I totally agree with everything you said Emily! I think you have great insight since you’ve already been there and done one side of it anyways. Looking beautiful like always. EMILY YOU DO GREAT WITH YOUR VIDEO BLOG:) Love ya girl!
Emily and Brad are a private couple. (insert sarcasm)
You built a huge fan base, who all watched you both every Monday night, and we don’t get a conclusion? Admit! Engaged? Broken up?
Maybe you should of taken your own advice you are giving for Ashley. You said hopefully she finds love and is NOW watching this and just laughing at it all. That is what you should of done. Instead you gave Brad a very bad time for his relationshops with other girls. Yet, in all the seasons all the Bach-and Bachlorettes do the same thing as far as kissing, talking about- “this is my best date ever” etc. When looking for love with many others on a show you have to understand that it is part of the show and also how someone determines if they have the kind if chemistry that fits marriage. I hope if Ashley found love I hope she can take it all with a grain of salt. She already told William “this was the best date I ever had” just like she said to Brad, and I am sure she will be saying other such things along the way to some of the other guys too. It only matters who gets the last Rose that matters in the long run. Feel so bad you could not of let the TV show go and realize you were the one standing holding the last rose!
blondegrl….I say that guys are hot….that doesn’t mean that my husband & I are done!! I thought Emily did a great job with the vblog. I agree with alot of what she said. I look forward to hearing from her next week!
I don’t really care what you have to say. You really have no room to talk or give advise. You left your daughter to go on the bachelor, knowing full well what you were getting into. And then you have the nerve to get mad at Brad for kissing other girls?? What on earth did you expect??? You’re a total hypocrite.
Comment by washingtongirl — June 1, 2011 @ 10:19 pm
Can we get video opinions from someone else please???
I think you were the worst possible choice for Brad. You had unrealistic expectations of him in the end. I’m sure you knew all along that you were never going to marry him. And on top of that, for someone who supposedly had your child’s best interests in mind, why would you choose to leave her for months at a time “just in case” you found love on a REALITY TV show. Sounds like someone that is hungry for Fame to me. And sadly, you got what you wanted. Feel badly for Brad for choosing someone that is that selfish.
First of all, it’s really creepy that you all expect her to share her love life with you even though she doesn’t know you AT ALL! What goes on between them two is their business, so don’t be quick to judge the girl (and if you do, please use correct grammar–should HAVE–sorry, it just bothers me)! She just wants some privacy without having everyone clawing at her back for answers that she does NOT owe you–she did not ask for a fanbase, so owes no answers to anyone. Whether or not she is with Brad is her choice to divulge; being angry and lashing out at her for keeping it a secret is just plain immature! Even worse, getting mad at her for apparently “breaking Brad’s heart” is just stupid; you don’t know the whole story, and their relationship status at the moment is just speculations based on tabloid reports from “reliable sources.” How many times have the tabloids been wrong about their relationship status? And even if they aren’t together, how do you know it wasn’t Brad’s wrongdoing? You people that are being mean are so lame!
Comment by LEAVE EMILY ALONE — June 1, 2011 @ 10:36 pm
This is dumb. I mean really, Emily is milking the “fame” from her season for all it’s worth…. meanwhile she is being so “private” about the status of her and Brad that no one knows what’s going on. And for people saying that they deserve their privacy– if they really wanted privacy, they wouldn’t have been on a reality TV show. GROW UP!
Comment by Susan Saunders — June 1, 2011 @ 10:38 pm
Emily Fans -
Sure we all want to know what’s going on with Emily and Brad and we all tuned in every Monday and want to know the results – but this isn’t a scripted TV show where everything is laid out nicely and has definite conclusions or answers. This is their real lives; would you want every intimate detail of your life all over the media? – probably not. Maybe if everyone backed off they’d feel more comfortable in letting people know what was going on. It’s all of you that are reassuring them they’re making the right decision by declining media.
Emily = Blah. I do agree with her, though, that I hope Ashley finds love. I just hope that the guys (unlike emily) realize that Ashley will be dating and kissing other guys.. that’s the nature of the show. If you can’t hack it, get off the show!!!
I agree with you Emily about the lack of chem between her and Mickey. I also think that William should not have bragged at the party, but I still like him. I LOVE watching your videos. Thanks for posting them!
