Hey Emily so glad that you did the video. Once again you hit it! Let’s stop with the Bentley! You’re so right about the great guys that she has there and the focus should be on them. Emily you are such a great friend to Ashley. And you’re just down right a great person yourself. Plus you have a very wise mother, glad you listen to her. I’m sure that plays a big part in why you’re such a fantastic mom to Rikki. You know the negative stuff is coming but you have to consider the source it comes from.
YOU REMEMBER MANY PEOPLE LOVE YOU AND YOUR VIDEO BLOG!
Emily, Ashley is so blessed to have you for a friend. The last episode was heartbreaking for all of us. We have all had to encounter people like Bentley and we have survived. I feel sure Ashley found happiness in the end but ssooooo sorry she had to watch and hear his comments for the first time. Hugs – you did a great job with your vblog!!
Also meant to say I’m disgusted the producers would choose to air something as cruel as Monday night’s episode – Bentley’s shenanigans and the roast. I get it, it’s reality TV, and ratings equal money, but I would hope for a little more respect for Ashley and women in general.
Hi Em – You are the product of your raising for sure and so much to be proud of. I listen to you and think, “Yeah! Why get so wrapped up in Bentley, Bentley, Bentley?! AND you always find a way to offset the negative with a positive – like Chris R. stated above, “Your kind heart shines through” and genuinely as usual which is why so many of us admire you! So glad you decided to blog after all and here’s to to moving on to bigger and better things for Ashley with all the great guys she does have. I’m over it now but boy was I upset watching on Tuesday…Good to see you again this week – from one of your BREW crew in TX. See you next week
Emily, You sure now how to turn a negative into a positive! I know that is why so many people have fallen in love with you! Not only are you an incredible role model for Ricki, but for other mothers out there as well! A prayer I say everyday more than once is:
God, Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference! Blessing to you and your sweet Ricki!
Such a big fan! your just such a little adorable darling!!!! and your right on the money about everything u siad. i love how your not cocky or anything, and i love how you care so much about your fans!!!! i absolutly adore you. <3
Comment by biggest fan!!! — June 9, 2011 @ 2:18 am
What a classy lady…..keep up the good work! Us true Emily fans do not believe what we read so let the lies die down.
Emily, How could you say your giving Bentley the benefit of doubt. ARE YOU KIDDING ME!!! In your last three vlogs you have somehow been sticking up for Bentley in your fake-charming,southern voice saying something positive about him. In the 1st vlog you said you were atrracted to him, in the 2nd vlog you said you were attracted to him again and in this vlog giving him the benefit of the doubt. Oh please, we can see right thru this scenario…you just love that Bentley wanted it to be you and not ashley. You are loving the attention!!! You are very strange…Thank God poor Brad does not have to deal with you anymore!!! Next we’ll probably see in the news you and Bentley hooking up!! That’s just digusting!!! Also I totally believe that you have a bad temper and not Brad…Miss High Maintenance!!!
Comment by Shame on you!! — June 9, 2011 @ 2:59 am
Aww you’re so sweet, I like watching your videos every week! Wish this one was longer
@ Jim…I will answer your questions because I know for a fact Emily won’t if Brad is concerned.
The answer is…she went on the show for “fun” no other reason. She never thought Brad would pick her at the end…just go back and watch the ATFR Show, it was embarrassing and just plain shameful. If the article in L&S magazine is true, I don’t blame Brad at all for dumping her…she is nothing but a JOKE!!!
We all have a right to our own thoughts. So just because some of us do not agree with how Emily has handled her and Brads situation does not mean we can’t post it. I hope you are not doing Bach Pad. I mean why leave your daughter aqian, especially if you should still be grieving the loss of Brad. Kinda of a slap in the face to Brad. If you can’t take the heat get out of the kitchen.
Joanie is so right ! Where is the respect ? None anywhere. Give Bentley the benefit of a doubt ? Of course Emily, we know it’s all show-bussiness and rating oriented. You are part of this. Anything for money and ratings. I do not think Emily is able to recognize a man being contemptuous, scornful, psychologically brutal and abusing and insulting. Oh ! I forgot…the ratings…….it’s for fun……
I loved you from the beginning of The Bachelor with Brad but I STILL QUESTION you and how you treated Brad. STILL DISAPPOINTED ! I think there’s more to you that we didn’t see and I’ll always be a fan but I still question a lot of things.
Hi! I am curious what Emily said in the vlog but I need a transcript of it or captions because I’m deaf. Is there any way you can add that here? Please do, there are many deaf fans like me out there who’d love to know what Emily said in her vlog!
