meant to be for those two. JMO

    Comment by Rae B. — September 22, 2011 @ 10:17 am

  87. Rae

    You make good points. Ultimately this is a reality show and what the contestants do in their own lives is their own business. Michael appears to be doing quite well with his music business and enjoying “stardom.”

    What irks me about Holly is not her behavior on the finale, but in general. IF she wants to marry Blake, more power to them, but their marriage is a year off. If they were so sure, why not get married right away? If not, why the need to rush the engagement?

    To me, what they did smacks of one big publicity stunt, both making a mockery of marriage and playing the audience for fools for love and money. What they did is the height of narcissism and self indulgence.

    Good on them that they did this, but I don’t have to either like or respect them.

    Comment by H8R — September 22, 2011 @ 1:25 pm

  88. H8R good points , I totally understand what you are saying.I know what you mean everything has its place and time. I hope its not just for show or a publicity stunt.

    Comment by Rae B. — September 22, 2011 @ 1:40 pm

  89. Although I, too, am skeptical that Blake and Holly are going to be able to make a go of it after knowing each other just a few weeks, there are lots of people that date for years before getting married and still don’t make it. I guess time will tell for these two. but they definitely seemed more in lust than in love!

    I also agree that Stag is awesome and was the only truly likeable person in this season — well, him and Gia.

    Comment by sonya — September 22, 2011 @ 10:33 pm

  90. When I say “haters” I am not speaking of those who come on here to blog about what they think of the show. I am speaking of those who take it to another level. I have seen comments on here bashing Jesse as a person not on his thoughts about the show. That is what a blog is for…people to speak their mind on a topic. Not to trash the person that created the blog. I don’t know Jesse but and I doubt the people that bash his character do either.

    Comment by No Longer A Fan — September 22, 2011 @ 11:48 pm

  91. This show has shown us what some people do for money and that makes you wonder how sincere and meaningful Holly and Blake’s engagement really is. To be paid to get engaged doesn’t speak too highly of their love. Just from what I’ve seen and read about Holly, I’m not a fan and I hope Blake doesn’t live to regret being with her. I’m not a Blake fan either after seeing him play with Melissa’s emotions.

    Comment by janey — September 23, 2011 @ 10:58 pm

  92. I think Holly and Blake are really in love and its definitely not for show or publicity. (they are back to normal life in S.C where he’s a dentist, and not in Hollywood trying to get media attention like Michael) Even Michael said he knows they are very much in love and that’s why Holly moved to South Carolina to be with him. Those who can’t see the love when Blake and Holly look at each other don’t know what love is. They got engaged because they know found the right person with each other are eager to be together.

    Comment by Sharice — September 24, 2011 @ 7:02 am

  93. Oh and they weren’t paid money to get engaged. They already clarified that. Blake sincerely wants to be marry her and proposed, and she said it feels right to marry Blake and can’t wait to be married – but it didn’t feel right with Michael. They look happy and genuinely in love. There are people who got engaged after couple months and marriage lasted decades.

    Comment by Sharice — September 24, 2011 @ 7:18 am

  94. Touched a nerve, did I. Must be family talking again.

    Comment by janey — September 24, 2011 @ 2:30 pm

  95. gosh janey you sure do hate Holly and it shows by your posts,woow! You just cant let people say what they want here without accusing them of being family or some person named susan… for every finger you point at someone there are three pointing back ……. its just a show, let people live how they want too. Its not like HOlly killed anyone , Michael is a big boy and will get on with his life woww! You really took this personal. So she didnt want to go back to him, so what!? Its her life her choice. I think he had months to get with her and say he was sorry. That didnt happen. She has dated around so what ? she is a big girl. Jesse has dated around so what. Sometimes things dont work out for people. Jason chose someone else , so what he loved Molly.Some people wanted Ashely to chose Ben and not JP , its her life she knows how she feels/felt We only see a few mins of what happend all day… in these shows. You come here and just accuse people of not being who they are is just silly and childish… Sharice has the right to her opinon…..Im pretty sure is NOT family of MOlly and if she was who cares but you?

    Comment by Rae B — September 24, 2011 @ 5:27 pm

  96. It’s sad that Jesse still wastes his days on the computer searching for what he considers an Exclusive Gossip Story for the scandal colums. Then his little followers, like Janey, believe it, come on here & attack people. Everyone is so past Holly & Blake’s so-called scandal..similar to Jason’s & others, but to bitter Jesse, that’s different. lol! As much as he doesn’t believe it, his 15 min was up when Deanna & Holly saw his fake facade & other alumni agree. He probably livid that Blake got Holly up on skis in ONE day …And the self-proclaimed Professonal couldn’t. Everyone’s moved on and are very happy for everyone else now, incl. Michael. Graham has a HUGE following at his Charity Event in NYC, and his popular For show has so many exciting people and good conversation. So many social reunions & gettogethers, like classy Ames footing the dinner bill recently for his alum friends, etc. They’ve so moved on. Even the one’s who were persuaded to partake in beatdown for kicks are all doing great stuff! But, here’s Jesse, still typing away with fakeness, not facts, about BPad, (remember, Jesse, it’s only TV) in order to convince his little group to keep the ball rollowing on how bad these good people are. Hopefully, he’ll take some cues from the others, before his kid grows up.

    Comment by Cam — September 24, 2011 @ 7:30 pm

  97. It seems like the guys on the last Bachelorette/BP were more classy than the one who Jesse gets on the beatdown who have to swear and act vulgar to make a point. Im happy for Graham and the others who are doing charity work, beats sitting at a computer gossiping about others on a show. Cheers to 46nyc and all those taking part in the fight to beat cancer. Good work!
    Let go of the past and go for the future. Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you imagined. – Henry David Thoreau

    Comment by Rae B — September 24, 2011 @ 8:27 pm

  98. Rae B: I think that Janey must be suffering from paranoid delusions if she believes anyone who has opposite views, or likes Holly and Blake together are relatives. What I wrote is what they said in interviews or tweeter and my views on it. I think their families would be very bothered and livid to read such negativity, so I hope they don’t read this. I just happen to like Blake on the show, and like them as a couple. It’s nice to see 2 single people fall in love and happy and moving on with their lives. Those who resents them and write such venomous things have issues. Michael wasn’t married to her, and she and Blake have a right to be together. Michael is ready to move on too and said he’s been chatting up Chelsey Hightower. Good for him. The haters and the classless trash talker Jesse Csincsak need to let them live their lives in peace.

    Comment by Sharice — September 24, 2011 @ 10:57 pm

  99. Like you said, when you point a finger there are three pointing back at yourself. You have your opinion and I have mine. You are good at talking trash yourself, so what does that make you?

    Comment by janey — September 25, 2011 @ 12:25 am

  100. Sharice , Im glad Michael has a date with Chelsey, hope they have fun. I agree with you on your post :)

    Comment by Rae B — September 25, 2011 @ 1:19 pm

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