I have to agree with some of the others here that I think it’s horrible that you went on a reality show for love knowing that you would end up with a growing fanbase especially if you were the last one standing…which you most definitely were. Brad picked you at the end because he fell in love with you. Now..you can’t even share any news about you and Brad or even say if you guys or together or not to your fans. I was a big fan of yours during the show but now NO WAY!!!! You say you want privacy but you tweet and talk abt your daughter all the time. How in the world do you think this makes Brad feel. I think it’s sad.
Comment by NashvilleGirl — June 1, 2011 @ 10:56 pm
Emily… you are the best and if you are single you need to be the next bachelorette! hope you and brad made it but you kept me watching all season!
Also, all the anger is taking away from poor Ashley’s season who I am a fan of! The negativity on here is so palatable. So editors, producers, or the powers that be please give sweet Ashley a chance to shine and replace Emily’s blog (no offense girl).
You are absolutely adorable and I always enjoy watching your video blogs!!! I SUPPORT you and Brad 100%. You handle everything with such poise and confidence. Don’t listen to the nosayers or pay attention to the negative comments you read. Gu-sta-meen (Seize the Moment!)
Emily is the wrong person to blog here. She kept telling Brad I am ready to move to Texas, so ready…Emily will never leave North Carolina because her boyfriend’s family gives her the home she is in..if she leaves all that is gone. Emily doesn’t work…total loser…sorry..get her off this blog…she knows nothing..
For two people who didn’t want the media attention they’re getting more attention by not opening their mouths than if they’d actually tell people the status of their relationship. Don’t go on a reality tv dating show if you don’t want the attention. I enjoyed watching Brad’s season but it would be nice if we could find out how it ended because as of right now we really don’t know. What’s the big secret either you’re together or you’re not.
People… it is none of your business that status of their relationship. What makes me mad is that people do not understand they just b/c they went on a reality show doesn’t mean they have to tell us or her REAL fans about what is going on in their relationship. You wouldn’t go around telling people whats going on in your relationship either. I TOTALLY 100 percent agree and LOVE the way Emily and Brad are not commenting at all regarding their relationship. Key word: THEIR relationship. Emily.. loving your point of view on this season bachelorette… keep them videos coming!!! Don’t worry about the negativity… all your FANS got your back!!!!
Kristin….You better believe I said that. I mean my goodness…when you go on national t.v. on a reality show..what do you think??? Of course there’s going to be a fanbase…it’s common sense! The way these comments are turning out here..it looks like I’m not the only one that thinks this way.
Comment by NashvilleGirl — June 2, 2011 @ 12:18 am
Guess you’re pimping to Fleiss, Chris H and the bach. production people to be the next bachelorette. Maybe that’s been the plan from the get go and we all were just duped, including Brad. You’d have alot more respect if you just tell people you’re done with Brad and let everyone move on at this point.
Still like Ben C…hate Bentley…William is kind of a show off. And with Mickey, I agree, the two didn’t really seem to have what she and William had on their first date, Mickey is too serious! My favorite is still Ben! and Ryan P! ok, I’m done, see you next week Emily:)
Calm down people it’s not even that serious. Who cares if Brad and Emily are together not, this is a video recap for Ashley’s season of the bachelorette! Anyways I enjoyed the blog and can’t wait for the next one.
I believe that Emily is not wanting to tell us that they have broken up because she knows she will receive all kind of hate mail..she really fooled millions of people whom thought she was really in love…and she said she was falling in love with Brad on the show…everyone knows that Brad is madly in love with her, but I believe she is wanting to have FAME really, really bad!! You are right, she has the financial backing of “The Hendricks”..I think they pretty much own her…sure looks that way..
Emily, these negative comments are from sharp tongued bullies. This is how poison spreads and why their’s so much hate in our world. People, since assumptions are only 99.9, feel free to voice your opinion when you have all the facts before you judge someone else. Em, now you know how Jesus felt when he was crucified by people who didn’t know the whole story. Obviously, they don’t have a concious, guess they need to go look in the mirror at their perfect selves. Always be you, cause you don’t owe any of us anything. I love your blog. Ann, Dallas TX
Hi Em! Brad’s season of the Bachelor was the first one I watched in a LONG time. The only thing that kept me watching was the love story unfolding between the two of you. During the show I had been reading another blog that supposedly revealed the ending, and that blog had actually picked the runner up (Chantel?) to win. While watching each show, I told my husband over and over again, “Man, I’d hate to be Chantel watching this season back because of his chemistry with Emily.” Even though it’s a reality TV show, and I’m sure is more contrived than we “fans” know, I could tell you guys had something special. I hope it works out for the two of you and your sweet girl. If not, I’m still a huge fan! You are a sweet heart! So glad I found your blog here…I will tune in every week.