Hey Emily! Just wanted to give you a positive shout out. You are very sweet and your continued support for Ashley shows me that you are still the genuine person I saw on the show. I admit I would love to know what’s really happening with you and Brad, but completely understand your desire for privacy. I don’t agree with others that say because you are in the spotlight, you owe an explanation. You don’t owe anything! Love your video blog…there are a lot of fans who want to get your take on Ashley’s season. So keep going and don’t let the negatives discourage you.
Emily..Emily..Emily you are such a BIG fake!!! I can’t believe how sweet and vulnerable you come across, you have really pulled one over on so many people including poor Brad. I guess he knows now because the secret is out about the Hendricks supporting you and there is no way you’re going to move to Austin. Poor Brad can’t compete with that. I bet now he wishes he would have picked someone else but instead he fell in love with a FAKE!!! Do us all a favor and this definitely includes the men do NOT ever go on another reality show.
Emily, not being negative but I feel you are really phoney….my mom always said….”still waters run deep “…..to me that adage describe you to the tee!!! As for. Brad. II am sure he will have no problem finding a real love…you didn’tnt. Even give him a chance….you also cheated the viewers that believed in you…oh well goes on and I wish the best for you….guess I will never understand why you went on the show….what I see is self gain..you are using the 5 minutes of fame to the Max…
Emily…who are you really??? Noone will ever know because you never show the real you…oh I forgot there is one exception and that was the ATFR Show…now THAT was the real you. I do have to say that it’s too bad that the Bachelor wasn’t Bentley when you were on the show instead of poor Brad because believe me you and Bentley deserve each other. I am SO glad that Brad is finally free from you…now maybe he can move on and find someone that really loves him.
You should work it our with Brad. Why did you go through the process, obviously you were not interested. I think you just wanted a nice place to go on a vacation. He is brokenhearted and you are not even making an attempt to reconcile..You are the wrong one to blog! You are seweet and all, but now you are showing your other side!
brad was forced to break up with emily. and he did the right thing. why would he keep her when she played with his mind and more importantly…his heart. she had no intentions ever of moving in with him nor marrying him. she would never leave the hendricks money. she needs to have her hair highlighted and her nails done…that cost money. she has no job. maybe she volunteers @ the hospital. who in the world has this much time to blog on the computer facebook n twitter. i suggest this chick get a job and become independence instead of relying on her dead boyfriends family to support her. brad is a smart dude for moving on but she led him to do it. probably on purpose.
Wowza… Everybody calm down!!! Haters should go somewhere else rather than take the time to comment. Everybody that keeps bugging emily about brad… should leave her alone. She is a grown women and will do what is best for her and her daughter. You do not know what is behind closed doors and it is no ones place to judge. Emily, You look beautiful as ever! Keep smiling and proving every one wrong. I just wish I knew what lipstick you are wearing in this
@ Lisa…Yes! I agree! Emily looks like she has had WAY too much botox. If you go back and look at pics of her a couple of yrs ago and then now..she doesn’t even look like the same person. You know…I come on here to see videos about Ashley’s season and find Emily doing the vblog. I never talk bad or post bad things about people but this is definitely an exception. It is so hard to even look at Emily…I just DON’T like this girl and I especially DON’T like the way she is pulling the wool over so many people. I have never seen such a FAKE person in my entire life.
I agree with another person here that I can’t believe that Emily said to give Bentley the benefit of the doubt especially after seeing what all he said about Ashley!!! Emily you are NO friend to anyone!! You are just plain STRANGE!!! I’m glad Brad is finally moving on and getting away from you.
Emily is my celebrity OBSESSION. I think she is a natural beauty and don’t care if she’s with Brad or not. Id rather she wasn’t because she deserves someone much better. I hope she knows that anyone who leaves a mean comment on here is just insanely JEALOUS. I want to see Emily on tv AGAIN!
I agree with just about everything Emily said except for giving Bentley the benefit of the doubt. I just don’t see how making those kinds of comments puts anyone in a good light just to make an appearance on tv. It makes him look like he has a heart made of coal. I hope he does sleep with one eye open because karma is coming! How would he like his daughter to be treated that way!!
Debbie you are right. Emily is strange. Needs to hide behind this sweet girl routine. It’s plain stupid. If she likes Bentley, she can have him ! Ashley was bashed by Bentley. MEAN !
