I think both Arie and Sean in the end will be more then happy to find a woman just as attractive but less demanding after the show. And yes, a woman who doesnt kiss other men and think its all about her.
Nice guy but he seems uncomfortable on TV and is really…boring. It seems everyone loves him for Em because he’s the typical beefcake bachelor looks wise (though at least he’s got a good head on his shoulders).
Don’t think he wins Em’s heart and would not like to see him as the bachelor…Arie for bachelor! He’s tons of fun
@ Chris, I agree, Emily is very high maintenance..yes let the Mormon church take care of her. I think Sean would be better with someone like Kasey B. Kasey loves sports and Sean is a X linebacker for KSU. If he and Emily hook up it will ruin the poor man. In 2-3 years he’ll be going every-night to the bar to get away. and will likely turn into a major alcoholic.
Do the three stooges run around posting comments on these pages? Some of the strangest comments I’ve seen yet from some mean-spirited people.
Sarah & Cassidy, agree for the most part! Great guy, but if he didn’t have the muscles, would there be so many Team Sean’ers?
Emily is a great gal, and has a spunky way of asking questions to figure this all out in such a short period of time. Best of luck to her!
Comment by What on earth? — July 8, 2012 @ 3:15 am
I heard Emily’s daughter’s grandparents are no longer speaking to her. Perhaps it upsets them to see her wining and kissing all these men and have given her everything under the sun and provide complete supprt fo herand her daughter. I’ve not heard a thing about her parents; are they still alive? I hope she picks Arie as he has the looks of a man, not a boy, is the oldest and has the most money. Don’t know if any of them would make a good father figure for Ricki and read that this little girl did not meet any of them. Hummmm. Jef looks like a little 14 yr. old kid. I hope she picks Arie.
I also think Sean is boring and I don’t see why so many people love him. He is a male version of Emily…..relatively attractive if you like blonds (natural or not) but just blah! Like oatmeal…..Emily is pure high maintenance and trouble for any man who ends up with her….unless as Ryan said, someone needs a trophy wife.
I think that all three are great choices for her! If she loves them and they love her back, than I beleive it will be perfect. She has been open and honest from the beginning, and I feel like these three guys have also been honest. I hope the best of luck, and I hope the people who posted before me realize that they can’t control her love life. They don’t know her and there is so much gossip these days, who even knows what the truth is. Emily, if your reading this, continue to trust in your heart
emily, i hope you read these comments, the best comment on this page is kellys! she and i see eye to eye in the 3 boys. there all very great guys and will care for you and ricky throught it all your one lucky woman and like she said keep following your heart, but i do think sean is the one!(: but listen to your heart!
I totally disagree about the negative comments about Sean. Totally sweet, I loved watching him and think he would make a perfect Bachelor!!! Team Sean!! WHat a catch! Hope she decides to go back to him- that would be a fun twist
Sean is a class act. The way he left proved that even more so. He has high moral character and appears to have great family support. Sorry Emily but I think your heart failed you this time. The Salt Lake City Mormon should be a huge concern for your daughter. Although you want to continuously jump Auri’s bones, he’s not a good choice for your family. Dump those last two and crawl back to Sean for another chance. Like I said in the beginning, he’s a classy guy who would treat you well! Mike
I agree that Sean and Kasey B would be a great match. Emily missed the boat on this one!! I think Emily was blinded by a good kisser that will not give her and her daughter what they need in everyday life. All we have seen is them attached at the face every time they are together. Is that real life? No way! What she has with Arie will fizzle out sooner rather than later and she will realize that she passed up a solid family guy in Sean. Sean for the next Bachelor!!!
Emily does seem to be very high maintenance. For that reason, Ari would probably be best for her. (Jef is too nice.) As for Sean, not sure why some think he is “bland.” I find his calm presence relaxing, and yes, maybe it was the show that had him doing some rather “cheesey” things, but he still came through as sincere and the one I thought Emily should choose. I think I missed the lack of chemistry between them. I thought it was there. Hard to tell. Sean, however, will make an excellent bachelor. And if he was truely hurt, it will serve him well in the future. He will be even more careful in his selection of a future mate. He seems to be a “forever” kind of guy. Ari, on the other hand, does not seem to have “staying power.”
Sean is the total pkg. He is adorable even minus all his muscles..smart, funny, Christian, caring, with a great fun family. Sean is proud of his family and they are of him..a very healthy & warm family. Arie is nice, but a slobbery, sweaty puppy dog, and he is so nervous about his family’s critical opinions..the Mother is not kind..and would be so tough for Emily…Jeff is also nice, but young, doesn’t seem too bright..his family are strong Mormons which will be incredibly tough for anyone, unless they are also Mormon! His brother said to him, “don’t remember you ever talking about marriage & family,” Wonder if Jeff’s family all live at the Holmstead Ranch in adjoining houses!
I agree, we need to have Sean for the next Bachelor. However, he may be so hurt he will not want to go through that again. He is the family man Emily said she wanted. Arie will be off traveling while Emily will be home alone raising the children. Living in Utah and dealing with the Morman faith would be a tragic choice.