Emily- Great blog. I agree, Constantine is hot and might be a “dark horse.”
To all you negative people on her blog, let it go already!! Leave her alone and stop calling her names. I think most of you can guess at the answer…it is what it is so let it go. The Bachelor world has moved on (to Ashley and Bachelor pad) and so should you! I’m more interested and seeing jake and vienna duke it out anyway…
Wow a lot of haters out there. They need to call their doctor and get a chill pill. I’m enjoying the video blog and look forward to it just like the other true fans. Thanks Emily for agreeing to do this! Keep your chin up and keep smiling : )
people need to stop being so negative. just give the girl a break! she isn’t entitled to tell us ANYTHING! although im a huge fan and i would love to her and brad together, i support her decisions! if your a true fan, then you should do the same. Em your blogs are awesome and i admire you! keep it up girl!
p.s. those articles from examiner.com, hollywood life, and all those news sites no one has ever heard of are almost always wrong so don’t even waste your time!
Ok people if u are even looking at Emilys blog u care enough about her life and/or are jealous of it. It’s so childish to come on Here and say things about someone u have never met and who is a real person not just a character on tv. Leave her alone and get a life of your own. If ur commenting on here u care enough to click the link. If u came on here purely to say hurtful things…. lay off. Emily is a REAL person. Would u go up to someone in the grocery store and say these things? Please do not hide behind a computer screen to get out ur own insecurities…
C’mon producers or whoever…please get someone else to do the blog. This girl has no idea what she’s talking about. She is such a hypocrite…she wants privacy but then she’ll talk about her daughter all the time but won’t even mention Brad’s name. I’m sorry but I find that kind of behavior VERY odd!! I don’t blame ppl on here for getting upset.
I have been absolutely HORRIFIED at the replies to this blog. Emily is doing this blog to state HER opinion on this season with Ashley and the guys. This has NOTHING to do with her and Brad- and their status. Yes, I am just as curious as the rest of you- but this is not the forum for this. Furthermore, most of the responses are almost HATEFUL- and I don’t get it. Why are any of you SO angry at Emily? You sound like YOU hate her- you even bring her daughter into the picture- how AWFUL! Keep the responses to THIS season, and THIS blog and leave the rest out! It’s not necessary, and I’m sure if Emily ever read any of them, they would be extremely hurtful! Remember words leave wounds, too.
Emily your a sweet and kind person. But how can you sit here and give a video blog if no one knows how you and brad are doing. I do not think you understand how many fans you two gained together. We deserve to know if your together not your guys whole life story..but just if you two are trying to make it work. I think you guys are great together..
You all are missing the MOST obvious point of all. you have not heard about the current status of brad and emilys relationship because abc wants to hold an hour long special on a monday at 10 or something “emily and brad, where do they stand?” i mean c’mon people they do it everyyyyy season! remember the jake and vienna special? abc likes to milk this show for everything its worth, and why shouldn’t they? because were all on this blog getting angry at emly for not knowing her current relationship status. This is EXACTLY what they want so they can get the ratings when they choose to divulge this information. AND im also pretty sure emily is still on some sort of contract where she cant tell all the details of her current relationship.
Emily you’re such a bore and hypocrite. Who are you to give adivse to anyone? ABC has made this show into a joke. Notice how nobody cares about ASHLEY’S SEASON. Most of the comments are related to you and your fake engagement. You have killed any chances of a career in the media. Your lack of education and immaturity show through your vocabulary. Learn some new words besides UM UM UM AND YOU KNOW! Brad should start a blog! Lord knows you have but that man through the ringer. I wonder how you are going to feel whenever the right WOMAN (NOT LITTLE GIRL) has him? You ruined his chance to find happiness with your childish actions. No worries doll because he is the catch! Your an uneducated spoiled brat that sits on her behind all day. Get a job! Nobody gives two cents about your thoughts on ASHLEY! Your a total fame slore and basically a bum who lives off of a trust fund. I think you are going to be single for a very long time!
