Episode 3:  Ahhhh Nuts Sacks!

This episode starts off with Sarah still crying about voting off her one night stand.  He is safe and now she feels like a moron (as she should) for going against an alliance.  We also hear Reid bitch about Ed a lot.  Reid is now nervous Ed will vote him off if he hears of what he did to get him nearly voted off.  Reid cannot quit obsessing over the fact that Ed got Jillian in the end.  Not one person in this house is playing a good game so far.  Whoever makes the top 4 will simply make it out of luck.

The next morning, Chris Harrison informs the cast that in the upcoming competition, they will be performing as couples.  Chris B’s face is saying, “Of f$%king course we are competing as partners.  Of f#@king course.”  Meanwhile, Blakeley looks happier than most brides do on their wedding day.

Off subject and a HUGE FYI… an inside source told me David borrowed this feminine, awful, wretched, repulsive, disgusting, tacky, gross, gnarly, nasty, trashy and ridiculous woman’s tank top from Ryan (“Worldly Gifts”) Bowers.

Hot Sludge Funday:  Ed is only an athlete on opposite day.

HOLLER! Chris H. mixes up partnerships and this changes the whole dynamic.  Then one of the nastier things I’ve ever heard come out of someone’s mouth is spoken.  Kalon took the term “Ass Face” to the next level and should now be called Dick Face.  He found out he was going to be partners with Erica and stated, “I am happy I’m partners with Erica.  I actually think this is the one challenge she’ll be good at.  She can probably just eat her way through it Pac-Man style. Chomp Chomp Chomp.”  Boys, boys, boys…. call a girl any name you want, but NEVER comment on her weight.  That is hurtful and girls are overly sensitive about this.  Besides, Erica is in fantastic shape and looks the best I’ve ever seen her, so I hope this went in one ear and out the other.

Wearing this tank top, David says, “It’s my turn to get into the nut sack.”  This term is Junior High humor.  So lame and stupid that David doesn’t even realize how perverted it sounds.  I’m thinking David is a little too mature for this.  He is actually growing on me; sans the wife beater he borrowed from his dagger bearded friend.

After Jamie takes an incredible lead, Ed (the self proclaimed athlete) couldn’t have been further behind.  He not only lost the competition for them, but he couldn’t even finish the race!  He looks like he is trying to get a suntan here.  Aw!  Ed just wanted to take a lil nap:)

Jamie may not have the best casual style, but girl can rock a cute bikini!  Jamie has an incredibly toned body and she wears swimsuits well.  I’ve noticed she always picks out basic suits, which happen to be my favorite.  GetzStyle Tip:  Don’t be that girl wearing Kim Kardashian tacky swimsuits.  Swimsuits are not meant to have embellishments on them, they are meant to go in the water.  Keep it clean, basic and spandex.  Try American Apparel, Fresh Peaches, or Kandy Wrappers.

David wins this nut sack jumping competition by a photo finish!

David’s Date:  Chris gets a break from Blakeley and Jamie.  PHEW.

Poor David doesn’t have a partner, so he chooses Jamie, Blakeley and Erica to go on the date.  He must have a great heart to take Erica on a date after the words she had for him episode 1.  That is some damn good strategy on his part!  That, and I feel like he is a true bro to Chris, taking both of the girls out of the house who drive him crazy so that he can have a peaceful night.  Hahaha!

WOW.  They really do cast rejects for Bachelor Pad in more ways than one.  Clearly none of them went to their High School Prom if they had reactions like this.  That’s the reaction I would give if I saw a private jet, a yacht, or an adult bookstore.  Not a boring night of prom with girls I don’t get along with and a dude I have zero romantic interest in.

Blakeley is bananas!  Jamie, completely joking to keep with the prom theme, says with a fun smile, “Sharing one guy at the prom?  I feel like that can cause controversy.”  Keep in mind, this is said in a very funny way, because they are joking around about the prom theme.  Erica, giggling like they really are in High School, chimes in saying, “Blakeley are you going to be fighting with us over David?”  She is totally joking, just going along with Jamie’s humor and Blakeley flips her lid taking this a little (A LOT) too seriously.  Blakeley answers her way too seriously, “Not one bit (bitchy face).  I’ll definitely have my time, but I’m not gonna fight over it.  Oh my God you guys, I’m not in High School anymore.  I’m not doing this.”  WHOA.  Clearly Blakeley absolutely cannot take a joke.  Erica looks so confused as she was totally joking around, trying to role-play how girls would be at the prom.  LOL!


Sitting on a tacky dress, Blakeley is about ready to unleash the wrath of her alter ego as she watches David kiss Jamie in a playful way.

Back at the mansion:  Kentucky Bone Yard

LIME CROSSFIRE CHALLENGE!  Growing up, I used to play this with my neighbors in our courtyard, ruining all the lime trees.  When I say used to play with my neighbors, I mean last year.  Ahhhh the good ole days:)  Ok, so Reid continues to lie to Ed as we see a vulnerable side in Ed!  He is happy that he finally has someone he can trust.  Awwww :( Reid has been talking shit since day one.  Ed isn’t cut out for this crass game.

The party continues as Ed struggles to keep Jaclyn on his back.  They are drunk and slippery, and since Ed is clearly not an athlete, this is hilarious to watch!  I love the colors and French cut of Jaclyn’s swim suit.  Very sporty in a sexy way!  He finally takes her to bed and talks to her like a bird in the amazon!  I’M OBSESSED WITH ED’S SEX NOISES!  He literally is making this show worth watching with his hilarious, “I don’t care” attitude.  He is a typical Chicago boy who gets hammered after a long week of work and hooks up with just about anything they can get their hands on.

Why the hell is Blakeley stating that she deserves the rose from David?  Wasn’t it her that just took him on a date and played a trick on him by waving that rose in front of his face and then giving it to Chris?  She is now telling him not to give the rose to Jamie and threatening that if he does, she won’t keep him safe and hold up their deal.  Uh…David already is safe?  He won the Challenge?  He has a rose?  WTF, PEOPLE?!  I am keeping my fingers crossed that he gives the rose to Jamie and doesn’t fall for Blakeley’s manipulation.  What loyalty is Blakeley talking about?  She is so cray!

BOOM!  I LOVE DAVID NOW!  HE IS A GOOD DUDE!  He gave sweet little Jamie the rose and made her night:)

Rachel’s Date:   “What’s a better word for pathetic?”  Poor Tony!

The date card reads, “Choose three guys to get famous.”  What a blow to the ego!  All these guys are sitting there thinking, “I thought I was famous” Smack in the face to a Z Lister.

As Tony gets chosen to go on the date, I notice he is plugging Michael’s “Love Like This” tour on his snug white v-neck.  It’s about time Tony and Nick get some air time!  I honestly forgot they were on the show.  Snipers!  That’s the way to play it.

Someone call the police!  Tony stole Stevie’s dress shirt.  What actually scares me more than the creepy wax sculptures is the top they made Tony wear.  As they pulled up to Madame Tussuad’s wax museum, it reminded me of the time that I thought Michael Jordan was giving me the cold shoulder.

After some hilarious wax pranks the crew pulled on the fans, Rachel gives Michael the rose and they make out.  She cries because she is worried he will break her heart.  Eeeeeeh… if someone is already crying about the potential of being hurt on day 8 of a relationship, that’s a bad gut feeling to have.  I’m definitely rooting for Michael and Rachel.  I haven’t met Rachel yet, but I hear nothing but great things about her and Michael is the man!

Back at the mansion:  Before Chris B. goes to sleep, he pours rubbing alcohol on his Pen 15.  

Jamie is ready “to show her kids and America” (as she so graciously put it) how she fell in love with daddy on TV.  Chris clearly has a different plan for the two of them. Jamie tries to wake him up in order to make out, talk and snuggle.  Chris wants no part of this and a devastated Jamie cries herself to sleep. Someone clearly spiked the punch bowl at prom.

It seems to me that the cast tries to vote off whoever loses a challenge because they “already have a vote against them.”  That is the dumbest reasoning ever.  Vote off the toughest competition!  Right now I’d vote off Nick or Chris. They seem like tough competition.  Reid is only voting out Ed due to jealousy.  I hate that when Ed is trying to call Reid out, Reid wants Ed to tell him who told him these things.  Ya, okay Reid.  Why on Earth would he tell you that?  I stick by what I always say, “I’ll repeat the information, but never the source.”  Then Reid says they need to get out the weakest links and the power players?  Durrrrr… why would you kick out the weakest link?  Really?!  He also states he is trying to get rid of the people who he thinks don’t belong here.  Another stupid reason!  Whether he thinks they should be here or not, he should still only vote out his toughest competition.  Reid gave it his all, but clearly played a poor game as he is sent packing.  On another note, Michael is definitely the best player in the house.  He has excellent leadership qualities and since he is sincere, people will follow him and do what he says.  He has transformed most of the house into his disciples.  Donna ends up leaving over Blakeley, and I have to say I’m disappointed.  She was really growing on me and I wanted to see her relationship with Nick unravel.

The Good:

Lindzi’s dress is adorable!  I love the muted gold color on her bronzed skin.  The fabric lies perfectly on her body and is cinched at the small of her waist giving her shape.  CUTE!  Ok, and I have to admit…I really think her and Kalon are cute together.  She seems to bring out a better person in him and you can tell through his genuine smile every time he looks at her:)

Again, way too many asymmetrical dresses going on in this house, but some are good.  Rachel looks classic and sophisticated in an off-white, snug fitting cocktail dress.  Everything flows together from her hair to her jewelry.

Sara’s romper is perfect for a Bachelor Pad rose ceremony.  It is edgy, trendy and casual all at the same time.  This romper, complete with an exposed zipper, looks like a dress in the front, but is actually shorts.  This is perfect for voting night as she is running around the house trying to persuade votes.  Maybe the Taltos twins should have gone for this look so that we didn’t have to see their underwear so many times.


The Bad:

Blakeley has a lot going on, and I’m not talking about her waxing career.  I’m talking about her huge gold earrings and purple, asymmetrical dress with a gold broach at the shoulder.  Not a fan ladies, not a fan.  Someone commented last week that I shouldn’t make fun of her clothes, because she can’t afford nice dresses.  Um, HELLO?!!!!  You silly gooses.  Style has nothing to do with price.  I like a couple of Emily Maynard’s cheap dresses over some of the tacky dresses she wore that I’m sure cost $5k+.

I’m not sure exactly what Jamie is wearing here, but it looks like a tunic/potato sack tied with a belt.  The neckline is throwing me off!  In this same photo, it appears that Donna has been doing some bridesmaid dress shopping at David’s Bridal.  In shiny, shockin’ pink and she looks like a mermaid.  I do not like this style of dress, which seems to be very popular.

“Sometimes comfort doesn’t matter. When a shoe is freakin’ fabulous, it may be worth a subsequent day of misery. Soak in Epsom salts and take comfort in the fact that you’re better than everyone else.”

― Clinton Kelly


Speaking of shoes, when I was living in Chicago, I remember Jillian telling me that someone stole one of Ed’s shoes right off his foot at the train station.  Reason #108 to love Ed.  Always a funny story with him!



Natalie Getz

Twitter:  @nataliegetz

Gossip With Getz LIVE Tuesdays Guests this week: Holly and Blake Julien


  1. I can’t stand Ed, he should have gone home. Michael and Rachel, gross! Lindzi and Kalon, eww! I can’t stand the power couples this year. Oddly, I was wanting to see something develop between Nick and Donna too; I think they are evenly matched and cute together.