If Emily is flattered by this gentleman’s attention, she is weird. He is a womanizer. Reduces a girl to her looks !!!!
Give him the benefit of a doubt ? Why ? Because he has the hots for her looks ?
Emily, everytime you go out in public without her ring, the media gets into a frenzy and regurgitate all the lies about Brad drunk-dialling you and Brad’s temper blah blah blah, womanizing in Austin blah, blah, blah.
I fail to see how you could claim you love Brad and allow this to happen. Sure, it’s not your reputation that’s being shredded, but you planted the seed on ATFR by throwing Brad under the bus. Was this your way of getting out of the relationship and dumping all the blame on Brad?
You sure messed with Brad’s heart. He fell for you so hard and was so sincere. He is ready to start a family. YOU KNEW THAT. You should not have gone on the show if you couldn’t commit to him and commit to Austin. WHAT A WASTE! No wonder some the other girls from the show are p.i.s.s.e.d. with you for ruining their chances at a relationship with Brad.
Comment by BRAD s.c.r.e.w.e.d. — June 10, 2011 @ 7:37 pm
I am sooo glad that Brad finally wised up and broke it off with Emily. I do hate that he wasted so much time and money on her though. But at least now he can move on and find someone SO much better.
@ Gail…you’re hilarious! But it’s true! LOL
emily @ 24 is the most fakest girl i have ever seen – fake teeth fake hair fake tan and full of packed makeup. she would look better natural. who has time to be @ the mirror all day long and at the hair and nail salon doing her nails. instead she should be in the kitchen or spending time with her daughter.
You guys are all wrong. I have met Emily and she is the sweetest most soft spoken girl. I got to know her and she’s hilarious! I know that she was planning on moving to Austin bc she cleaned out her house and told my friend she could have some things so she didn’t have to take all of it to tx. Brad would go DAYS without calling her. She has a daughter!! I look up to her and would be flattered if anyone said I had as much grace as she does. Jealousy is a sad disease that many people on here suffer from.
I would almost bet that Emily and Bentley are watching the show together. Emily you are a fake and a two face liar! I can’t wait till the whole truth comes out about you. Sweet little Emily I don’t think there is a sweet bone in your body!. You went on the show to get famous and rich and it back fired when Brad picked you. You really did try to get rid of him on the last night. But why in the hell did you tell him you were falling in love with him!! Because your a fake, liar and only wants what Emily wants. Maybe Ricki’s folks can give you so more. money! I wish you 15 minutes was up but you still got a fanbase. I can’t wait to it all blows up on you and you are a fake person just like your face, hair, teeth! Get a life stop living off of Ricki’s parents!!!
All this is SO unbelievable…to see people think so highly of this phony!! It’s almost like she’s a really good con-artist or something. But the thing is I don’t think she’s smart enough to do that. I guess it’s her fake southern charm.
I have never felt so sorry for someone as I do Brad….thank God above that this man has moved on and is away from Emily.
I truly think this girl needs to stay far away from men and I do honestly think she’s going to go through life a VERY lonely woman.
As for some that have said that we are upset because she won’t tell their relationship status is a bunch of bull…it’s because we DON’T like Emily as a person and what she stands for.
Comment by EMILY IS A JOKE — June 11, 2011 @ 12:14 pm
Hey Emily, does Mrs. Hendricks pay for your highlights nd lowlights? Bet she does..
Toward all the negative comments. Get a life. You can’t go around calling people fake unless you yourself are fake. And what information do you go off of? What you see on TV or on the internet. Wow! That is so reliable. For everyone who really believes everything they see and hear, I am ashamed. Maybe you should get something better to do than watch Emily’s video and say mean things. If you don’t like her, then don’t waste your time on her. Unless you have no life, and sit at home trying to find things to keep you busy, like making fun of people to hide your insecurities. What do you know? Do you know Emily personally? I’m sure you are all just as fake as you think she is. Move on you jealous losers. And why can’t she give Bentley the benefit of the doubt. She was on the bachelor, she knows it’s reality TV and they can take your words and twist them. Maybe he is a scummy person, but to just jump to conclusions and point fingers is an extremely immature thing to do. My advice: Grow up!
Emily, first of all… you made a wise choice to dump Brad. He is in lust for you and sooner than later, he would have diverrted back to his selfish ways… and then when he would be “stuck” in a relationship, he would get mean!
As far as Ashley, she is one ADORABLE SWEET girl who happens to have some insecurities. I, for the life of me, can not see why. She is also INTELLIGENT and DEEP.. just one beautiful person. Please continue being her friend and lifting her up as often as possible.