Who picked Emily to do this blog? This is nothing but a lame recap (with her stupid spin) on it. Why on earth did you lead Brad on? The guy was just looking for love. I feel so bad for him since no one deserves the likes of you. When are all of the former castmates going to fade into the wood work? Emily you need to get yourself a real job.
Comment by Bachlor Critic — June 2, 2011 @ 4:53 am
I thought Ashley and Mickey did not have much chemistry either! Maybe he was a little nervous…?
How disheartening to see so many people saying such unkind things. Emily has every right to give her opinions, as does everyone else. I enjoyed the blog and look forward to Bentley’s much-anticipated departure next week!
Emily you did a great job on your video blog! Yea Emily! Why won’t you give your fans a thumbs up or thumbs down on your relationship with Brad? I mean REALLY!!! You have so many WONDERFUL fans that support you, defend ugly comments towards you,really want the best for you! You keep your and Brad’s status “private” and your fan base will dwindle! I wish I could tell everyone but it is not my place!
It is totally understandable that Emily does not want to share details about her and Brad with the entire world, but it is in their contracts with ABC that they are not allowed to go public with any information related to their relationship for a certain amount of time. everyone calm down.
Look, no one is asking for all the details of he said, she said, and who did who wrong (referencing Emily & Brad’s “maybe” relationship). I think what people/ YOUR fans are asking for here is a simple freaking, “yes” or “no” .. are you (Emily & Brad) still together after the show? That’s it. Just answer them and maybe you will stop getting these negative comments on how you are out for fame but won’t answer the question about the relationship that got you this attention in the first place.
You look to be pretty high maintenance Emmy! SHAME ON YOU FOR KEEPING BRAD from all the other women on the show that REALLY,REALLY WERE IN LOVE WITH HIM! YOU were a TOTAL WASTE OH BRADS time, the shows money, as well as all the BUCKS Brad has spent on you and your kid since the show ended! DO ALL MEN A FAVOR AND STAY AWAY FROM THEM! Stay married to the memory of your kids dad or GET SOME COUNSELING TO GET PAST HIM! BUT LEAVE MEN ALONE GIRL TIL YOU GET SOME HELP WITH IT!
Ok…There are people on here saying that Emily is a “fame Wh*re…but yet, I have not seen her in magazines (unless it was tabloids, which didnt get their info from her), on TV (ex.dancing with the stars) or anything else. until this…so please people get over yourself!
Denette – But the difference is you are married and she is not. Talking about guys in that way when you are only dating/engaged is a red flag. BTW, I’ve been married for years and I do not call other guys “hot” in front of my husband. It’s called respect. How would Emily feel if Brad was calling other girls hot on a video blog? Not so good. Isn’t that what got them into trouble in the first place? As I said before….DUNZO! Time to move on now.
Sounds like a bunch of jealous individuals to me. Emily was by far the most classy women on Brad’s season of the bachelor. She held herself with class and dignity and has continued to do so since the end of Brad’s season, despite all of the negative remarks being said. Of course, with any reality television show comes fame. But by no means has Emily gone out of her way to be in the media. A weekly blog for ABC does not show someone’s desperate attempt to be a “fame wh**e.” And if you honestly believe that Emily doesn’t know what she’s talking about and she shouldn’t even be considered to do these weekly blogs, then why watch in the first place? Apparently you think you’re negative opinion matters when you’re simply full of ignorance. It’s sad how our society is so caught up in the world of fame and how some of us can’t think before we speak and can’t stop to realize the affect our words can have on others. Let the pour couple live and quite complaining about not knowing whether they are together or not. Sooner or later we’ll all find out. Continue to be the classy individual you are Em. You’re a role model to some many girls! Can’t wait for your next blog!
How can you say Brad never did any thing special for you on the show. Brad told you he was giving you a rose on one of your dates when he wasn’t supposed to tell you that. He planned a picnic for you and not anyone else at one of the cocktail parties. He practically told you every show he was picking YOU!!! What more do you want to know he was truy in love with you. You were my favorite on the show but you completely did a 360 after the season was over. You seem like a rich, spoiled brat in my opinion now. Poor Brad, you led him on and now your all out for the fame. So disappointed that you weren’t genuine and according to this page for your vlog, I’m not the only one. Your fans are dwindling down girl….Sorry!!!