    Comment by wow — August 7, 2012 @ 3:41 pm

  2. What bothers me most about your blogs is that you buy into the bachelor/ette edit. Everyone who has left the show and talks about Kalon says he is witty and funny, much like Michelle Money was. When Trista Sutter takes to twitter to diss him is comical!!

    Everything that is said or done, we have to remember that it may or may not have happened when they are telling us it did. Get smart people and pay attention to the clothes and when you see the words coming out of mouths or voice overs.

    Lets be smart people and not judge base on edits.

    Comment by tj — August 7, 2012 @ 3:46 pm

  3. It’s tough to have favorites on this show. I liked Reid and Paige, but Paige left, and then Reid went on some kind of over-analytical rampage of past vengeance. I don’t understand why anyone likes Chris at all. It must be some kind of pheromone he gives off in the air… Ridiculous. Jamie must have caught the fame bug; it makes sane people do very stupid things. Nick kissing Donna happened so out of the blue… Gross, no thanks. Poor Tony, he and Blakely should comfort their wounded egos.

    You’re a lot more fashion conscious than I am. I hardly noticed what people wore… Good, entertaining post though. w00t.

    Comment by Cheryl — August 7, 2012 @ 3:57 pm

  4. Natalie is just sharing her opinions here! i dont understand why people have to be so damn rude and mean. and name calling? really? are we five?! She’s been on the show..both bachelor and the pad, she knows how editing works AND knows that even through the editing people still show their colors. Be nice, i know we all obsess over the show..but don’t forget to breathe people!

    Comment by sara — August 7, 2012 @ 4:28 pm

  5. I agree with Sara- you crazy mean commenters got a few screws loose! Great blog Natalie! Looking forward to next week-

    Comment by wow — August 7, 2012 @ 4:46 pm

  6. @ Erica is a Pig

    Because Erica Rose couldn’t take the negative comments on her first blog, she had the comment section removed on her second blog (go a few pages back). So people went over to the next blog, Michael Stagliano’s to address her, and they shut down Mike’s page.

    I guess if we make any “negative” comments to Erica on this blog they’ll shut down this blog, too.

    Comment by WTF — August 7, 2012 @ 4:47 pm

  7. Kalon has the best one-liners. Period.

    Comment by Don't Hate Kalon — August 7, 2012 @ 5:02 pm

  8. TEAM BLAKELY!!! She’s seems the most strategic and less sluty. Reid you’re a hottie!!!!

    Comment by Sasha — August 7, 2012 @ 5:05 pm

  9. To the poster up there who mentioned Trista Sutter and Kalon. Trista should just STFU because it is my belief that she married a gay guy and she couldn’t find a guy to marry her. The whole Miami football team hated her so much.

    Comment by Mrs. Osbourne — August 7, 2012 @ 5:08 pm

  10. I actually think Kalon is hilarious this season! Erica Rose disses everyone ALLL the time so I have hard time feeling bad for her!

    Best line of the blog- Someone call the police! Tony stole Stevie’s dress shirt.

    Can’t stop laughing.

    Comment by Andrea — August 7, 2012 @ 5:17 pm

  11. Erica should have won the challenge, because she is like PacMan…chomp chomp chomp!

    Comment by Kalon — August 7, 2012 @ 5:18 pm

  12. Just FYI on Kalon, all the contestants from the season he was just on said he sucked…

    Comment by Elizabeth — August 7, 2012 @ 6:25 pm

  13. I have no negative comments about Erica, she saw an opportunity and took it. Unfortunately Reality Steve doesn’t learn a lesson. Offering contestants money for spoilers, going after real life friends Ellen and perhaps other friends for spoilers and now asking Erica for spoilers on Bachelor Pad. It’s a pattern. Reality Steve doesn’t learn. That is why he had to pay a fine, he knew he was in the wrong.

    Comment by Cammie99 — August 7, 2012 @ 7:20 pm

  14. I didn’t notice the exposed zipper, so that’s why I’m glad you DID, Natalie! But I don’t think that’s anything but interesting.

    Agree w/commenter above that I wish you would say “as edited”, so we know that YOU know lots of this is fake. I guess you’re not allowed to say fake…

    Since I never go to Michael S’s blog, didn’t know it was shut down! I did notice no comments on Erica’s. I am positive people hate on her bec she’s older, so I was disappointed she had to dis on Blakeley’s age. Unkind, Erica.

    If it’s not obvious, I really really don’t like Michael S, his ego, & his attempted humor. I wish he was GONE, & same with Dave. They’re so boring on the telly. Also, Rachel will never be pretty to me, w/her nose ring & bangs.

    Comment by Allissa — August 7, 2012 @ 8:11 pm

  15. Reality Steve seems lazy. If covering the franchise is his “career,” he should be an investigative journalist and actively seek out new information and break news on the stars of this show, and add value.

    I have noticed that when people ask him questions, he rarely knows the answer. It’s like he doesn’t even bother to be the expert in the field that has made him famous, silly as it is.

    Paying people for information is stupid and a poor business model. Heck, he should scope out the Bachelor Pad, watch from a telescope and get his own information or cultivate sources the good old fashioned way.

    I think Erica wants a reality TV career and thought that throwing RS under a bus would enhance her value with MF. RS was stupid to have befriended her. Within his professional capacity, he should not befriend cast members. You wouldn’t think he wouldn’t want to, given how much he detests the show.

    Comment by Fan — August 7, 2012 @ 9:38 pm

  16. So since Erica and Michael’s comment sections are shut because people called her out on shiit does that mean we post comments to Erica and Michael on Natalie’s blog and she makes all the money?

    To Erica: It looks like you have a new group of haters ALONG with the offended “fans.” Disappointed that you can’t take the heat yet you insult others all the time. I’m not a huge RS fan, but I do think it’s crappy to do that to a close friend.

    Michael: Love your inside info, as always. Had no idea the ice cream was really soap. Gross!

    Natalie: Your blog was so funny, I enjoyed reading it. My favorite line: “Before Chris B. goes to sleep, he pours rubbing alcohol on his Pen 15.” Hahahahahaha….

    Comment by Can Dish it Out — August 7, 2012 @ 10:08 pm

  17. @ Fan: I have to agree with you on most of what you said. I do think though that RS does a lot of investigating, I remember reading he got a tip that so-and-so was at this place and RS immediately started making phone calls to that place, asking to speak to everyone to verify his info. I realized that he did a lot more work than I thought he did.

    But maybe not enough as you said. He doesn’t bother looking into things that viewers want to know about, his videos are so boring! It’s either “I don’t know and I don’t care” or some long winded repetitive answer. Such a shame that he hates this show and his job.

    I’m really shocked too that he was friends with Erica. Like, duh?

    Comment by Can Dish it Out — August 7, 2012 @ 10:18 pm

  18. @ Elizabeth — Some of the things that Kalon “says” are clearly edited, you can even hear the words in his sentences that sound out of place. He’s also playing a role.

    Michael Stag described Kalon as nice and humble:

    Comment by Kalon Has the Best One-Liners — August 7, 2012 @ 11:03 pm

  19. Erica,

    When will you finally get off TV? I mean really. I know if I don’t like it I don’t have to watch it, but I genuinely want to know if this is really worth it, ridiculing yourself like this. Getting attention from people is no replacement for real self-worth.

    Comment by NOT a Fan — August 7, 2012 @ 11:57 pm

  20. NATALIE, FUNNY AS HELL BLOG! I love your paragraph headings. When I saw Dave’s “tank top” I knew you’d comment with a picture. But can you solve the mystery of WHERE these girly wife-beaters are actually being sold?

    For Erica:

    Because of your desperation to stay in ABC’s good graces, you backstab a close friend and now he’s exposing all your frantic texts to him pleading with him not not to mention in his blog about how cheaply you were auctioned off at a fund raiser – $300, which he paid himself while all the other “less pretty, unpopular B*TCHES” – your friends – were auctioned off at $1000K to $5000K. Seriously?

    Comment by Chris — August 8, 2012 @ 12:57 am

  21. @Chris, I am not defending Erica but we have already seen how she loves being on tv. She saw an opportunity and took it. Reality Steve has been doing this for years. He becomes real life friends with some girl named Ellen who is hooking up with a castmate to get information about a past season. He contacts 3 contestants from Ben’s season and offers money for spoilers. He is friends with Holly and last year hounds Holly for spoilers and when she refuses to tell him that she is cast on the bachelor pad, he goes ballistic on her. He is friends with Erica and when he knows she is on this season of the bachelor pad, of course he is going to ask her for spoilers. He is just as much at fault as is Erica in outing him for ABC. We know Erica is shallow and self absorbed, would you really trust someone like that and call her a friend. Reality Steve made his own bed, now he has to lie in it. Too bad, so sad.

    Comment by Cammie99 — August 8, 2012 @ 4:41 am

  22. Cammie99, who is Ellen? You said that Steve went ballistic on Holly for refusing to give him spoilers. Where did you read that? I’d like to read it too.

    Comment by Tia Maria — August 8, 2012 @ 11:37 am

  23. Hi Natalie,
    Morton is where I want to raise my kids. Just saying shout out from Central IL.
    I love all you have to say but don’t be too hard on Reid. I love him and I almost broke up with my current bf because he’s not enough like Reid.
    I also appreciate Kalon on the show, makes things interesting and truly does have some good one liners.

    Comment by lili — August 8, 2012 @ 2:04 pm

  24. Tia Maria?

    It is on his blog. Essentially Holly called RS out in an interview for threatening to get revenge on her if she didn’t dish spoilers on blog talk radio. (the link is in the comments section of that post.)

    RS accused her of lying but refused to discuss the matter further. He has long had issues with her (as have many other guys affiliated with Bachelor franchise — Jesse C, and others.) RS once interviewed her for his site, but didn’t seem to have much respect for her.

    I don’t care about RS one way or the other, but what he did to Erica makes me think that there was some truth to what Holly said about him. When crossed, RS doesn’t get mad. He gets even.

    Comment by Fan — August 8, 2012 @ 2:35 pm

  25. Gosh – I didn’t explain that right…

    In a blog radio show, a host asked Holly for insight into her feud with RS. In response, Holly accused RS of threatening to ruin her if she didn’t give him spoilers.

    She also said she lied to RS when he asked whether she would be appearing on BP. Since she couldn’t divulge that information, as per her oontract, she denied her participation. RS was apparently furious when he found out that she had lied, Holly said, and threatened her.

    RS is too invested in this show. He really should stick to commentary and get a real job. What a way to make a living. Ugh!

    Comment by Fan — August 8, 2012 @ 2:38 pm

  26. I wonder what information Reality Steve had on Holly that could “ruin” her. do you know? I mean, I wonder what he “threatened” her with? Has anybody told that information? I know you’re not the same person who commented about the Holly feud earlier, so thanks for answering my question on that situation. Do you also know who Ellen is?- Cammie99 said something about an Ellen in her post about the whole Holly thing. Which season was Ellen on?

    Why the question mark after my name? Was that a typo or were you asking a question? Yes, Tia Maria is really my name. On my birth certificate & all. Thanks, Mom. LOL!

