The crazy people above — Spivvy and Jaclyn are just impersonating the two contestants who tried to get attention for themselves by blogging in Perez Hilton’s ample use of abbrevs.

I believe contestants can delete messages and eliminate the comments section altogether.

Just as you “considered the source,” I am sure others will as well. The mean spirited comments about Tenley reflect more on whoever wrote them than on her.

However, the above comments on this blog are just downright nasty, same as the ones on Jaclyn’s and Ashely S’s (you can make fun of Chris B all you want and I will JOIN you, he is a skeevy egomaniac). This just somehow goes beyond teasing someone “in fun.” But yes, I agree, there is a lot of underhanded, shady business going on in this show, but at the end of the day, it’s entertaining and so are the blogs. I just wanted to point out that this website makes it TOO easy for one person to comment multiple times under various pseudonyms.

They noted that behind Teneley’s sweet façade was a rather vicious, two faced, devious person. Who knows if any of that is true. Anyone put under a microscope will be found wanting.

Honestly, most of these comments are said in fun. People make fun of ALL of the contestants on this show because it’s a stupid show. They also laugh at the contestants who believe their own press and expect or try to become famous based upon the sole credential of having gone on dates and kissed a lead on a dating show before millions.

No one takes any of these contestants seriously. Even Prince Borghese (sp?) went on to become a reality star, going from show to show as most of these people do. Most people see the pursuit of fame for its own sake and desperation of these so called stars as rather ridiculous.

Tenley is just an ordinary girl. She is sweet, nice looking, has nice personality. But what has she accomplished that warrants all the personal attention. She has not read lines in a movie, produced anything, done much of anything beyond primp and pose in front of the camera. Thats what people are making fun of.

That and the fact that Teneley tweets about her personal life with Kiptyn and then want privacy when the relationship falls apart. These contestants launch fake charities to get free money to subsidize their party lifestyle in front of the camera.

Really, Tenley could be interchanged with anybody. The public makes fun of ALL OF THEM. Appearing on this show and trying to drag out your 15 minutes of fame through your association on it is the surest way to become the butt of jokes.

Even Emily went from the nation’s sweetheart, a beautiful, rich, classy, intelligent woman to laughing stock.

A lot of contestants before Teneley have given up blogging because they were made fun of — including Ashley Spivvy, Jaclyn, and Chris Burkowski, among others. The Bachelor franchise only set up this site to deflect attention and business from Reality Steve.

Some stars try to prolong their 15 minutes and build a fan base by blogging only to find out that most people just don’t take them or their efforts seriously. They did not win Survivor or Shark Tank. They appeared on and made fools of themselves on a dating show, whose premise is absurd, crying and backstabbing their way into infamy in their quest for an elusive marriage proposal from a stranger.

It’s hard to respect people who appear on this show much less try to build a career and somehow thin they are actual movie stars in the process. Even the participants laugh at the stupidity of this show and its fame chasing contestants. It’s an ongoing joke.

I’m sure Tenley is a nice person. It’s nice she goes out of her way to share recipes, but really what talent, what gift, what uniqueness does she bring that warrants any of this? She is an average girl blogging about recipes. Kind of silly and pointless, but if this is her thing, the franchise has given her an opportunity.

Bloggers have an opportunity to demonstrate their writing skills and connect to their audience in a personal way. Some succeed, some don’t. Tenley’s strategy of strutting around in a bikini and tweeting about per personal life and blogging about recipes isn’t winning hearts and minds, but if this is what she wants to do, who is to tell her differently.

Incidentally, if you want to live in the public eye, you need to develop thick skin. The public is brutal even to the most popular. Just ask Tyra Banks. Even Michael Stag has gotten brutal press at times. Those who endure learn to ride the bumbs with grace.

OK. I have written a novel on the Bachelor blog. Do I get a Pulitzer?