O.K.everyone…Emily and Brad are NOT under contract with abc to keep their relationship a secret. Chris (the host) said it himself that they weren’t. He tweeted about a week ago or so. Just go back and check it out for yourself. I can almost guess that it’s Emily’s idea to keep their relationship quite not Brad. I could tell while watching the show that Emily was fake and did not seem very educated. I feel SO sorry for Brad right now because he really fell in love with this girl…you could tell. I think she doesn’t want to admit that she has broken it off with him. She is only giving those tabs a heyday when she keeps their relationship status quite. She would be much better off if she would just admit to the truth. But anyway…to tell you the truth the one person that I think really was hurt by all this is Brad. Also…someone else on here said she doesn’t want to leave her sugar daddy..which is the Hendricks…I have to say that I believe that wholeheartedly…so sad!
Em- great blog.. I love having your opinion.. I definitely agree with you on the Bentley situation.. Ashley is better off now hopefully without him than she ever thought she would be… I hope things are well with you and Brad.. God Bless and Much Love
Also…I love how she referred to herself as a “hospital event planner”…laughable!!! This girl has never held a job in her entire life. No one at the hospital where she claimed to work has ever heard of her. Her late fiance’s parents donated $3 Million in his memory to the Levine Children’s Hospital in Charlotte so I guess they bought her a “job title” along with it. Gold digger is her title here in town!!
Gigi…I know exactly what your saying because I have a good friend that has lived in Charlotte all her life. She told me the same thing about the Hendricks donating $3 million to that hospital for the memory of their son. When the Bachelor was airing she told me that she hoped that Brad would NOT pick Emily because she would bet money that there would be no way in hell that Emily would ever move to Austin because she is being well takin care of by the Hendricks. I do believe that she is titled Gold Digger in Charlotte…it’s just too bad that Brad didn’t know this up front.
Comment by NashvilleGirl — June 2, 2011 @ 10:30 pm
Wow! People, seriously…have we nothing else in our lives than to rip this poor girl up?! Yeah, she was on a reality show, yeah she owes some conclusion to the public at some point..but, c’mon!! What do you wanna hang the girl on a cross to get your so deserved info! C’mon people, get a life.
@Amber…. Just give it time. Wait and see.
@BlondeGrl, I totally agree. They are over and have been over. Can you imagine how badly Emily would have exploded if she heard Brad calling a former or upcoming contestant hot? Holy cow!! Look out!! I never believed it was Brad with the anger issue anyways. I really liked Emily up until the ATFR show. The stuff she said about Brad on Nat’l tv was completley uncalled for. True or not, how dare she talk like that! To me, she sounded like a scorned woman that didnt get her way.
You want to talk about class? How about Brad’s Mother?? After Emily sat there on the ATFR show spouting off about Brad, how his Mother did not get up and walk right over to Emily and slap her is beyond me. Brad’s Mother must have the patience of a Saint, and obviously a very classy lady.
Emily’s creditability is shot, and for very obvious reasons. All of the fuss about being “Private” was a bunch of BS. Paid or not, not sure why Emily is doing this vblog. Editors, please find someone else!!
You people are pathetic! Emily is beautiful, and classy. And to the poster who said she is uneducated…that is a laugh coming from someone who doesn’t know how to use “your and “you’re” in a sentence. Emily, don’t listen to these low lives, they are not in your league, and wouldn’t know class if it slapped them in the face. I would LOVE to see you as the next bachette!! Love ya girl!
Emily, you are beautiful and have done a great job on the past couple of vblogs. I enjoyed hearing your opinion! Thanks for sharing and I hope you don’t actually read these nasty comments. I have no idea why people take this so personally?? I’ll be watching for it again next week!
everyone has to remember that:
one: she’s here to talk about the bachelorette this season and this season only. not her and brad…just ashley
two: she left her daughter to try and find love. there’s no way someone as amazing as her would intentionally leave their son or daughter if they knew in advance it wasn’t going to work out
and three: how could she have taken her own advice when she didn’t know she should’ve done or not done something before? that’s why she’s saying it now because she learned and lived it. it’s like trying to say you know exactly what will happen in the future…
emily you are such an inspiring beautiful person and i look up to you so much! i wish you the best of luck in finding someone who is right for you and ricki! <3
I don’t see a problem with her calling guys hot. Did you see Brad’s video message to Hugh Hefner inviting him to his possible wedding? He was acting like a 19 year old BOY in heat instead of a 38 year old MAN who was looking for a serious relationship.