    Comment by Tia Maria — August 8, 2012 @ 3:17 pm

  27. RS does have a real job people (or at least he used to)

    Kalon has awesome and funny dry humor and is “coming off” much better on this

    Comment by L Anderson — August 8, 2012 @ 3:28 pm

  28. Ellen is Reality Steve’s real life friend. He became friends with her when she hooked up with a former contestant on the Bachelor so he could get spoilers from her. Keep in mind this was a few seasons ago. Since then Ellen got a new boyfriend and she had heard Steve was talking bad about him. So she created this small facebook group and invited 10 of Reality Steve’s haters to the facebook group to divulge something horrible about Steve. It turned out Ellen was lying and admitted to lying. She was trying to get back at Steve for Steve saying bad things about her boyfriend. Steve never learns. He hounds Holly for spoilers and she calls him out, he hounds Ellen for spoilers and she creates a lie about him and sucks in 10 of his commenters that hate on him. He hounds 3 contestants from Ben’s season and offers to pay them for spoilers and they rat him out to Mike Fleiss. He hounds Erica for Bachelor pad spoilers and she too rats him out to Mike Fleiss. He made his own bed, he might as well lie in it.

    Comment by Cammie99 — August 8, 2012 @ 9:52 pm

  29. ps I was one of those 10 RS haters that Ellen drew into her small facebook group to dish dirt on Steve. Ellen is a liar and made up stuff about Steve. Nevertheless, he was probably using Ellen too to get spoilers. He would do anything for spoilers.

    Comment by Cammie99 — August 8, 2012 @ 9:53 pm

  30. I also was one of those 10 RS haters that Ellen mislead me into the group to give me what I thought was real dirt on Steve and he made the whole thing up!

    Comment by Liz123 — August 8, 2012 @ 10:07 pm

  31. @Cammie, he made the whole thing up? You mean the story you just told about Reality Steve & Ellen telling lies to haters- Stev made all that up? Why? He’s crazy!

    Comment by Tia Maria — August 9, 2012 @ 4:56 am

  32. That was liz123 that said he made the whole thing up. I should have asked her that question. Sorry, Cammie99.

    Comment by Tia Maria — August 9, 2012 @ 4:57 am

  33. No sorry, typed to fast, what I meant to say is I also was one of those 10 RS haters that Ellen mislead me into the group to give me what I thought was real dirt on Steve and she made the whole thing up!

    Oops one missing letter and she becomes he. Ellen made the whole thing up to get back at Steve. So Sorry!!

    Comment by Liz123 — August 9, 2012 @ 5:52 am

  34. Y’all seriously need to get a life. It is sad how much you are OBSESSED with Reality Steve and drama surrounding him. Sheesh.

    Comment by MM11 — August 9, 2012 @ 6:02 am

  35. Cammie99, you’re really confusing me. I thought from your posts the other day that you really liked Steve. Now you’re on here saying he got what he deserved & he made his bed & everything. Do you hate him or like him? I can’t figure you out. Another thing, how did somebody suck you into a facebook group? Like they promised you prize money or something? You don’t make sense, girlfriend.

    Comment by stephy — August 9, 2012 @ 7:28 am

  36. C’mon girls. No one cares to see all this elementary jargon here; it’s in the way of people trying to comment on Natalie’s blog. Very sad that you don’t have anything better to do with your lives but discuss such nonsense about RS. Really.

    Comment by cam — August 9, 2012 @ 9:01 am

  37. I’m willing to bet that 99.9% of the above posts pertaining to Cammie99 and Liz123 are actually posts made by Couriouser. He/she certainly has a few screws loose in the head, obviously.

    Hey Couriouser, I’m still waiting on those emails from you, BTW. Pretty clear to me now that you have zero proof of all that you’ve said on all of these blogs.

    Comment by Barbara Ann — August 9, 2012 @ 9:35 am

  38. Tia Maria? (I have a question after your name so you know I am trying to get your attention…like approaching you and asking, “Hello, Tia Maria? Are you there?”)

    As for what he has on Holly, I am now sure. He was once close to her and then they fell out. He simply won’t discuss it. I don’t know the lady, but Jesse Ciznack (sp?) and others have been critical of her for using men, pathological lying, promiscuous/irresponsible behavior, dating “famous” guys to get in the tabloids — basically someone with poor character

    Hope that clarifies!:)

    Comment by Fan — August 9, 2012 @ 9:50 am

  39. *question mark

    Comment by Fan — August 9, 2012 @ 9:51 am

  40. OMG, you’re a good example of the nonsense here, Fan. Obviously, you don’t have a clue. You say you don’t know Holly, yet you believe what the tool, Jesse Cscinsak, says? Do you know HIM? He’s nothing but a bitter little guy who’s still po’d that DeAnna (shortly after B’ette) & Holly dumped him, & he’ll say ANYTHING it takes to try to ‘get attn or fit in’ with people. He constantly badmouths and blames everyone but himself, especially all the people in the Bach. franchise & their editing, etc. for his failure in finding a job. Nothing at all wrong with Holly, she’s a lot more likeable and has a lot more friends than him…BTW, are you perfect?

    Comment by Camy — August 9, 2012 @ 10:38 am

  41. Camy,

    Calm down. First, I don’t hold what ANY of these contestants say or do in high esteem.

    I am not impressed with Holly either. Just look at her YouTube performances. She is very attention-seeking and seems to be someone of poor character. I have heard her lie on radio/TV appearances, and her conduct with Blake on BP was pretty appalling…and she has gone through “celebrity” men like water. She has a reputation for sleeping around and her marks have been spoken out publicly about this as they thought they were in a relationship only to realize they were used.

    She also has made nasty remarks, like “Donna will slice her wrists after she finds out Michael voted against her.”

    Why do you care about these Reality Show people. Are you friends with them? I was responding to a question from Tia Marian about what was being said about her. All of this information is available on the Internet.

    Holly’s reputation is very poor, accounting perhaps why she is now keeping a low profile and staying out of the spotlight.

    Seriously, calm down. These people are just reality show characters who make their lives public, embarrass themselves on camera, display poor character, and expect us to admire them for acting like pigs.

    I don’t care what she does with her life, but I am aware of her antics as they have greeted me at check out stands in the supermarkets, I hve seen her on the show and on YouTube and I read the boards in downtime. It’s pretty disgusting stuff, but that’s my opinion, and I am entitled to it.

    BY the way, unlike Jesse, I am not bitter. But I do have high standards. MANY people are sickened by the way these contestants act, not just me. Why jump on someone for stating the obvious.

    Take a deep breath and count to ten. It’s not that important.

    Comment by Fan — August 9, 2012 @ 10:58 am

  42. Camy?

    Yes, she is likeable, but so are most sociopaths. I care more about character than charm.

    Am I perfect? No, but I expect if I were to go on a reality show, my life would be fair game.

    Comment by Fan — August 9, 2012 @ 11:00 am

  43. @ Barbara, You really don’t liking letting things go that don’t concern you. Why don’t you just email Reality Steve and get the scoop? If you were not part of the smaller or larger facebook group you don’t know the details. You are just fishing because Curiouser stated things here in this blog because he got banned over at Reality Steve’s blog. You have to read his comments over there to get the whole story. We closed the facebook group because Curiouser was using it to get people’s real names from a document we filled out with our real names, so decided better to just close the group for the time being. I think you need to concentrate on Natalie’s blog and stop bringing up the past. Thanks alot!!!

    Comment by Cammie99 — August 9, 2012 @ 5:26 pm

  44. @stephy, I am neither a hater or a lover of Steve. I just think he brought this on himself. His job is to get spoilers. He too was using Erica, Holly, Ellen and the 3 contestants from Ben’s season for spoilers. So it’s a given that these women (with exception to Ellen) who have been on reality tv are already a bit shallow and probably used Reality Steve to continue their 15 min of fame. So if he got burned, that’s too bad, he knew what he was getting into when he got into bed with those 5 reality tv whores and one who hooked up with a reality tv whore.

    Comment by Cammie99 — August 9, 2012 @ 5:30 pm

  45. I can’t believe you didn’t comment on Ed’s little blue swim trunks! hah

    Comment by Sab — August 9, 2012 @ 9:13 pm

  46. “Cammie99″ (AKA Couroiuser or a close friend of Couriouser), are you kidding me?? YOU’RE telling someone else to let something go that they had nothing to do with? REALLY? Pot meet kettle!! Wow..

    Take your meds and go turn yourself back into the mental institution immediately, for everyone’s sake.

    Comment by Barbara Ann — August 10, 2012 @ 9:21 am

  47. Everyone, I’m only going to say this once and then I’ll be departing this blog, so any posts using this name beyond this one will be pure impersonations.

    My real name is Brandy. The SN I used on Reality Steve was, for a long time, Cammie99. Per my request, Steve removed that account weeks ago. I then used a second SN, Casper33, for a few days. That too has been removed. The NEW handle I am using is being kept confidential so that this crazy person does not continue to impersonate me.

    So all the posts you have seen by Cammie99 have been the lame attempt of a certain someone to make it appear that I am posting these things. I assure you all, I am not. Steve and I have been in constant contact for weeks now, and we are both aware this person (who has posted not only as Cammie99 but also as Liz123 and Couriouser) is spending quite a lot of time spewing lies all over the internet.

    I realize y’all don’t know me and probably don’t care about any of this. I just wanted it to be known that I am NOT the person posting on these blogs as Cammie99 and I also know that my close friend Sarah is NOT posting as Liz123.

    OK, now I’m going to eat my lunch and do something more productive. Have a great day!

    Brandy (previously known as Cammie99 and Casper33)

    Comment by The REAL Cammie99 aka Casper33 aka Brandy — August 10, 2012 @ 9:49 am

  48. Okay this has been going on way too long. The email above is just another attempt by Couriouser to keep bringing these stories to the forefront. The person above that is stating she is the RealCammie99 aks Casper33 aka Brandy is still Couriouser creating drama here on the boards. On top of that she is bringing my real name and my handle over at RS in her rant. I won’t stand for that. Couriouser we already know who you are and we are in contact with our lawyers. Thanks for the comment above, now I have more ammunition against you for revealing my real name. Stop now.

    Comment by Liz123 — August 10, 2012 @ 10:22 am

  49. I agree with Liz123. We may have created the document with our real names next to our handles that we use on the facebook page of Reality Steve but it has been Curiouser who has this document that keeps revealing our names with our handles. The person above that claims to be me is Curiouser. He is just trying to drag this out for as long as he can. Curiouser, stop already trying to impersonate me. Getting really tired of this!

    Comment by Cammie99 — August 10, 2012 @ 10:32 am

  50. Fan, ummmm,TMI that I could care less about & I certainly have nothing to calm down about:) My point to you is simply that you’re totally off base in your beliefs about Holly; you should know better than to believe what you read, esp. fm J Csincsak who has many axes to grind. I solely came here to comment on Natalie’s blog; unfortunately, you and the other’s have spoiled yet another blog with your childishness. Hopefully, Natalie will have it removed.

    Comment by cam — August 10, 2012 @ 11:01 am

  51. @Barbara Ann Hey Barbara, If I forward you Reality Steve’s email where he admits that Ellen screwed him over and he freaked out on her and she apologized, would that be the proof you need about Ellen and what I said about her being his friend and spreading lies about him? If so, send me your email address here and I will forward you this email. But after i do, you need to come here to this blog and acknowledge it. Fair enough?

