Your perspective on the show is interesting, thanks for sharing. Oh, and it’s “one AND the same” – sorry, couldn’t help it. I also think it’s nice that you’re helping Erica get something awesome to wear to the finale – she needs a bit of help in that area.

PS- Any luck on tracking down Vienna’s teal one shoulder dress from Episode 3?

Calling Melissa crazy is the height of hypocrisy. She cried over making out passionately with Blake all night and being misled by him…. —

You bawled over being rejected by Mesnick! of all people — and I don’t even think he as much as shook your hand.

However, the tone was rather mean-spirited. Seriously, you really are going to perpetuate the abuse of poor Melissa. People with disabilities should be shown compassion, not mocked. Don’t you have ADHD? That’s also a classified mental illness. Really, people in glass houses….

What makes Nat a style guru? The whole point of participating this demeaning show is to get opportunities to promote oneself further. Nat wants to be a fashionista so she made herself one. People will read her just because she appeared on the show and has a stylist.

I was hoping to read about what you thought of the bikini’s. Didn’t anyone find open flowers, awaiting pollination of the bikini tops a bit pornographic? They are essentially paties (used by strippers) glued onto bikinis. The look was very cheap and degrading to the women.

I am also wondering why no one has commenting on Jake’s eye brows! He truly needs a good tweeze and eye brow pencil as those babies are all over the place.

Were you over dressed? Probably. Reminds me of Melissa, who wore heels and miniskirts to be champerone on camp club dates and twister. Your outfit looked fine and beautiful, though I don’t agree with the tap. You wanted to show more leg? Why? Isn’t that a bit narcissisitc? Wasn’t the skirt short enough?

Reminds me of why you couldn’t understand Jason’s rejection of you. You said, “I’m hot. Who wouldn’t want me.” Nat, I love nice style and have it. However, real relationships are not built on clothes and hair–but on how people relate to each other, their character, empathy, shared values, purpose, etc., not their hotness.

Hotness comes and goes, just like style. No good, decent man would want you because you’re hot. They would want you for other attrributes. In fact, by always emphasizing your “Hotness,” you might even scare off good men.

Have you noticed how the men on Bachelor Beatdown make fun of you? None respect you. They mock your intelligence. Perhaps spend less energy in “hotness” and more on developing yourself. They dismiss you as a promiscuous drunk by basically insinuating you are bedding every man you see if not otherwise losing yourself in booze.

Gee, once you acquire a style and a good wardrobe, and know how to wear make up, you can really turn your attention to other things, like reading a good book, developing skills, or doing something relevant with your life.

Nat, the world is full of “hot” girls. They are a dime a dozen. Even the dumpiest girl can look “hot” with the right styling. Looks also fade, and real men, worthwhile people engage and relate to people on other levels beyond how hot they look, yet that’s all you seem to be able to see.

It’s really too bad as you seem like a bright, intelligent girl, and unlike most participants, you actually seem capable of forming gramatically correct sentences.