I was in tears wathchig Bentley discreetly mistreat her… He is such an arrogant & self centered person and she deserves much better, as do u.
I can feel the chemistry she has with JP above all and vice versa. I Hope she finds true love with him and he with her.
Keep your blog going. You are a smart girl and a sweetheart, as well! Hoppe u find a great mutual love!
Well it looks as though Bently is not out of the picture yet! It sickens me that the producers allow her to pine when they know why he really left. Ashley has some amazing men there that really want to be with her! Hope she can shift her focus and heart.
I have loved emily from day one – i don’t know why people are so mean towards this woman when they don’t even know her. Emily you are beautiful, and you seem to be a genuinely nice and sweet person, which these days is hard to find (as you can tell from some of the mean spirited responses to your vlog). no matter where this journey takes you, keep your head up and your heart open. god bless you
Bentley is a jerk… but he is probably being paid. Ashley appears to have little intuition and insight into men and I do not find her sincere in wanting to find a husband. I think she likes the opportunity and wants to have fun. It helps that she hasn’t quite finished school so she can take the time off.
I like Ashley, but not so much as the Bachelorette. If had to put money on it, I think JP, Ben F, or Constantine would be good choices for her. Marriage?? I’d say she’ll be ready in her early 30s. Just my opinion..
Calling Emily a groupie is not nice. She might be after fame, but who cares? Many who go on ABC are.. . if you want it, then it is what it is. If that’s the case, it will come out sooner or later. Becoming the next A-list actress is an unlikely thing for anyone who does the Bachelor. But come on, who really does this only for love? Why aren’t you criticizing Brad? He probably did it for the fame/money more so than anyone else on his season! His intentions for doing the season are far more questionable.
J this is addressed to you on your last comment…..blah blah blah. You are probably one of Emily’s friends or relatives on here sticking up for her. Emily is nothing but a fake and a phony and we all know that now. She came across on the show as a sweet southern belle and that she is not. She is to blame not Brad. Brad was so in love with her and she was so mean to him on After the final Rose. I lost all respect for her after watching that. I wish now he picked Chantal, she was truly in love with Brad, you could tell. Emily is very STRANGE as I said before and her fans just want to know whats going and she won’t say a word. Also she said she is a friend to Ashley….ya right…in that same sentence she said shes giving Bentley the benefit of the doubt. What kind of friend is that????
Comment by Shame on you!! — June 14, 2011 @ 8:05 pm
NASCAR GROUPIE, Go to school get a job and show ur daughter a good example…U are a SORRY CASE OF a mother and a daughter…While ppl like Ashley was studying their behinds off to get into college u were busy having unprotected SEX to secure ur TRUST FUND…U r too CLASSLESS and evil TO fit in with Brad’s kind and loving sister in-laws…Every smart person know that u are a fake BIMBO and that ur true colors came out @ AFTR..u R A WHENCH, BLOOD SUCKER…KEEP sucking the Hendricks cos u r too dumb to get a job….I hope u do not die alone looking 4 THE NEXT RICH GUY to suck on…And I hope ur daughter will not end up being 16 and pregnant….NASCAR GROUPPIE,NO WONDER most of the ladies on ur SEASON AND SEASON PAST dislikes u…
Most of the IDIOTS THAT follow her on twitter is becos THEY THINK she is still with Brad….I hate what this girl stands for especially to young gils…I feel so terrible for her daughter…All she knows is that “mommy shops, high lights her hair, paints her nails suck off of her (little ricki’s)TRUST FUNDand sit home all day…What a sad woman…..
As hard as it might have been to watch this episode, I think it’s a good thing that the producers showed the real Bentley, and how naive Ashley was when it came to Bentley. She kept saying she has a good radar to recognize when a guy is genuine or not, obviously, she did not in that case and I’m sure she learned a lesson. But what’s even more interesting is that, as a viewer, we saw the game that Bentley played, and the truth is, many, many smart women fall for the wrong guy and can’t let go. When you see it happen to someone else, you think “why doesn’t she just let go?”, it seems silly that she doesn’t. Well, girls, next time you fall for a bad boy, remember Ashley and Bentley, and how you wished Ashley could just move on, and take that as a lesson to you own situation and move on yourself. I certainly learned and never want to be fooled like this. If a guy plays games, we shouldn’t waste our energy and move on. Really. Now we saw how it does no good to torture ourselves.