    Comment by Couriouser — August 10, 2012 @ 11:28 am

  52. @Couriouser, that’s not the email proof you’re claiming you have that I was referring to. And what business is it of yours to blab about that here? Steve removed your comments and banned you for good reason. I’m still waiting on the emails you say you have from Cyndi and Sarah. Feel free to send those to me at to prove you’re not a complete nutjob. Otherwise, it’s clear you’re just looking for attention and drama and have zero emails other than I’d assume ones from Steve asking you to let it go.

    What I find amusing and ridiculous is how you feel you are owed an apology from anyone. None of this had ANYTHING to do with you. Yet here you are, impersonating Cammie99 and Liz123 again. I know them both personally and can say with 100% confidence that the post from “The Real Cammie99 AKA Casper33 AKA BRandy” was indeed Brandy.

    Everyone else, I’m sorry for this dragging on and on. This Couriouser person reminds me of the kid in gym class that gets all bent out of shape for being chosen last when it comes to picking teams.

    Comment by Barbara Ann — August 10, 2012 @ 1:46 pm

  53. “curiouser” is Brian Johnson. Feel free to find his Facebook page and let him keep his need for drama there. Likely, he is going to back off knowing that he can no longer hide behind a fake user name and computer screen.

    Comment by Sick of crazy — August 10, 2012 @ 3:19 pm

  54. Fan, agree with your posts. Keep on posting w/Ashley S. because it’s bullshiz that she deletes. Free speech!

    Comment by Becca — August 10, 2012 @ 3:30 pm

  55. @Sick of crazy: there must be a million Brian Johnsons. How would we locate this one?

    Comment by Jenny — August 10, 2012 @ 3:43 pm

  56. OMG I am just in tears. LOL, You all think I am Brian Johnson and Brian Johnson himself sent me an email asking who I am. Poor Brian, he is getting blamed for me and my comments.

    @Barbara Ann, If you are such good friends with Cammie99 and Liz123 then you know what I write is true, Steve confirmed it, Brandy confirmed it and Sarah confirmed it. Even Steve emailed me confirming his psycho friend Ellen you screwed him over by spreading lies about him.

    Lol this is so much fun, you all trying to guess who I am. I even joined your new facebook group RS Readers but Mike has yet to accept me.

    Keep guessing, keep guessing this is lot’s of fun! I am going to ask Brian to come over her to comment. This is just really funny that you are looking for Brian Johnson! What was his SN on Reality Steve, I want to go read his comments!!!!

    Comment by Couriouser — August 10, 2012 @ 10:19 pm

  57. Here is a an email from Brian supporting me but he is definitely not me :-) Keep guessing, keep guessing

    Brian Johnson

    6 Aug (5 days ago)

    to me
    I’m a former member of the group. All I’ll say is, I support what you’re doing. I probably wouldn’t release private information, but what is going on? I was not an original member and just enjoyed the site as it was, but it started to get out of control. What’s the deal? Did I miss something?


    Comment by Couriouser — August 11, 2012 @ 5:12 am

  58. Oh Brian-funny, you are waiting for approval to join the group, and the only Facebook user that has yet to be approved is…. Brian Johnson… Tada! Hell, maybe I will just post a link to your actual page here… You like sharing your email address so much, why not add your Facebook?

    Comment by Sick of drama — August 11, 2012 @ 7:02 am

  59. @Sick of drama, Do your really think I am that stupid that I would sign to be approved for your new facebook group with my real identification? I was one of your 113 members but you will never know who I am. I just found it hilarious that 3 people have commented that I sm this Brian Johnson person so I created a facebook account and called myself Brian Johnson because you all are calling me that. Take a look at the picture I added for this new facebook id, it’s the same as Graboid Couriouser. You guys are the biggest group of dumbasses I ever met. I feel bad for Brian because he is getting blamed for my comments :-) Poor guy….:-)

    Comment by Couriouser — August 11, 2012 @ 9:59 am

  60. I’m bored with this. Continue to create drama relating to people you don’t know-you are a grown man and surely must have better things to do than creating fake Facebook profiles.


    Comment by Sick of drama — August 11, 2012 @ 10:33 am

  61. LOL looks like your Facebook group gone again. Still couldn’t flush me out! Love it. Keep guessing, keep guessing. While you are at it please post Brian’s facebook page here. I want to contact him via facebook :-)

    Comment by Couriouser — August 11, 2012 @ 10:15 pm

  62. @Couriouser, Seriously Couriouser we only created the face RS page on facebook to flush you out. We know you just created the fake Brian Johnson id to join. We were hoping you would join with your real id. We may not know who you are but we are diligently working with authorities to flush you out. You may have outsmarted us by not logging in as yourself into the FB group, but we are going to figure out who you are and end this quickly. For everyone, the FB group doesn’t exist anymore, we were only trying to get Couriouser’s real id. Sorry for the this.

    Comment by Cammie99 — August 12, 2012 @ 6:32 am

  63. OMG what’s going on here??? Well I think the bloggers get paid by the comment so maybe Natalie won’t mind so much.

    Nice blog Natalie, you are a pretty funny chick!

    Comment by LOL — August 12, 2012 @ 8:55 pm

  64. Got to stop wasting my time reading comments that have NOTHING to do with these hilarious blogs. Who in the world CARES or has the time to read through all this immature garbage??????????

    Comment by KeriL — August 13, 2012 @ 10:39 am

  65. Hey Couriouser, why do you need a link to Brian Johnson’s FB id posted here so you can contact him? I thought you just copied & pasted an email exchange you had with him? If that’s true, then just email him & ask him yourself for his FB id. Unless of course, you faked that email address & sent it to yourself. Hmmm…

    Comment by liz123 — August 13, 2012 @ 1:08 pm

  66. Natalie, love your blog and how you ignore haters. That’s character. You’re too busy to snoop on here. Hooray for you. And love your video show too. You are such a positive and honest person. Beautiful inside and out.

    Comment by ALWAYS A NATALIE FAN — August 13, 2012 @ 1:59 pm

  67. @Liz123 Poor dumb Sarah, Where did I ask for a link to Brian’s facebook id? Read again and read slowly this time, I said I made a fake id to pretend to be Brian Johnson to join the new facebook group because I find it hilarious that you all think I am this Brian. If you remember correctly, when we all joined the larger facebook group so all the comments that people made come to the email with the person’s facebook id. I have Brian and Ellens’ facebook id. I have your facebook id too my dear Sarah, along with Brandy’s and Cyndi’s and Anndy’s and Freve’s and Shannon’s and Tamara’s just to name a few. Why don’t you post your email here and I will forward a few of these emails from Facebook to you :-) The great thing about facebook is that when a person comments in a group Facebook emails that to your email. This links directly to that person’s facebook id. You can’t escape me dumb Sarah, I will always have your facebook id because I was in that larger facebook group. Remember this comment sweethart:

    Here’s how I’d know that Jef is going to be the F1 even if RS hadn’t spoiled it: There’s an InStyle interview where Emily talks about the beaded All Saints dress she wore on her “Fantasy Suite” date with Jef. She says that they found it in London & it was “love at 1st sight” (with the dress). Emily says she & the stylists wanted to wait for the perfect moment for her to wear it. They waited so long they were afraid she’d never get to wear it. She finally chose Jef’s FS date to wear it. Doesn’t that say it all? (If you’re a woman, you know that says something!)

    LOL keep guessing, but you are completely wrong if you think I am Brian Johnson :-)

    Comment by Couriouser — August 13, 2012 @ 5:03 pm

  68. And here is Cathy’s comment from the larger facebook group back on June 26th that also came to my email :-)

    has anyone talked about the “situation” yet? i thought that was one of the reasons we started this group.. oh, and what dana said.. YES lets please try to refer to each other by our sn on the rs site.. idw any weirdos knowing who i am..

    LOL Poor Cathy, I know her full name and I can connect to her facebook id too and because of the document I have Cathy’s handle on Reality Steve :-) All because that comment from June 26th is sitting in my inbox and attached to Cathy’s facebook id. All I need to do is be logged into my facebook account click on Cathy’s comment which is connected to her facebook id and voila, I can see her id :-) Gotta love facebook. Liz123 I guess you wish you never approved my request for the larger facebook group. Poor dumb Sarah

    Hey Sarah, tell Brandy I say Go Alabama Crimson Tide!!!

    Comment by Couriouser — August 13, 2012 @ 5:32 pm

  69. LOL I’m looking at Cathy’s facebook now. Shit, she is hot! I think I need to take a cool shower

    Comment by Couriouser — August 13, 2012 @ 7:00 pm

  70. LOL Liz123, Impersonating me again? Cathy is skinny hairstylist working in Ventura. Her skinny blue pants and her pink with white polka dot top is boring. She is way too skinny, I like some meat on my women. This chick looks like she is 12 LOL!

    Comment by Couriouser — August 13, 2012 @ 8:20 pm

  71. This is so much fun!

    Comment by Couriouser — August 13, 2012 @ 8:31 pm

  72. I hate to steal your thunder, but I couldn’t care less that you know exactly who I am. I’ve never tried to hide it, sweetheart. I am not a coward. And Cathy doesn’t care if you know her info either. You are acting as though you think you are so fantastic & have something on us b/c you know our info, but we’re not hiding from you! I have the guts to state my real name & stand behind every statement I make. That’s much more than I can say for you. So listen & listen closely- I am not afraid of you. You may know my real name & my screen name on Reality Steve. You can even find me on Facebook. But you don’t know me, my dear. You have no idea. Why don’t you tell us one thing you can stand behind under your REAL name? Name one thing. You go on these blogs & talk trash about people & tell things they were involved in that had ZERO to do with you & spew their real names & their identities all over the place, but if you are so brave & so righteous & you were so wronged- then where’s the harm in telling everyone your real name? What are you so afraid of if you are 100% certain in your righteous indignation? Something sort of tells me you know you’re crazy b/c at least you know enough not to state your real name. You are hiding your identity like it’s the most important thing to you in the world… & for what? Because maybe you know your behavior is making you look crazed? And you think *I’m* trying to escape you? You have the nerve to say I can’t escape you?! I’m not trying to!!!! YOU are trying to escape ME. Are you not smart enough to even see *that*?! Wow, the stupidity & hypocrisy is alarming.

    Oh & I know how Facebook notifications work, but thank you for the education. And, again, I couldn’t care less if you saved every comment I ever made in that group because i have nothing to hide. I’ve done nothing wrong. Good for you that you care enough to save every single notification that you got from that group. Just shows how much you care & how little I do.

    And, yes, you did ask for a link to Brian Johnson on FB. You said you wanted to contact him via FB. Again, if you had been communicating with him through email already then why didn’t you just ask him for a link to his FB through your email communications? Hm? If you took the time you could find your comment in regards to that yourself, but I’ll do your work for you. Here ya go:

    LOL looks like your Facebook group gone again. Still couldn’t flush me out! Love it. Keep guessing, keep guessing. While you are at it please post Brian’s facebook page here. I want to contact him via facebook

    Comment by Couriouser — August 11, 2012 @ 10:15 pm

    For the record, I never thought you were Brian Johnson, although others did. Again, fine you know who I am, so you come out in the light too & let’s find out who you are & then we can talk like adults… adults who have guts & don’t hide being screen names. Screen names that they can’t even spell correctly.

