You are just too cute and funny! You’re new finace is way lucky!!

About Tierra : I watched the show from the beginning and don’t really understand why is she so booed. To me, it appeared that all she did was being anti-social. That is not nice, but surely is not a crime. I can understand her up to a point. I mean, they were all rivals competing for the same guy, why feign a friendship that she doesn’t feel? She had the right to choose to be a loner if she wanted to. I don’t get why would the other girls make such a big deal out of it. Sure, she could have been nicer, more polite, but if she wasn’t, why not let her sit by herself and ignore her? Why they have to attack her just for being anti-social? I just don’t see the necessary to make such a big deal, even less to talk to Sean about it. In my book, that is sabotaging. Why not just let and mind their OWN thing with SEAN..for Sean they came, not for Tierra, right? Just because someone has a different kind of personality doesn’t mean they are a bad person.
And what’s this thing about her eyebrows? She actually has beautiful eyebrows. She is a very pretty girl. People need to give her a break. I wish I looked like her, and I’m sure many others do.

On ASHLEE : She was way behind Des and Leslie on my favorites list, and I don’t find her as pretty as some other girls. But I do believe she fell in love with Sean and I started to root for her when she had the courage to confess her love. It takes a lot for a woman to say I love you to a man first. Especially in this particular situation. I admired her for that. I loved when she shouted “I love Seaaan!” on the beach. I liked when she gave him the scarf to blindfold her and told him this was her way of showing him that she lets him lead her and the relationship. It was such a sweet way of submitting herself and relinquishing control. I also liked how she followed him into that cave to show his trust in him.
Ashlee definately has childhood issues to work on, and she needs individual counseling. But she has a great, loving heart and a lot to give. I disagree with the ones who say she is too serious. She just needs someone to make her smile again. She’s deep and mature, instead of funny and shallow.
As for Sean saying that he has no feelings for the other girls, I’m sure he didn’t say it. Either Ashlee misunderstood, or she wanted to get back at him. If the second, it was not nice of her, I agree.

About DES: My personal favorite ! Pretty, sweet,independent, a matching personality for Sean. I can’t believe he let her go just because her brother questioning him rubbed him the wrong way. I mean, the guy was even right somehow: ” You’re crazy about a lot of girls, aren’t you? ” Well, Sean did say he was crazy about many other girls. Why would Des’ brother not question his seriousness? He could have very well proven him wrong by choosing Des. What a bride she’d have been !
I too agree she should be the next Bachelorette. She is just as sweet and pretty as Emily and Ashlee.

Blonde LESLIE: I liked her with Sean. She was my second fav. They had insane chemistry, and I loved that Guinness Kiss. Shame that she lacked Ashlee’s courage, and didn’t tell Sean how she felt about him.

SARA: I never cared much for her. One or two arms. She didn’t stand up in the crowd neither through beauty nor anything else. She seems like a nice girl but nothing special. Same goes for Selma, never cared for her either.

CATHERINE and LINDSAY : Both pretty and funny. I tend to like Lindsay a little bit more. She stood up from the start, arriving in that wedding dress. Thumbs up for originality and for courage. She started off as a bride, and she may end as one.

SEAN: I really like Sean. He’s warm, understanding, adventurous, open-minded. I can tell he doesn’t have a mean bone in his beautiful body, and this is such a rare quality. I wish Sean the best, with whomever he chooses.

Hence her type of furious reaction to Sean’s eventual rejection is not surprising. While Sean appears to me to be one conscientiously trying to be a gentleman (as much as this is possible for us men), he also no doubt does have a bit of a free-spirit, alpha male, swashbuckling adventurer aspect to his personality and he would not be able to handle being hemmed in, whipped, controlled, and hen-pecked in every area of his life which AshLee would have done were they married. I think Sean came to realize this about their lack of needed chemistry/fit, but I don’t think Ashlee has yet come to realize this, as evidenced by her behavior on the recent “Women Tell All” episode, in which playing the ‘woman scorned’, Ashlee went from foolishly declaring Sean to be her “soul mate” prior to his decision to let her go and then inaccurately and unfairly labeling Sean a simply a “frat boy” at this Tell All episode after the fact.

Regardless of whether or not Sean really did say to AshLee that he “had no feelings for the other two remaining ladies”, for Ashlee to repeatedly assert on TV to Sean and all the viewing public that he had said this and that he was lying if he denied it, simply came across as her trying to save face and recover from embarrassment from acting like a fool by means of trying to place the blame for it on Sean, implying he had mislead her by such a supposed comment into thinking she was definitely “the One”, and that he had played her for the fool. Yet the truth is that she herself is to blame for having behaved like a fool by making such crazily-hasty “Sean is my Soul Mate” comments. Heck, unless you’ve been happily married for 25 years, no one should be making such a comment like that, especially not when it’s on a “reality tv” show in an artificial atmosphere which is not real life.

Lastly, while Sean isn’t perfect in his character either, I do think he is earnest. I do hope he chooses Catherine. If so, it will prove that Sean is an earnest, good guy.

Catherine though needs to overcome her self-esteem issues, and stop subconsciously convenying the notion that she is out of Sean’s league. For sure, guys initially love a girl who is “beautiful but doesn’t know it”, but in time it can wear off. If over time she behaves too subservient and worshipful of him, then that is just as bad long-term as the other extreme of being too serious and controlling which Ashlee represented.

I love Sarah- she is thoughtful and honest, and sincere. I felt for her….I too hope she finds a great love in her life. Des to me hides too much behind the smile, as Sean said, but I think she is sweet. Tierra is BORDERLINE (and yes, I am qualified to diagnose). I actually feel bad for her. I think the producers screen for this personality disorder (Vienna- same deal, Courtney- socially awkward, maybe aspergers?) and chooses them to exploit them. this is really wrong to me. I feel for Ashlee too…..although I think she is spiteful and vindictive as a coping mechanism.I think Sean dodged a bullet there. Anyway- please share with us a photo or two from your wedding, whenever it may be- wishing you and your future wife much happiness.