I don’t think there was ever anything real w/Brad and Emily. I don’t think he is ready for a wife as he was never ready for a real girlfriend. I definitely don’t think he is the guy for Emily. That being said, they both need to fess up and put fans out of their misery.
It is NO wonder that sweet Emily has not been easily accessible to her fans…reading the comments on here, there is soooo much stinkin’ judgement that it is RIDICULOUS! She doesn’t HAVE to do ANYTHING! She doesn’t HAVE to “be with Brad”, she doesn’t HAVE to “let go of the t.v. experience”, she doesn’t HAVE to justify why she’s not with her daughter 24/7…I’m not with MY kids 24/7 either but I love them more than life itself! The comments on this blog are confirming only one thing for me…people are cruel, hateful, self-righteous, judgemental, and apparently live in glass houses. Someone’s mama never taught them, “If you have nothing nice to say, then say nothing at all!” Emily, as silly as this sounds since I have never met you, I think you are darling and I wish you well and I would love to see you be the next Bachelorette!
Comment by Charla SHelton — June 3, 2011 @ 1:32 pm
Emily has no credibility. She can not be straightforward about her own love-life, why would she comment somebody else’s love-life ? Where is Brad ? Are they still a couple ? This is a simple question that deserves an honest answer. Get that Barbie-doll out and get someone rea and HONEST.
Who picked Emily to do this blog ? It was a mistake. Too much controversy about her own personnal life. She is the reason people do not believe in this show anymore. Girls get into it to get famous, not to find love.
Emily is not role-model for young girls. Emily is admired by very young girls who want to know what make-up she wears and the label of her designer shoes. That says it all. How can this girl claim to want her private life to be private while she posts pictures of her little girl all the time.
You are sooo nice! I want to be your BFF! I hope everyone in your life appreciates you, I’ll sure they do! We need more really nice people in the world. My favorite thing about your season what that not only did you win the final rose, you got through the WHOLE season without saying one NEGATIVE thing about any of your housemates. You didn’t vie for on-camera attention, you just remained the lady that your are. Everyone loves you! Best wishes for you and your daughter in the future!
For those saying that Emily deserves a private life… that might be true. But I’m here to point out the painfully obvious. SHE WENT ON A REALITY TV SHOW!!!! I’m sorry but you don’t do that if you’re so concerned with keeping your life “private”. And if she was truly concerned with it, then she wouldn’t be making appearances on The Bachelor website posting her ridiculous opinions. This girl is joke!
All of you are just a bunch of HATERS! Geez. You all must be having a bad week and need someone to dump your garbage on. My mom used to tell me that when people were mean to you for no reason, it’s b/c they are jealous of you, and that is SO TRUE. Say what you want, but you all are obviously VERY JEALOUS of Emily. Why else would you be so mean to someone you don’t even know and someone who seems so kind hearted? She was never even mean to the other girls on her show, proving how kinda she is, yet all of you HATERS just have to find something, ANYTHING wrong with her to pick on. All I can say for you is MISERY LOVES COMPANY. Emily, don’t let any of these people bring you down. They are too blind to realize how much you are actually giving them. You are doing a video blogs, giving them your opinions and even making your facebook page and twitter available to the public! HATERS, please tell me how that is asking for privacy??? Just b/c she hasn’t come out and directly said what her and Brad’s status is then all of a sudden she is demanding privacy? If you read her twitter you would realize that she posted a few days ago “Not to believe everything you read.” Doesn’t that give you any answers or is that good enough for you. Oh, excuse me, I forget, you spent every Monday night sitting on your couch watching her on the Bachelor, so she owes you, right? Heck, why don’t you just ask her for the keys to her home and her SS# while you’re at it. I mean, she owes you, right? Idiots…
Comment by YOU ALL ARE A BUNCH OF HATERS! — June 3, 2011 @ 6:53 pm
Tracey…I agree with you! That is exactly why I think she fits the word “hypocrite” to a T. She says she wants her life to be private but then she tweets and posts pics of her daughter all the time. The sad thing is if she IS still with Brad then why doesn’t she posts pics of them together or mention him. My goodness…usually when you’re madly in love you would want to shout from the rooftops about it. It’s almost like she is ashamed of Brad or something. I think the girl is just plain odd!!! You know..the thing is I have never posted like this about anyone before after watching The Bachelor and seeing what kind of person she is…well I just can’t help myself.