    Comment by liz123 — August 14, 2012 @ 4:07 am

  73. @liz123 You must care a lot if you are writing a few paragraphs on the subject :-) I just love how you have no clue who I am. Cyndi guesses I am from your camp, you guess I am Brian Johnson. You are right earlier I did ask for Brian’s facebook id until I realized all I needed to do was go into my email and look for one of his postings. I emailed him and even cc’d Rachel and Jax stating how these fools think I am him but Brian never replied back. So why all defensive now? You don’t trust Debora and Freve that you unfriend them again? You already friended them on FB then unfriended them and friend them again and just last night you unfriend them….what are you so scared about, do you think I am one of them? LOL. The reason you don’t get to know my real id is because you are an idiot and you need to learn to figure things out on your own. I am not so dumb as to reveal my real name and screen name here, or on your document. Come on only 113 members in the group, you can rule out yourself so 112 members to go dear Sarah. You should be more like Steve and keep searching for the truth. He does it with spoilers, you need to buckle down and figure out who I am. And here’s a freebie, I am not Brian Johnson, so 111 members to go :-)

    Comment by Couriouser — August 14, 2012 @ 5:38 am

  74. @liz123

    So why did people think I was Brian Johnson? I don’t remember him from the facebook group but I do realize he did post there and he wasn’t a fan of Steve’s as per this comment to Steve:

    I read your last column and boy you are really tooting your own horn, first of all its you JOB to get the info correct, its your only job, 2nd of all I was the one back in May or whenever it was, a long time ago that told you who the winner was when I said Jef and I also told you the final 3, who cares if no major outlets ran with it, bottom line is I told you first. Another site had it right. So you need to remember that, don’t act like your the man and you should be held so high this year, you were 2 months behind me and other outlets. Just wanted to knock you down a peg. Its your job to get it right, remember that. Thats what you get paid to do.

    and you also had your own hate for Steve as per your comment:

    I bet RS HATES that we’re taking away hits from his page. Awww, too bad. :D

    So perhaps people should be guessing that if I am not Brian I must be you :-) Keep guessing dear Sarah, keep guessing. If you didn’t care so much you wouldn’t reply to me but it’s obvious you do and you really want to know who I am. :-) I will give you a hint, my first letter of my first name starts with a letter from the alphabet, the first letter of my last name also starts with a letter from the alphabet. Good luck!

    Comment by Couriouser — August 14, 2012 @ 6:02 am

  75. Like I said I didn’t think you were Brian Johnson. Also I am surprised you can go on facebook and see who I friend and unfriend. I have a feeling that Freve and Debora are in cahoots with you so I don’t want to be facebook friends with them. For all I know they may be you but you refuse to be adult about it and reveal yourself to me. I am done with this and the Ellen situation. Like I said, Ellen is the one that came to us and invited us to the small facebook group to spread lies about Reality Steve. If you have an issue with that I suggest you take it up with her. I am done here and going back to Reality Steve’s site. You are so annoying!

    Comment by liz123 — August 14, 2012 @ 9:40 am

  76. I didn’t post the above comment. You know it & I know it. But go ahead & talk to yourself. I know it’s not as fun as talking to me, but what else are you gonna do with all the time you have on your hands?

    Comment by →the REAL liz123↔ — August 14, 2012 @ 11:06 am

  77. @liz123 Are you a complete idiot? I never posted the above comment. Looks like someone is playing you, perhaps you need to go ask the people you unfriended if they posted the above comment. At least they acknowledge Ellen to be the one that spread the lies about Steve. Steve should be talking to Ellen and giving him a piece of his mind. p.s. Figured out who I am yet? Or do you still think I am this Brian Johnson? Why don’t you just go back to posting at Reality Steve and stop following me here to this blog :-)

    Comment by Couriouser — August 14, 2012 @ 12:20 pm

  78. Why yes I am a complete idiot. Thank you for noticing. I don’t really care who posted it. I know it wasn’t me, so who did it is really neither here not there. Are you a complete psycho? I have acknowledged that Ellen is the one who spread lies. Is that supposed to be a secret? Who is denying it? And what concern is it of yours? Are you Ellen? Are you Steve? Did Ellen lie to you? In case you don’t know because you’re a complete moron, the answer to all of those questions is NO. It has nothing to do with you. Stop talking about things that don’t concern you & get a life of your own. Stop stating my screen name & my real name on this blog & I will go away. Why don’t you go back to Reality Steve’s blog anyway? Oh, what’s that? Because you got blocked? Oh, too bad, so sad.

    To answer your question (something you never do since you don’t have the guts to answer questions asked of you), no I’m not surprised you could see who I friend & unfriend. I wasn’t attempting to hide that. I guess I didn’t realize the depths of your boredom with your own life & that you are sitting & monitoring my friends list & checking people off as they disappear. How bored & lonely must you be to sit & do that at night when you should be hanging out with your own friends & family? Thanks for the flattery, though. I didn’t realize I was that popular & important to you. So funny that you need to live through me & my friends list. It truly is flattering, but I am sorry your life sucks that bad, buddy. This is so much fun! :D

    Comment by →the REAL liz123↔ — August 14, 2012 @ 12:40 pm

  79. @liz123 I must really be getting to you, now you won’t let someone who searches you on facebook know which friends you have or even the ability to add you as a friend??. LOL. You are really becoming paranoid but I guess with good cause. In a span of less than a month, I was able to oust Ellen for the liar she is, I was able to help Steve get his apology, I was able to shut down your larger facebook group (113 members_ that had no other purpose but to spread lies about Steve, I was able to shut down your smaller facebook group which had only 7 members and now I have made you become so paranoid, you won’t let people add you as a friend on facebook or even see who your friends are. LOL, I guess you really are scared of me :-( Oh well, it was fun but now it’s not even a game or cat and mouse anymore, I am not being challenged at all.

    Ellen is my business because she created a facebook group and got me in there under false pretenses. And you fab 10 went along with the charade. So now Sarah, I won’t go away, you can’t seem to let go either, always commenting on my posts :-) Whose the one ignoring her kids??!!!? Go feed them lunch, it’s already 1:00 p.m.

    Comment by Couriouser — August 14, 2012 @ 1:06 pm

  80. So, you’re telling me I have a good reason to be paranoid? Are you threatening me? Because if that’s the case, I’ll find out your identity real quick. I’ll just go right over to LE and let them track ya’ down, buddy. Keep on talkin’. Like I said, you don’t know me.

    Comment by →the REAL liz123↔ — August 14, 2012 @ 1:12 pm

  81. Actually if you really want me to go away, please acknowledge that Ellen is Steve’s real life friend that hooked up with a former Bachelor contestant. We know she spread lies about Steve, but you need to acknowledge that she hooked up with a bachelor contestant a while back.

    Comment by Couriouser — August 14, 2012 @ 1:12 pm

  82. LOL, go ahead my dear, go ahead you are so damn paranoid you read comments and don’t even understand what you are reading. LOL, threat, are you a dumbass?? You are one stupid paranoid twit. Go feed your kids it’s 1:15 now and they are starving. P.S. I thought you knew my real identity?!?!?!

    Comment by Couriouser — August 14, 2012 @ 1:15 pm

  83. @liz123, I really would like you to try really hard and figure out my real identity. I have been asking you to do this time and time again. Come on Sarah, it’s not hard, just buckle down and go through the other 111 people in the group. Hell you can even remove your besties Cathy and Brandy….so what are we down to now, 109 peeps??

    Comment by Couriouser — August 14, 2012 @ 1:18 pm

  84. Don’t worry. We’ll figure it out soon. :D

    Comment by →the REAL liz123↔ — August 14, 2012 @ 1:30 pm

  85. Couriouser:

    Since you think you have it all figured out, let me drop a few bombshells on your stupid ass:

    1) There is still a Facebook Group about all things RS, there has been this entire time, and you will never figure out how to locate it.

    2) I know who Ellen hooked up with and when. I have all those juicy details but I’ll be damned if I ever share with you.

    3) We are all shaking our heads at how desperate you are to get in with this crowd that you literally stalk our shit all day and all night. You are a sad little person.


    Comment by To Couriouser — August 14, 2012 @ 1:32 pm

  86. @Couriouser, know where I can find a good auditor with an MBA?

    Comment by Doesn't matter — August 14, 2012 @ 1:43 pm

  87. @Liz123

    Girl this has been going on since July 31st when I created my handle on Reality Steve. I has been 2 weeks and you idiots are still so clueless. Sure you will figure it out soon, not holding my breath :-)

    At the idiot above who posted….there is no facebook group about all things RS, he has a like page on facebook that’s about it There is one that is all Bachelor or Bachelorette or Bachelor Pad related but not one that is all things RS..if there was I know someone who would be in it and she isn’t in it :-)

    Thank you thank you thank you for confirming that Ellen hooked up with a former contestant, I could care less who it was just that what I was told is the truth and Ellen did hook up with a former contestant. Now I know why Steve friended her, he wanted spoilers, same way he friended Erica and Holly. Poor guy, keeps getting burned by these women :-(

    LOL, yes I know way too much about you because you are the idiots that posted as yourselves in the larger facebook group, revealed your handles on the document in the larger facebook group and all your comments came to my email so I have your facebook id’s for life. Don’t you all know how stupid you ladies are for giving away such information. That is more dumb that Erica attempting rhythm gymnastics :-) . Stupid stupid RS commenters…will you ever learn??? I hope you teach your kids better than you have taught yourself. It is never okay to reveal your true identity to people you don’t know on the internet. I hope you go and teach your kids that valuable lesson!

    Comment by Couriouser — August 14, 2012 @ 1:53 pm

  88. @Doesn’t Matter, LOL you think I am an auditor with an MBA? Guess again…..Where the hell would I have time to post her if I was an auditor? You are another dumb one. 108 peeps to go :-) You must be talking about the guy who started the pitiful facebook group with 7 members…just googled him and he is an auditor with an MBA :-)

    Comment by Couriouser — August 14, 2012 @ 1:57 pm

  89. Can’t wait to tell my friend on the inside that you now think I am Mike :-) Funny funny shit!

    Comment by Couriouser — August 14, 2012 @ 1:59 pm

  90. You didn’t out Ellen as a liar. You didn’t get an apology for Steve. All those things happened way before you ever knew any of this happened. I know you want so badly to be a part of something, you poor pitiful fool, but the fact is you jsut weren’t a part of this. So sorry, buddy. Also, yeah, there is a group & no, Debora wouldn’t be in it so you wouldn’t know about it. That sucks for you. Boohoo. Yes, we know Debora told you that Ellen hooked up with a former contestant. Debora also fed you a lot of false info as well. I know you don’t know anyone else, so you do need us to confirm all that for you. Too bad your sources are drying up. Again, I don’t care what you know about me. I’m about to know all there is to know about you. Then we’ll have some fun for sure! :D

    Comment by →the REAL liz123↔ — August 14, 2012 @ 1:59 pm

  91. My dear, yes, there is a FB group. Has been all along. You see, it’s “secret” like the “super duper secret group”. Sorry, no invite for you. And apparently your sources suck.

    You really need to learn how to read. Crazi.

    Comment by To Couriouser — August 14, 2012 @ 2:02 pm

  92. @Couriouser- “all your friends?” You mean the imaginary ones in your head?

    Comment by Doesn't matter — August 14, 2012 @ 2:06 pm

  93. Your “friend on the inside” is Debora. And she’s not on the inside, sweetie. I fed her a bunch of lies to feed you & you fell hook, line, & sinker for every damn one of them. And now you’re busted. Poor pitiful Mike.