Emily,sending Sean home was a huge mistake if what you say you want is what you really want. Sure he is great looking, but also is kind, has values and wants to live the life of a family man that is there 24/7 for his family. Arie may attract you physically, but his life style, although exciting, does not allow for a father or husband that is there. Children need a dad and mom every day, without transitions that hurt them emotionally (ie moving and new dad). Jeff is a pleasant guy and may speak maturely, but has not matured to be the father/husband you are looking for and he does look around 14 years old! Any chance on getting Sean back?!!
Down to the last two men, and I think Airie is a bad boy who is a replica of her last failed relationship. He will likely woo women all over while working away from home. Plus he has already said he likes to eat out every night, I bet this is followed by many drinks. I am dissapointed that this is who she chose. I loved Sean and thought he would be a good match, she missed the boat on this one. I don’t think she has learned anythign from her last experience on the Bachelor! I thought the letter he wrote for Ricki was tender and very well written. Actually, both men left standing are bad boys, guess this is what she is attracted to…
Emily! How could you let Sean go? He showed you how much he cared for you. Running after you in the street to give you one last KISS! The show can’t reflect the true nature of Sean or the others. But Sean came across as very honest, sincere, kind, loving, caring. He said he wanted to be a loving husband & father. Sean’s letter for Ricki was very telling of his deep love, not just for Emily, but little Ricki too. Emily kept saying she wanted a husband that would BE THERE with her to share day to day life, raising Ricki. Take over making some decisions, etc. It’s a race car driver’s mother that has told her how hard it is with them (husband & son) away doing the job they love. Jef – not a good choice! I feel he isn’t as mature as he tries to be. The religious beliefs are going to have direct affect on their marriage. Just look at what has happen in the news w/Katie & Tom Cruise! Does Emily want to end up in 5 years realizing she doesn’t want to be a Mormon but keep her Christian beliefs?! Sean was more than just a great body, he had a BIG heart filled w/love for Emily & Ricki which was thrown away unfairly. PLEASE, HAVE Sean AS A Bachelor in a year or so. Let him have time to heal his heart! Have Kasey B w/maybe a couple of other girls HE likes & wishes to select fm past shows that fit the qualities important to him in looking for a wife. Some may find Sean boring, but no one can see the whole person in the few hours edited for a show. Let Sean be the next Bachelor!!! Let him show his committment to being a family man w/high moral standards, fun family life, honest feelings for whomever he chooses. As to Sean being oatmeal – well you sure as H__l haven’t had good Scottish rolled oats w/honey, peaches, nuts, and lots more to make it a VERY tasty meal. Sean is far fm boring! He has qualities most women wish they could find in a man. Stop being negative. Emily will realize soon she might have tossed away the most honest, caring & loving guy in this season’s group of men. Her loss but prayerfully Sean’s gain if ABC is SMART enough to have him be one of the new Bachelors in the future. Have someone else for the next season, then give Dean a chance after that. I feel badly for Emily cause it isn’t an easy situation to be in, just hope in the end she sees it might be best NOT TO CHOOSE ANYONE! Wouldn’t be the first time, but it’s all about what’s best for her & Ricki. It might be best NOT to end up with anyone. Better than ending up divorced. . . . ?!
Cassey B. should really be the next bachelorette…she is really a nice person and she deserves the best.
Comment by Shelley pesner — July 10, 2012 @ 6:11 pm
Sean from Emily’s season should definitely be the next bachelor. He’s a little aloof and hasn’t shown all of his cards yet which I find to be very exciting! He’s handsome and just the perfect all American guy! Wish I was 25 years younger!!!
@Lynette, everyone is missing the point why Sean got sent home. He couldn’t tell Emily “i Love you,” which is what a wife wants to hear everyday. The show is speed dating so you have to be ready with an open heart, not make the Bachelorette work for it, or wait for it.
After this experience Sean should understand himself and know that this show is not his style. It’s too fast for him, and making him a Bachelor will only put another woman in the same confused state. I find it insulting to hear a man say he can’t say “i love you.” Every woman knows when a man finds the woman of his dreams, the words come out so easily. Ya Sean’s hot, but a marriage is based on more than a hot bod. Emily wants assurance that she’s gonna get married after the show.
Sean is a class act! I, too, believe Emily made a big mistake in not choosing him. He is sincere, kind, and the family man she should be looking to marry. He’s the kind of guy I’d want my daughter to marry, if I had one. It’s cheap to say “I love you” and don’t mean it; we women hear it all the time. The guy was making sure he wanted to commit before he said it. I applaud him for it; I’d much rather wait for a guy to be certain how he feels about me before telling me he loves me, rather than say it and doesn’t mean it. Wish Sean all the best and I’m certain he’ll find himself a great wife. She’ll be very fortunate to have him.