She is a role model for girls who like FAKE EVERYTHING and uneducated GOLD DIGGERS!!!!I feel bad 4 Brad, Chantel loved Brad and would have left all her father’s money and her nice house and moved to Texas but this ANOYING BRAT stopped that from happening cos she had to have fame…She lied thru her fake horse teeth about wanting to settle down and have more kids…POOR BRAD.
Emily, I have watched you on the Bachelor & sensed a connection with you and Brad early on. I can read people pretty well. I think that Brad is a good hearted, down to earth guy, but I also think he may have a drinking problem. For him to own several bars is like putting a kid in a candy store. Drinking clouds your thinking. I came from an alcoholic family, so I am pretty aware of people involved in drinking and how they react to things. They’re not the same person when they’re drunk.
I really do hope that you two can work this out. He is financially able to care for you and your daughter. I had a 7 yr old daughter when I met my husband to be. We married 8 months later, adopted my daughter and he is now a proud daddy to a 14 yr old teenager. They love each other so much.
I hope that you and Brad will be able to make an announcement, and let us know what your relationship status is. Even if it means you two have gone your separate ways. A lot of the Brad/Emily fans would like a public announcement. I think we deserve that. I check on things regularly to see if anything new has happened between you and Brad, and I really get nowhere, and don’t know who to believe.
Please let us know something.
A devoted fan of Brad & Emily,
Emily a role model for young girls? I shudder to think of that. Which means are 16 and date a guy 23 and then get pregnant by him while still a teenager and not married to him and live off his parents money after he dies. Ok….great role model..omg, every mother’s nightmare raising a teenage girl that would turn out like Emily.
I’ve watched the Bachelor since the 3rd season and all the Bachelorettes. Of all the seasons, Emily was the classiest and most lady-like girl I’ve ever seen on the show. In addition, the love story between Brad and Emily was the most obvious and authentic as any other, including Trista and Ryan. Whether they’re still together or not remains to be seen. Although I can understand the jealousy the final pick must feel having to watch their fiance/fiancee continue to “date” other contestants until the final rose, that is part of being on the show and you should understand that going into it. Look at Ali and her reaction to Frank and even Jake when she was on his season and Roberto had to watch that. I remember Trista and Charlie…Ryan had to watch that. And who can forget what happened with Jason Mesnick’s season?? Poor Molly! But all of these couples have been able to let go of the events of the show and explore a real relationship out of the limelight. I hope that is whats happening with Brad and Emily because that was a genuine love story if I ever saw one on the show and Brad treated Emily more special then I’ve ever seen anyone treat their final pick. He was smitten with her from the start but had to go thru with the show and wasnt sure if his feelings were reciprocated until close to the end. Emily said she got the “boring” dates. I’ve heard that they give the “action packed” dates to the one who isnt going to win so there doesnt have to be as much opportunity for intimate alone time. So Emily, try to move on past what you saw on the show and follow what you felt in your heart!! Love isnt always easy and there will be hard times with anyone but what you had is worth working for and giving the effort. Your little girl will grow up sooner then you think and life can be very lonely without that special person to share it with. You are a beautiful woman and I wish the very best for you and for Brad.
This is what the internet does. A bunch of people hiding behind their computers saying mean and nasty things about someone they don’t know. Yes, we can be curious, but leave it at that. They went on a reality show, and we were able to see them “date.” That doesn’t mean they owe us the REST of their freaking lives. They’ll comment when they want to comment. Knowing the bachelor, they probably wouldn’t want them to comment anyway so that they can reveal it on the show.