    Comment by →the REAL liz123↔ — August 14, 2012 @ 2:09 pm

  94. So why does everyone care so much about a facebook group and gossip by complete strangers? Isn’t it more fun watching the trainwreck that is BP3?

    Comment by confused — August 14, 2012 @ 2:09 pm

  95. Sorry, confused. I really hate doing this to all of you here to read Natalie’s blog & talk about BP3, but this psycho Couriouser won’t stop posting my real name & private business all over the internet & it just so happens that this is where we ended up having our last hoorah. Again, sorry, confused. I’m going away really soon, though. Swear it.

    Comment by →the REAL liz123↔ — August 14, 2012 @ 2:12 pm

  96. Yes I outed Ellen as a liar here in the bachelor blogs, so many people were interested in knowing the RS story. I am sure since everything was brought to light again by me, Ellen had to apologize again to Steve. All I care about is the truth and you all have admitted that Ellen hooked up with a former contestant, that is why RS friended her, for his own gain in getting spoilers. Same reason he friended Holly and friended Erica. Unfortunately he got burned. I really really want you to figure out who I am. Googling Mike H doesn’t help as you can see by the linked in profiles that there are at least 10 Mike H’s. Picking the first one and saying I’m an auditor with an MBA is stupid sluething. Are you that dumb, if so you need to go back and get your high school diploma :-)

    Comment by Couriouser — August 14, 2012 @ 2:12 pm

  97. You outed someone that nobody here knows? Doesn’t that sound stupid even to you? “Okay, everyone I’m outing Jane Smith. Now you all know that Jane Smith is a big fat liar”. Who gives a f*ck? Seriously. You did NOTHING!!!!! Idiot. No, Ellen did not apologize again to STeve b/c of you!!! OMG, your delusions are fascinating!!!!! You said “I really really want to figure out who I am”. Yes, my dear. Yes, you do want to figure out who you are. That’s the root of all of this. You don’t know who you are. Well, I’ll tell you: You are nobody. Nobody at all.

    Comment by →the REAL liz123↔ — August 14, 2012 @ 2:17 pm

  98. @liz123 Please go away, these blogs are to talk about Bachelor Pad. First it was Cammie99 now you. We are here for Bachelor Pad not Reality Steve, you need to go back to the RS site and deal with the drama there. Cammie99 treated me so badly on Ashley’s blog saying I was creating drama and that is what she and you liz123 are doing. Please stop and go back to RS site. Hopefully with the new blogs for episode 4 coming this blog will fall to the bottom.

    Comment by Beth Holler — August 14, 2012 @ 2:17 pm

  99. Actually, Mike, the LinkedIN profile pic matches the same nerdy picture you have in your FB profile pictures, or well, one that you used to have, anyway. Surely you have deleted that one by now. It’s okay, we have screen shots. Just like you have your precious little document with everyone’s FB name and SN (which no one cares about, BTW) we have our own little documents saved too. Lots of them.

    And who are you calling dumb? “Rhythm gymnastics?” Pretty sure it’s called rhythmic gymnastics.

    Comment by Doesn't matter — August 14, 2012 @ 2:18 pm

  100. @Beth, The person posting as Cammie99 was really Couriouser, just so you know. So blame Couriouser for that.

    Comment by Doesn't matter — August 14, 2012 @ 2:19 pm

  101. No worries, and yeaaaaaaaah. I don’t read Reality Steve and could not care less about these apologizes from people I don’t know or don’t give two poops about.

    That being said, why do I now love Kalon???

    Comment by confused — August 14, 2012 @ 2:25 pm

  102. @Doesn’t matter, sure believe I am Mike now, I know you are wrong. Plain and simple. What made you think I was Mike? Perhaps because I told Liz123 it was 1:15 and to feed the kids? So then you assumed (which when you assume you make an ass out of u and me) that I was a west coaster? LOL. I just said that to make Liz try to narrow in on west coasters. LOL I just realized from the linkedin profile that Mike lives in San Diego. Damn I didn’t mean to throw him under the bus. I didn’t even know he was a west coaster until I googled him. Only 108 people to get through :-) Hmmm am I a West coaster, East coaster, on Central Time????

    Comment by Couriouser — August 14, 2012 @ 2:25 pm

  103. @beth holler, i cant speak for what cammie99 did to you & won’t take the blame for that, but i do apologize for what I’m sure you see as a hostile take-over of your space. Please read what i wrote to confused above. The same applies to you. Really sorry!! I promise, I’m a nice, normal person & this is all a really long story & hopefully i’ll be able to go away real soon. :D

    Comment by liz123 — August 14, 2012 @ 2:30 pm

  104. @Doesn’t Matter Well Cammie99 and Liz123 have made it extremely difficult for me to get through the comments on this blog with their continued attack of Couriouser. All I know is Couriouser is trying to get to the bottom of things. I don’t follow Reality Steve but I know he tries to pay contestants for spoilers, and so I am not the least bit surprised about Ellen spreading lies about him. All I want is this drama from Liz123 and Cammie99 to go back to the Reality Steve site. Couriouser can stay, he/she is a hoot!

    Comment by Beth Holler — August 14, 2012 @ 2:30 pm

  105. So how do you explain that Mike Higdon has the exact same Linked In profile pic as you had on your FB, if that is not you? Yeah, that’s what I thought. You’ve got nothing.

    Comment by Doesn't matter — August 14, 2012 @ 2:32 pm

  106. @confused, you’re right that Kalon doesn’t seem so bad now in comparison to Chris!

    Comment by liz123 — August 14, 2012 @ 2:33 pm

  107. Hahaha you’re funny Beth! I mean, Couriouser. How can you be so obvious?! Toot your own horn much?

    Comment by liz123 — August 14, 2012 @ 2:37 pm

  108. @Doesn’t Matter…remember this comment from Sick of Crazy: Oh Brian-funny, you are waiting for approval to join the group, and the only Facebook user that has yet to be approved is…. Brian Johnson… Tada! Hell, maybe I will just post a link to your actual page here… You like sharing your email address so much, why not add your Facebook?

    So let me get this straight I am supposed to be Mike Higdon, he creates a new facebook group that has 7 members including Sarah, but he has yet to approve me with my Brian Johnson id??? But if I was Mike, I would have just approved me as Brian Johnson if I Mike was the one behind all of these Couriouser comments. Pretty dumb considering Mike had a RS group and never accepted my request to join the facebook group. This should prove I am not Mike Higdon. The one on linkedin may be the same Mike as facebook but when I look at his id I don’t see his picture. But go ahead, go after Mike, you are just barking up the wrong tree…try again my dear, try again.

    Comment by Couriouser — August 14, 2012 @ 2:41 pm

  109. If you don’t want us to figure out who you really are, your best bet would be to just let us to continue to believe you are Mike. Right?

    Comment by liz123 — August 14, 2012 @ 2:47 pm

  110. Or you could continue to have conversations with yourself, as you have been doing for days now. Hey, who’s your therapist? Whoever it is, they have you on the wrong dosage of your meds, because they aren’t working.

    Comment by Doesn't matter — August 14, 2012 @ 2:51 pm

  111. @liz123 and @Doesn’t matter, how nice of you to apologize to Beth Holler…..hee hee….or was that really Beth commenting above both times???

    Comment by Couriouser — August 14, 2012 @ 2:52 pm

  112. @liz123 I WANT YOU TO TRY TO FIGURE IT OUT. STUPID IDIOT…how many times have I asked you to try and figure it out, it’s a game, come on start playing. I don’t know Mike except I know he commented on the larger facebook group and created the newer facebook group but he doesn’t deserve to be accused of something he didn’t do. Poor Brian, poor Mike, I never met such idiots in my life such as yourself who couldn’t figure this out.

    Comment by Couriouser — August 14, 2012 @ 2:55 pm

  113. @Couriouser You shouldn’t call people idiots, it’s not nice. Hopefully they will go away soon, they bring so much drama here and it’s not even relevant to Natalie’s blog.

    Comment by Beth Holler — August 14, 2012 @ 2:57 pm

  114. @Couriouser, you’ve got to be the biggest coward ever. Judging by your LinkedIn pic I’ll bet these past couple of weeks of communicating with all of these beautiful women has been the highlight of your life.

    Comment by Doesn't matter — August 14, 2012 @ 3:03 pm

  115. @Doesn’t Matter…the only hot girl I have seen is Debora. that chick is so hot in her bikini and she is like a fine 26 year old. The rest of them are like 40 something old bags with kids. Not appealing. But Debora is wow! And she knows it because I tell her that all the time!!!

    Comment by Couriouser — August 14, 2012 @ 3:10 pm

  116. @Couriouser, if you’re so great & brave, then why are you hiding? It’s not a game, honey, you’re a chicken shit. But, it’s only a matter of time…. tick, tick, tick.

    Comment by →the REAL liz123↔ — August 14, 2012 @ 3:10 pm

  117. @Couriouser We will find you and hunt you down, just come clean. Tick tock tick tock….We already know your are Mike so we will just contact you via LinkedIn.

    Comment by the REAL liz123 — August 14, 2012 @ 3:13 pm

  118. Again, not me above. This is stupid.

    Comment by →the REAL liz123↔ — August 14, 2012 @ 3:16 pm

  119. Hahaha, I thought you said that Cathy was too skinny & you liked a little meat on your lady’s bones. But Debora isn’t too skinny for you? Wow, you forget your own lies all the time! Keep it straight, now.

    Comment by →the REAL liz123↔ — August 14, 2012 @ 3:18 pm

  120. Btw, none of us are close to 40 so your detective work SUCKS.

    Comment by →the REAL liz123↔ — August 14, 2012 @ 3:19 pm

  121. And didn’t he also say Cathy looked like a 12 year old? But now everyone is “40 something old bags with kids?” C, for someone with a college education you certainly do not have a very good memory. Get your lies straight.

    Comment by Doesn't matter — August 14, 2012 @ 3:19 pm

  122. @liz123 Cathy is too skinny, in her profile pic she is wearing these skinny jeans and she has no body, no boobs and sticks for arms. Not appealing as her body is like a 12 year olds. The fact that she has a 12 year old body doesn’t stop me from knowing that she is older. She may not be 40 but there are some 30 something’s pushing 40 and they do not appeal to me. Debora is slender but has boobs and she is hot as hell. Also she was born in 86 so that makes her like 26 and one fine piece of ass. Mmm…. Sorry Sarah 2 kids later and pushing 40, you look old a bit plump. No worries your husband loves you so that’s all that matters :-)

    Comment by Couriouser — August 14, 2012 @ 3:35 pm

  123. @Liz123 Check out the Feb29th 2009 pic of you, you got such a plump face, was that just before your daughter was born. And October 18th 2010, what’s your excuse, your kid looks like she is at least 1, why didn’t you drop the weight?

    Comment by Couriouser — August 14, 2012 @ 3:39 pm

  124. From your *fine* lady friend:

    Hey guys, here is the first set of email correspondences between curiouser/grabby and I. Please keep in mind that the whole time, I was contacting curiouser and being “flirty” with him in an attempt to find his identity. I was also just saying everything he wanted to hear… So yes, it was all an act on my part.

    I am sending these to the both of you, but I ask that you please not pass them along to anyone else, and please don’t use them against Brian (curiouser?) in any personal way. Despite everything that’s gone down, I still don’t want him to know that I was completely setting him up the whole time. Thanks.

    PS – Start at the bottom and work your way up!


    Who is saying you are Brian Johnson?