I think Emily made a hugh mistake letting Sean go. He would have made a great husband and father for Ricki. Arie won’t be around because he will always be traveling from race to race, and along with that drinking and playing around after each race. I also didn’t like his parents attitude when Emily visited, not speaking English in front of her. Now as far as Jef. I have heard he went on the show to promote his business not to end up married, and I’ve also heard that he is a big party animal and likes to play around. After a short time, I feel that he would get bored with Emily and Ricki and go out and party leaving Emily and Ricki. I hear even his parents and best friends aren’t aware of this. The best decision would be for Emily to not pick either of the two left and either go after Sean or stay the way she is for now. I know that by the time I am writing this she has already made her decision in May. Good Luck Emily.
I just love Sean. I have from the very beginning and was so disappointed when Emily dropped him. Sean is probably better off. I would really love to see Sean as the next bachelor. If there is a place to vote, please add my vote.
I would love to see SEAN back on the next Bachelor!!!
I was crying when he was dismissed by Emily last Monday
but I hope ABC will bring him back for so many good reason!!! He is kind and wonderful man. Thanks
I think Sean and Emily made a great couple and was very disappointed in her decision of men.
Comment by Cookie Campany — July 17, 2012 @ 6:51 pm
Emily will probably end up leaving the show like she came, available. She sent the best choice, Sean home. Why?I don’t think she knows what she wants or is too afraid to move on with her life. Aire only seems to be interested in taking her to bed. I don’t think Jef will stick around to deal with her drama. ABC make Sean the next bachelor.
Does anyone think that Emily rejects both Ari and Jeff? Why did Chris Harrison say something like, “So you feel like you will be betraying both of them?” Sean looked really happy on The Men Tell All. Could it be that she brings Sean back and he is her final pick? Could that happen?
Although I know that Emily truly loves her daughter, I believe that Emily is also looking for money and excitement in her life. Sean would not have been a good selection for her. However, Sean would be a great next bachelor. Hope to see him there next season!!
Sean was the closest to what she professed to be looking for in a husband and father; however, I believe she too knew this, but, as usual, the heart has a separate brain, much smaller, sending the final signals…PLEASE make Sean the next Bachelor!
Love Sean! What a HUGE mistake Emily made dropping him! She is a suburban high-maintenance soccer mom who makes cookies and wears a huge amount of make-up, I can’t imagine her making it long term with Jeff or Ari. They both seem nice as well but she wanted someone to have babies with and drop Ricki at soccer practice, etc. Does a race-car driver seem to be the right choice? Sean was husband material…too bad she is picking the two bachelors that don’t appear to be husband material! Love to see Sean be the Bachelor – he’s handsome, nice and romantic (not boring)…any man who will run after your car to give you a last kiss, well, I call that a true romantic!! Too bad, Em, you blew it!
Can we all make a comment here about how JEF IS NOT MORMON ANYMORE. Yeesh. She would not be “dealing with the mormons”. He obviously still has a good relationship with his parents despite their differences in lifestyles. I highly doubt he would “force” a religion on Emily that HE HIMSELF is not a part of.
Also, Salt Lake City is only 40% mormon. Yes, still a high percentage, but it’s not like you can’t think your own way there.
Given how emotional Emily was, I think she cared for Sean and knew what a catch he was. However, he is MIDDLE CLASS and has a low status job whereas she is a wealthy heiress and socialite. Only Ari and Jef matcher her income level, and Ari didn’t seem sufficiently (smart?) with her family, which appears to value business savvy whereas Jef has that savvy and could be a good friend for Emily, allowing her to build a career in the limelight. He seems nonthreatening.
Her match was Sean. My view is she sent him home over his lack of low professional and social status (compared to her.) She is used to dating wealthy, prominent, high profile men. Sean is a low key family man from a middle class family. He is exactly what she needs, but her own conditioning and social expectations would not allow her to pick him.
I didn’t see a real connection with Ari or Jef.
Ari was just a make up partner and did not seem as smart as Emily. He was actually very insecure around her.
Jef is a buddy who is not impressed with Emily, which makes him a challenge. He will be a good, nonthreatening friend to her.
Her real match was the respectable, middle class Sean.
He’s all pumped up muscles and had a girlfriend that he “just wasn’t into”? Even his mom was surprised — and encouraged him to be “honest” with Emily. And just check out his dad….(the man who taught him how to be a “man”?)….as gay as they come!
That family has leaned on Jesus to wash the gay away . . . but Emily could see right away what was goin’ on.
@fan@Betty Sue, I think Jef would be a great DAD. He would spoil his kids and the mom too. I think that’s what made Emily pick him. He spoils the piss out of her. Also, you have to have a fun side to be a father. Can’t be a stick in the mud. Jef showed a fun side too. Sean is not gay. He’s just not the one for Emily!
PS, I think Emily does date money but classy people don’t talk like that. If you look at her history you can see she only gives people with money the time of day. I think she wants to stay home and be a mother and wife, which there’s nothing wrong with that. Jef is the best pick to give her the rich, carefree life. I hope she marries him, she’s had alot to pick from. Girls like that sometimes are too picky they end up alone.