I don’t understand why people are so mean to Emily. She hasn’t done anything bad to anyone. She was asked to publish a video blog and she does so, very gracefully. If you don’t like her, then don’t watch her video, nobody is forcing you to do so. If you do and bitch about it, I’m sorry but you’re the one who has a problem: you’re wasting your time watching something you don’t like and then more time complaining about it… doesn’t make much sense, anyone would question such a person’s intelligence.
I forgot to say Bentley is one arrogant bastard, but in my opinion he’s ugly to boot.
Comment by Susan Hecklys — June 15, 2011 @ 12:13 am
Chappie. Emily went in hiding about her relationship. She should just be consistent and not comment on Ahsley’s season. She chose to be silent and not talk about her experience, she should stay silent. She does not want to talk about HER relationship then we really do not need to know and we do not care to know what she thinks about other people’s relationship.
EMILY STAY SILENT. Play dumb, you seem to excel in it !
Emily, how is Brad doing ? You do not want to say, to share ? Then do not comment on Ashley’s love life. Be respectful about it. You want your fans to respect your love life with your fiancé do the same to Ashley. Keep quiet about your fiancé and keep quiet about Ashley. That would be the intelligent thing to do.
Go on about your shopping, hightlights and nail polish. Neutral things. Insignificant things.
@ Lisa…I agree 100%. She is NO role-model to young girls. I have a daughter and thank God she didn’t turn out like Emily….pregnant as a teenager, don’t work and living off your child’s grandparents…and people actually think she’s classy. Wow..unbelievable!!!
I don’t know what’s a rumor and what’s true, but if even half of the things about the way Brad handles himself in a relationship are true, I would’ve dumped him. That’s just me. He admits he’s had “issues” with relationships and committment and now he is heartbroken…KARMA. I don’t dislike him, but it sounds like nothing but drama with him. That is a pain in the a**.
She is probably not perfect and it would take more than Brad has to get her to move, but Brad was problematic, especially for ABC and his first go as the Bachelor.
@ Tracey…you know you’re right. I remember that and now it’s understandable why she wanted it to be Brad…no commitment. That’s what she wanted all the time, she had no intentions on marrying anyone. She went on the show for the money and fun…period.
I have always thought that Emily was really NOT into Brad. It was SO obvious that the feelings were not mutual. You could really tell that Brad cared so much for her. I really…really hope this girl NEVER go on another reality show, especially when there’s men involved.
Her life consists of only spending the Hendricks money..that’s it. So all in all Brad just picked the wrong girl and there is NO doubt about that…so..so sad.
I really don’t understand all the negativity in these comments. Everyone should be ashamed of themselves. Emily is right, what goes around, comes around so you all better watch out. Emily has every right to keep her life personal and for the people saying “i am so glad she/he broke up with them”… you sound stupid because there is nooo word out on the true status of their relationship and STOP READING AND BELIEVING THE TRASHY MAGAZINES THAT YOU ARE CLEARLY GETTING YOUR RIDICULOUS OPINIONS FROM. the end.
This is all show business. At least let’s be honest. If you would like a career in that area, then you are on a good path and many people like you and find an attraction to something that speaks to them. But for anyone who thought they were following a story about two people falling in love, it’s pretty much a farce. Very unsatisfying. My interest has disappeared and if you are the next bachelorette, it will be not be believable or worth watching. You seem to have a good life with your daughter and hope some day you do find true love.
I love Emily but I wish she stayed with Brad. But than from the twits that Brad writes on his twitter I can tell he is still such a kid..getting drunk and partying all day..he doesn’t seem like the kind of man anyone with a kid would wanna be with. Ur amazing Emily don’t listen to all the BS people write in here..everyone loves u and most of the haters in here are just jealous
I am a fan of Emily and have been from the start, however, I do feel that she has some major issues! Brad was in love with you from the start it was very obvious and he is sincere. Fans of the show invest many hours of their lives into watching and deserve to know the outcome. Emily if you are not with Brad you will never find someone to love you as much as he did. He has a wonderful family and friends that adore him. Maybe he is not perfect no relationship is. Your daughter derserves a father and the older she gets the harder it will be to introduce one into her life. The harder it will be for her to accept siblings as well. Quit being so insecure and take a leap of faith and give the guy a fighting chance to make a life with you.
Callie, do you mean they are back together this week. Or it’s just that “kind” of relationship. They see each other for ….”fun”.
Is Emily planning to move to be near her boyfriend. He is pushing 40, that man does not have time to play games. Her being a single mom, she must want a stable long term relationship. So, when are they getting together ? You seem to know !