    Brain Johnson is a member of the lovers/haters group. I don’t know him personally, I just remember him as being one of the members.

    I don’t know who this “cast member” is. I don’t even know if that detail is even true anymore. There’s just been so many rumors, and it’s hard to separate the rumors from the truth. I’d like to friend you on facebook so that we can further keep in contact regarding this whole bachelor thing.


    Comment by Debora to Couriouser — August 14, 2012 @ 3:41 pm

  125. Nope. Not pushing 40. Guess again. And i’m 5’7″ and weigh 133. Yeah, that’s plump, idiot. I’m sure that ones gonna make you many friends here in a group full of women.

    Comment by liz123 — August 14, 2012 @ 3:42 pm

  126. And another LOSER:

    Hey Sexy,

    Why do people think I am this Brian Johnson guy? Do I need to go back to RS and read his comments? Who the hell is he? I have received 2 comments addressing me as Brian.


    p.s. Who is the castmate from the Bachelor that Ellen hooked up with?


    On 6 August 2012 00:35, Debora Rodriguez wrote:

    Hi “Grabby”

    This whole time I thought you were a girl, LOL! But I’m glad you’re not. Girls are too much drama and I’m getting quite sick of this “she said/he said” BS. I can tell you are too, and I totally feel the same way. I’ve kinda separated myself from the situation after I realized no one was going to be straight up about everything that happened. I’m glad we’ve come into contact with each other… I think we can stick together and get to the bottom of this mess.

    As for the information I said I had, well, it sounds like you already pretty much have all of it.

    The fab 10 girls are pissing me off with their vague, incomplete account of what happened, and with their exclusive “super secret” group. But I’m done dealing with them in regards to all this drama. I just wanna know what happened exactly. I think we all deserve to know at this point.

    Well, anyways, thanks a ton for contacting me. I’m very glad you did. I’ll keep digging around for information where I can and I’ll stay in contact with you and let you know of any new findings. And thanks also for your compliment regarding my picture. :) It’s very flattering. Feel free to friend request me so that we can stay in touch about this whole issue. I don’t use email very much but I’m always on facebook so it would just be easier for me, and more personal.


    Comment by Debora to Couriouser — August 14, 2012 @ 3:42 pm

  127. Want more? Because I got more.

    Comment by Debora to Couriouser — August 14, 2012 @ 3:42 pm

  128. @couriouser, god your sleuthing sucks. I have 2 dsughters.

    Comment by liz123 — August 14, 2012 @ 3:44 pm

  129. You think Deb is hot? Keep on thinking that while she rats your sorry ass out to the entire GROUP. Moron.

    Comment by Debora to Couriouser — August 14, 2012 @ 3:44 pm

  130. @Liz123 Do your think your daughter Taylor is going to grow up plump like you? I say make sure to portion control her meals at an early age so she doesn’t end up like her plump Mom Sarah :-)

    Comment by Couriouser — August 14, 2012 @ 3:46 pm

  131. I think either way, she will grow up to be a better person than you & that’s what matters.

    Comment by liz123 — August 14, 2012 @ 3:48 pm

  132. @liz123 That second kid born in 2011 is a girl?!!??! OMG, the kid looks like a boy! LOL!

    Comment by Couriouser — August 14, 2012 @ 3:48 pm

  133. @liz123 I still think Debora is hot as hell but as you can see I didn’t trust her either so I didn’t reveal my true identity to her either. She is the one that invited me to Mike Higdon’s new facebook group that Mike never approved so how the hell could I be Mike if I don’t approve my own fake Brian Johnson persona. If I was this Mike I would have accepted my own request dumbasses.

    Comment by Couriouser — August 14, 2012 @ 3:51 pm

  134. @Couriouser, you’re one sick and twisted low-life. Bringing people’s children into this. Absolutely ridiculous.

    Comment by Doesn't matter — August 14, 2012 @ 3:54 pm

  135. Ya know, Couriouser, the more vicious you get, the more sorry i feel for you. See, because you are attacking & insulting an infant. Wow, bet you feel like a badass now, huh? Anyone who would stoop to insulting a baby really does have issues inside themselves. I know you’ll say “oh, bullshit” orwhatever, but you know it’s true. Only someone with some serious demons inside would insult babies for sport. I really do mean this, i hope your life gets more joy & happiness & you can rid yourself of whatever it is that has made you so unhappy.

    Comment by liz123 — August 14, 2012 @ 3:56 pm

  136. @liz123 I am not attacking Taylor, I just want to make sure you portion control her meals so she doesn’t end up like you. After all child obesity can lead to major problems down the road with health. She looks completely fine now so this is where you have to start. With respect to your 1 year old daughter, sorry I thought she was a boy. No disrespect, she has only a small tuft of hair so she could pass for a boy or a girl. Just make sure to put more girly clothes on her so people in real life don’t say…ah your little fellow is so cute :-)

    Comment by Couriouser — August 14, 2012 @ 4:03 pm

  137. @Couriouser do you think we’re all idiots? We know that the posts by Liz123 are you. It must be super fun having conversations back and forth online with YOURSELF.

    Comment by Doesn't matter — August 14, 2012 @ 4:06 pm

  138. @ Doesn’t matter , you think this post is me: Ya know, Couriouser, the more vicious you get, the more sorry i feel for you. See, because you are attacking & insulting an infant. Wow, bet you feel like a badass now, huh? Anyone who would stoop to insulting a baby really does have issues inside themselves. I know you’ll say “oh, bullshit” orwhatever, but you know it’s true. Only someone with some serious demons inside would insult babies for sport. I really do mean this, i hope your life gets more joy & happiness & you can rid yourself of whatever it is that has made you so unhappy.

    Go ask Sarah, she posted it not me. After all she is just defending her little boy I mean girl. Whatever sex that kid is :-)

    Comment by Couriouser — August 14, 2012 @ 4:08 pm

  139. @Doesn’t matter: and this post?? I think either way, she will grow up to be a better person than you & that’s what matters.

    Sorry not me again, it is Sarah posting and defending her daughter Taylor. As a mom she should be defending her daughter, I am actually proud of Sarah standing up for her daughter. Like I said no disrespect to Taylor or Mar, I just told Sarah to make sure they don’t end up plump like her because child obesity is a huge problem here.

    Comment by Couriouser — August 14, 2012 @ 4:11 pm

  140. Gay ass clown, lmao

    Comment by Steve — August 14, 2012 @ 4:12 pm

  141. My job here is done. I had the fab 10 admit to the fact that Ellen who is Reality Steve’s real life friend who also hooked up with a former bachelor contestant spread lies about Steve and she eventually apologized to him and he has accepted it. I was able to shut down the larger facebook group that was started on false pretenses, I was also able to disband the smaller facebook group started last week that was started supposedly by me (LOL). I was able to prove I was not Brian Johnson or Mike Higdon (super sluething skills Sarah and Brandy…LOL), and now in the last two days I have been able to get the fab10 to finally finally add more security to their facebook profiles so that the world can’t see who their friends are, who the friend and unfriend, what there status updates are, their public pictures and the ability to add them as a friend or message them. I hope that was a well learned lesson that they should not be so open on the internet. They should never publish their personal information in a facebook group with people they don’t know. Hopefully they learned a valuable lesson and going forth they will be much smarter. With respect to Debora, that girl is hot and I hope to get it on with her someday…..we shall see :-)

    Comment by Couriouser — August 15, 2012 @ 4:49 am

  142. Sorry I had one last job and that was to rat out Debora: Here is my email exchange to her:

    Hey girl,

    Yeah they actually posted our email exchange here:

    And they posted the email you sent to Sarah and one of the other fab 10 there too:

    Hey guys, here is the first set of email correspondences between curiouser/grabby and I. Please keep in mind that the whole time, I was contacting curiouser and being “flirty” with him in an attempt to find his identity. I was also just saying everything he wanted to hear… So yes, it was all an act on my part.

    I am sending these to the both of you, but I ask that you please not pass them along to anyone else, and please don’t use them against Brian (curiouser?) in any personal way. Despite everything that’s gone down, I still don’t want him to know that I was completely setting him up the whole time. Thanks.

    PS – Start at the bottom and work your way up!

    You need to scroll down to about the middle of the comment section in this blog above to read all the comments.

    Truthfully I don’t care, you did what you did and if we all want to be truthful here, I asked you that leading question about talking dirty to you, to see if you would bite. I planned on letting your husband Brian know that you were willing to cheat on him (albeit virtually) if you agreed to having sexual email exchanges. I was all set to forward our email exchanges to him but you are a good girl and didn’t bite. Remember though don’t play in the big leagues unless you want to get burned. You were one lucky girl this time around.

    Act like Switzerland if you want but b*tch I don’t trust you. The only thing I would do is f*k you and throw you out of my bed when done with you. You are a piece of ass to me that’s all.

    Thanks for the laughs though and damn I wish you took my bait. Brian would have been mortified or maybe not that his slutty whore of a wife was so willing to open her legs.

    Have a great day
    Grabby aka Brian aka MIke

    On 15 August 2012 12:32, Debora ******* wrote:

    What? They told you that they were asking me for info? Pfffft, lol whatever. People are so weird.

    Like I said last night, I’m getting quite tired of this game. From now on, I am Switzerland. Honestly I don’t even understand why they wanna know who you are so much. What good is a random name going to do for them? I have to admit, this whole obsession with them wanting to find out your identity has made me a little curious to know too. But I doubt you’re anybody we know, so knowing a random name wouldn’t be anything special. I used to think you might be Brian, but I don’t think so anymore. And I know you’re not MIke.

    Oh, and I’m thinking of creating a RS facebook group myself. You can join, of course, and I don’t care if you do it with a fake account.

    Now to answer your question, I appreciate you asking me for permission first, but I can’t really do that in good conscience. This whole manipulation thing has hurt my conscience enough as it is. Thanks for asking though.


    Date: Wed, 15 Aug 2012 12:01:23 +0000

    Subject: Re: Hello again!
    From: ********
    To: *******

    I know! LOL, I think one of them must also comment there and say me posting there so decided to come after me there and accuse me of being Brian first and now Mike. The Mike accusation is too funny because it was Mike who started that new facebook group and like I told you I never got approved to join. If I were Mike then I would have approved the request LOL. These ladies are stupid beyond belief.

    I don’t care you told them anything, you don’t know much including who I really am so they didn’t get anything from you except me telling you that they think I am Brian Johnson and wondering why they think that since I am not. You actually helped me prove that I am not Brian because my innocent comment to you is what probably made them realise that I am not Brian. I personally don’t know Brian but it is definitely unfair of this lynch mob to go after him thinking I was him. Now this lynch mob is going after Mike Higdon and I am not him. This is their mentality, they get together as a mob and go after someone, that is what got them in trouble in the first place, going after Steve caused this whole Ellen situation.

    Both Sarah and her counterpart (I think it was Brandy) admit that Ellen hooked up withe a former castmate and they do admit that Ellen who was real life friends with Steve did spread lies about him and he eventually apologised. So good enough for me as I wasn’t spreading lies, just spreading the truth.

    Anyways moving past this, any thought about what I wrote earlier? Girl I think you are damn fine and everytime we email I can’t get the picture of you in that bikini out of my mind. So if you are okay with a harmless email exchange where I can talk dirty to you, I would be okay with that. If you are not okay with it that is fine too. It’s just girl you drive me crazy, I get so turned on talking to you.

    Let me know :-)

    Debora, I still think you are one piece of fine ass, no hard feelings okay…

    Comment by Couriouser — August 15, 2012 @ 6:23 am

  143. Ouch. Must hurt the ego to be REJECTED like that C. LOL.

    Comment by Rejected Couriouser — August 15, 2012 @ 7:15 am

  144. Pretty sure I just wasted my time reading the rants of a terrible human and crazy person. Wish we could just go back to commenting on Natalie’s blog-you know, what most of us came to this site to do.

    Comment by Wow — August 15, 2012 @ 7:27 am

  145. Curiouser, i have a little niece who looks like a baby boy because she has only a little bit of hair. She has no hair because she has cancer & is undergoing chemotherapy. I would be careful about making light of a child with no hair because you don’t know why that child looks the way they do. I hope you sleep well at night, sir.

    Comment by stacia — August 15, 2012 @ 7:35 am

  146. Wow, I thought the drama was at Bachelor Pad. Turns out its in the comments section of Natalie’s blog! Lmao!

    Comment by Maria C — August 15, 2012 @ 10:19 am

  147. @stacia, Sorry to hear about your little niece. What I was stating was what I thought was a fact. I looked at this 1 year old kid with very little hair dressed in non descript white and thought it was a boy. I am sure Sarah has gotten it a million times. So many babies out there that look like a girl or a boy, nothing wrong with that, I made a mistake. Sarah corrected me to say she has 2 daughters and I apologized and told her, that her kid looked like a little boy and to put some girly clothes on her so others don’t make a mistake. My apologies to you stacia, I never meant any harm by mistaking this child for a boy. It’s a mistake millions of people make. Lighten up. :-)

    Comment by Couriouser — August 15, 2012 @ 10:59 am

  148. @Maria C…Girl you are so right….also after I send Debora that message you think she would not email me again but she couldn’t resist….here’s more drama for ya girl..


    Bitch go read the whole thing:

    I posted the same sh*t on Natalie’s blog for episode 4. Bitch if you email me again, I will be forced to go to Brian and reveal all of this. I am sure he won’t appreciate you emailing some random guy off the net as well and I will furnish this email exchange just like I did on Natalie’s blog. I don’t give a sh*t that you feel guilty, I have been playing you the whole time too. I gave you enough info so you could run back to those bitches and reveal what you thought you know. You don’t know shit. Don’t email me again. If you are so interested to know if I will post on that site again, then just read the site. You know why I never revealed who I was, it’s because I didn’t trust you. Sarah can’t even determine if i am an east coaster or a west coaster. Every one of my emails and posts have been calculated to get those 10 bitches wondering who the f*ck I am :-) And I totally succeeded in playing them like a fiddle. Tell Sarah and Brandy to go back through each post and determine what is the truth and what isn’t the truth. They will never guess who I am. I am done with all this sh*t, please don’t email me again unless you want me to talk dirty to you. As I said you are one fine piece of ass, but all I want to do is f*ck you senselessly and then throw you out of my house.

    Don’t f*cking email me again.

    On 15 August 2012 13:46, Debora ****** wrote:

    Wow, I haven’t had a chance to read the whole thing yet, but I had no idea this was all going down behind the scenes.

    Obviously we don’t trust each other, as we are 2 strangers on the internet… but I hope you can at least know that I am sincerely sorry for having been manipulative and getting sucked in all this, and that’s why I had confessed to it. It felt wrong and I was feeling guilty.

    I am not proud of much regarding this whole mess, and it’s definitely been a lesson on trust. It’s interesting though… like we’re all having our own little real life game of backstabbing in bachelor pad. Now I know I could never be on that show without jeopardizing my values.

    I know you said you were “done” in your last paragraph there… but are you going to continue posting on that site?


    Comment by Couriouser — August 15, 2012 @ 12:01 pm

  149. Thanks for ruining this blog for me. Take your vulgar language and words elsewhere.

    Comment by confused — August 15, 2012 @ 12:23 pm

  150. Somebody doesn’t handle rejection well, lol.

    Comment by Rejected Couriouser — August 15, 2012 @ 12:32 pm

  151. Was Debora working alone, I wonder? Hmmm.

    Comment by Debora & ?? sitting in a tree! — August 15, 2012 @ 12:38 pm

  152. Me thinks someone’s giant sized ego was knocked down to a level resembling the size of his pee pee. Just sayin…

    Comment by *K*I*S*S*I*N*G* — August 15, 2012 @ 12:46 pm

  153. NO ONE CARES! No one on this blog cares that you want apologies from COMPLERE STRANGERS. No one cares that you VOLUNTARILY joined a Facebook group which you chose not to leave. No one cares that your feelings were hurt by not being invited to a small Facebook (once again by people you don’t know).

    Get over it!

    Comment by @ curious — August 15, 2012 @ 1:43 pm

  154. Excuse the typos, blame the iPhone.

    Comment by @ curious — August 15, 2012 @ 1:44 pm

  155. :)

    Comment by MikeH & DeboraR — August 15, 2012 @ 1:48 pm

  156. ?

    Comment by SteveC & DeboraR — August 15, 2012 @ 1:51 pm

  157. ….

    Comment by Comment by Comment by — August 15, 2012 @ 1:52 pm

  158. @ @ curious, AMEN sister!!!!!!! Preach it!

    Comment by confused — August 15, 2012 @ 2:14 pm

  159. Son, stop harrassing these nice people on the Internet and come upstairs now. Dinner’s ready. I made your favorite, meatloaf.

    Comment by Couriouser's Mom — August 15, 2012 @ 4:58 pm

  160. I KNEW it, Couriouser lives in his mom’s basement. Sounds about right!

    Comment by Steve Sanders — August 15, 2012 @ 5:01 pm

  161. Aww MOOOOOM, that is sooooo embarrassing. Thanks for putting me on blast like that.

    Comment by Couriouser — August 15, 2012 @ 7:14 pm

  162. Bach Pad!!

    Comment by SheBangs — August 15, 2012 @ 9:40 pm

  163. What a long night at work. And don’t you dare say that stipping is not a real job or profession! Try giving a lap dance to a 40 yearl old Virgin. I’m beat.

    Comment by deb456 — August 15, 2012 @ 11:06 pm

  164. Elements is a free fantasy online game. Hundreds of creatures, spells, magic and artifacts to play with.

    Comment by Tick...tick...tick... — August 16, 2012 @ 10:20 am

  165. @Debora123 Tick tock, Tick tock :-) :-) :-)

    Comment by liz123 — August 16, 2012 @ 11:00 am

  166. ^Not me. Obviously.

    Comment by →the REAL liz123↔ — August 16, 2012 @ 11:08 am

  167. Tick tock Tick Tock …LOL Also I know that liz123 is not the same person as the REAL liz123 different screen names. I am sure there are many Liz’s, Lizzie’s, Elizabeth’s, Liza’s in the world that watch the Bachelor Pad, and I am sure many people have similar screen names….@the REAL liz123, you need to lighten up. It’s only a blog……

    Comment by bearkat — August 16, 2012 @ 5:26 pm

  168. nd my response to Debora

    Thank you Debora for being a much better human than those fab 10 who vindictively went after both Brian and Mike. They even wanted to send emails I sent you to Brian’s girlfriend when they had zero proof. They did this with Steve with the whole Ellen fiasco, then used you as a pawn to try and out me. I hope they learned a lesson.

    Peace out

    Comment by Couriouser — August 17, 2012 @ 7:41 am

  169. Couriouser, you can keep on waiting for that apology from the group members. Aside from the fakes ones you’ve posted to yourself, you’re never going to get one. Ever.

    Comment by Couriouser is a bigger douche than Chris Bukowski — August 17, 2012 @ 11:25 am

  170. The fact that you still post means I got under your skin. Ask Sarah about her facebook page which was open to the world where I learned her two kids names and even learned she had 2 daughters, and not one girl and one boy. That bitch quickly closed up her facebook page that night, and removed her friends from being viewed by the public and removed the ability to add her as a friend to message her. Yes RS told you to remove the group but that is because of me :-) I love that you all have been scrambling the last 2 weeks to clean up the sh*t you stirred up. Yes you were decent human beings that went after Brian and Mike because you were so sure one of them was me…get your facts straight, no I am neither Brian nor Mike..

    Nannie-nannie-boo-boo, you’ll never know the whole story! What are we 12?

    Listen to Karyn’s advice ignore me you will never win and as hard as you try you will never figure out who I am. And yes you do give a sh*t because why did you try to contact Brian’s girlfriend or post Mike’s LinkedIn page on here….silly silly fab 10 girls…bye bye Bitches!

    Comment by Couriouser — August 17, 2012 @ 1:33 pm

  171. Couriouser, go back and read what was said in RS’s comments again. Nobody contacted Brian’s GF, and nobody posted Mike’s LinkedIn page here. And thanks for finally admitting that we had the correct Mike. Not that we didn’t already know that, but now at least you’re admitting it. And no, we really don’t give two sh*ts who you are, but we will continue to comment on here and set the record straight as long as you continue to spew your BS and twisted lies.

    Comment by Couriouser is a bigger douche than Chris Bukowski — August 17, 2012 @ 3:05 pm

  172. Oops only saw this now, I guess when you are commenting on old blogs you definitely don’t have the address you so hope to get. Of course you don’t care who I am that’s why the fab 10 were hell bent on outing Brian and Mike. Now that I have proven I am neither of them. I have no clue if you have the correct Mike or not, I am just going by the fact that you said I was an auditor with an MBA and when I googled Mike Higdon an LinkedIN profile came up with Mike Higdon as an auditor and MBA all because I made reference to being a west coaster. LOL, don’t you fab 10 know that I was just playing with all. I may be a west coaster, but I may be an east coaster. It’s your job to out me. You haven’t been successful thusfar and it’s been going on for 3 weeks. You will never know who I am :-)

    Comment by Couriouser — August 18, 2012 @ 6:18 am

  173. oops I meant audience not address…was either way to early or way to late…depending on if I am a west coaster or an east coaster :-) but you bitches will never know!

    Comment by Couriouser — August 18, 2012 @ 12:19 pm

  174. Haha, oh Couri- you sounded so stupid in that comment! Silly, silly rabbit.

    Comment by kasey — August 20, 2012 @ 6:43 pm

  175. I regret to inform everyone that my grandma passed away last night. She was one of the greatest comedians of all time. Rest in peace Phyllis. We will miss you and your fantastic jokes. Here’s to the greatest lady that ever lived.

    Comment by kasey — August 21, 2012 @ 5:27 am

  176. Thanks for the auspicious writeup. It if truth be told was a amusement account it.
    Look advanced to far added agreeable from you!
    By the way, how can we be in contact?

    Comment by chlorine resistant swimwear — August 22, 2012 @ 11:16 am

  177. Please let me know if you’re looking for a article writer for your blog.
    You have some really good posts and I believe I would be a good asset.
    If you ever want to take some of the load off, I’d absolutely love to write some articles for your blog in exchange
    for a link back to mine. Please blast me an
    e-mail if interested. Thank you!

    Comment by nude selfshot naked teen — December 1, 2013 @ 5:24 am

  178. hello!,I like your writing so much! proportion we be in
    contact more approximately your article on AOL? I need an expert on this
    house to resolve my problem. May be that is you! Having a look
    ahead to peer you.

    Comment by hot — January 26, 2014 @ 1:00 pm

RSS feed for comments on this post. TrackBack URL

Leave a comment