Me&my husband have been watching The Bachelor show for years and enjoy it, but this one get us as we keep on watching each week, I’m not trying to be mean, but Ashley must be pretty naive, leading her to have poor,poor judgement. She keep saying she has a pretty good judge of someone, but her timing is so off/bad, maybe that why she was still single. So if she cries, she deserve it, she was warn of his intentions & refuse to listen and still went ahead with dealing with that Bentley guy she don’t even know letting her guard down quickly, then making excuses for her stupid head wanting someone who is full of crap & don’t want her, calling it her gut feeling. She is lucky he didn’t embarrass her by leaving her at the final rose ceremony or at an altar. She is one of those people who suffers badly and have to learn things the hard way.
Emily wil blog this week. Emily has no credebility. She should have a blog about shopping or being a single mom, that would be interesting because it’s her specialty. But love ? From someone who can not be straightforward about her own public love affair and her own experience on The Bachelor. That’s being hypocritical. No credebility at all.
I seriously can not believe all the negative comments & judgements you all are posting about someone you don’t even know. You are hypocritical & contradicting yourselves all the time. They say it takes one to know one & since you seem to know exactly how horrible she is & the way she thinks & feels, I am glad you all are not (hopefully) people I personally know.
I truly believe Emily has a good heart & is genuine. Nobody has walked in her shoes or has all the information on her life. I am a sweet, kind, understanding personality too so that does not make her fake. Nice people exist. I wish her the best & believe what I have seen of her is real.
Here is Emily’s vlog for Antoinette who is deaf – have a great day
“Hey Everybody it’s Emily back to talk about episode “” of the bachelorette. I really did not want to do a video this week at all. It was a hard episode to watch, especially as somebody that knows Ashley personally & thinks the absolute world of her. It’s hard to see her be so down on herself. Um…if Bentley had really gone home because he missed his daughter, I could totally relate to that. Had I not had the feelings that I did, I would have been on the first plane out. But he made it pretty clear that was not his reasoning behind him going home. And to be honest, I’m not totally convinced that had the bachelorette been me or anybody else that he wouldn’t have said “well I want it to be Ashley”, because he clearly had an agenda to be on the show and it wasn’t to fall in love. Um…I also, wanna kinda give him the benefit of the doubt though, because it’s hard for me to believe that anyone could be that hurtful and just mean spirited. My mom always told me to say what I mean, mean what I say, but don’t say it mean. She also told me that what goes around comes around. So if I were Bentley, I would definitely be sleeping with one eye open. Um…I also hope that this is the last week we have to hear about Bentley, talk about Bentley, see Bentley, because I’m getting tired of it, to be honest. I’m really hoping that we can focusing on all the negative and focus on all the great guys that she does have there. Um, here date with Ben looked like a lot of fun, and her date with JP was great. Ya know, she looked like she felt really comfortable with him. So hopefully next week we’ll have some positives to talk about, and I hope that ya’ll will tune in on Monday and then check me out here on Wednesday. Thanks for watching.”
“Hey Everybody it’s Emily back to talk about episode “” of the bachelorette. I really did not want to do a video this week at all. It was a hard episode to watch, especially as somebody that knows Ashley personally & thinks the absolute world of her. It’s hard to see her be so down on herself. Um…if Bentley had really gone home because he missed his daughter, I could totally relate to that. Had I not had the feelings that I did, I would have been on the first plane out. But he made it pretty clear that was not his reasoning behind him going home. And to be honest, I’m not totally convinced that had the bachelorette been me or anybody else that he wouldn’t have said “well I want it to be Ashley”, because he clearly had an agenda to be on the show and it wasn’t to fall in love. Um…I also, wanna kinda give him the benefit of the doubt though, because it’s hard for me to believe that anyone could be that hurtful and just mean spirited. My mom always told me to say what I mean, mean what I say, but don’t say it mean. She also told me that what goes around comes around. So if I were Bentley, I would definitely be sleeping with one eye open. Um…I also hope that this is the last week we have to hear about Bentley, talk about Bentley, see Bentley, because I’m getting tired of it, to be honest. I’m really hoping that we can stop focusing on all the negative and focus on all the great guys that she does have there. Um, here date with Ben looked like a lot of fun, and her date with JP was great. Ya know, she looked like she felt really comfortable with him. So hopefully next week we’ll have some positives to talk about, and I hope that ya’ll will tune in on Monday and then check me out here on Wednesday. Thanks for watching.”