Comment by People puhleaze — June 4, 2011 @ 3:53 pm
Emily is a joke. She just wants fame like all these young women with no real education or career. They think they can go on a reality show, get noticed and get a career. Emily could at least show respect and talk about her relation to Brad. How can you claim the right to a private life after exposing your private life on national tv ? Or maybe this was just a joke to her. Emily cares about one thing and that is getting exposure. Emily is strategic and used this show as a career move. She was not in it for love. She is not a private person at all, Twitter, Facebook, Blog etc…..exposing her daughter….
Pinky, I do agree, Emily seems odd. Something strange about this girl. How can you open yourself on national tv and then withdraw completely ? That’s not normal. This show is about finding a mate, finding your significant other. Has love gone wrong ? Is she ashamed of Brad ? Could be. Did she just want to be “famous” ?
Emily I think you are an amazing, beautiful, smart, woman/role model and a great mother. Don’t listen to these people when they trash you and your relationship status. No one INCLUDING myself know the details of your personal life, and we should not have to. It is your life. I wish you the best, and I love that you are doing these blogs. Miss seeing you on tv monday nights. Keep it up, I love hearing your opinion.
By the way..people need to stop calling her a “hypocrite”. By going on the show it was a life experience. She wanted to take a chance at love and do something for herself. SOMETIMES MOTHERS NEED TO DO THINGS FOR THEMSELVES. In the long run it usually makes them a better mother. And i don’t know where she stands with Brad now…but thats her business.
She may have said or done things on the Bachelor that makes her seem like she’s being a “hypocrite”…but LIVE AND LEARN. Haven’t we all said or done things we regretted and learned from? It’s part of human nature. It’s just a reality show…let her make her own life choices and STOP judging.
Emily is nothing but a joke!!! I wish the producers would get someone else to do the vblog. I have to agree with some of the others on here that she is definitely a ‘hypocrite’. Also..there is NO way she’s going to leave the Hendricks in Charlotte and move to Austin. She gets WAY too much money from them to live on. Poor Brad…it’s too bad she lied to him, he could have ended up with someone so much better like Chantal…or just anyone else would be BETTER than “ODD EMILY”
O.K…let me give you a man’s point of view on all this. I actually saw all of The Bachelor and I have to admit that from the very beginning I never liked Emily. I thought she seemed very fake and I also found it very odd that she would go on a reality t.v.show but then say that she wanted her life to stay private. I’m a big Nascar fan so I pretty much knew a lot about her and her background already. I also knew about her situation with the Hendricks and how they are providing for her…and I can tell you right now that’s the reason she wants to stay private with her life because she didn’t want anyone to know that. If it were me…I surely wouldn’t want anyone to know it. I would be painfully ashamed about it. But anyway…I do find it very sad for Brad. I really don’t think Emily should have ever gone on that show…then maybe Brad would be happy today and with someone that truly loves him.
Anyone that supports Emily and Brad please join my Twitter page @brew_crew15. We are a positive page that supports Emily and Brad 110%. To all you negative people on this page, why come on here watch Emily’s vblog and then bash her, grow up! They as a couple owe the media, tabloids and naysayers NOTHING! They are a private couple, Emily has a twitter, and facebook which we has fans love to read and see what she is up to…. leave Them alone.
Thank you Mark for your input. Yes, the secret is out. Emily is living off the Hendrick’s money and that refrains her from engaging in any long term serious relationship. The Bachelor was merely fun and games for her.
Having her commenting Ashley’s love life is plain stupid. She seems to beleive that her love life needs to be kept in the dark so leave Ashley’s life alone. Emily does not want to be questionned about her private life so it’s stupid to have her in this role. Plain stupid. Does she even realize it ?
Please dont let Emily do the vblog for tonights episode of the Bachelorette! Get someone that knows what they’re talking about. We dont want to hear what she has to say.
Producers or who it may concern: PLEASE GET SOMEONE ELSE!!
Bentley is what is known as a SOCIOPATH. Research it and you will agree. The only way to deal with a sociopath is to walk away and never look back and never speak or contact that person ever again. They do not have real feelings towards others but fake empathy. They are fantastic actors. About 4% of the population have sociopathic behaviors. They cannot be rehabilitated by you. Pray for their poor souls that something can change their lacking minds. There is definitely a sickness inside.
My take on all this is that I think Emily didn’t think Brad was going to pick her at the end and she went on the show for fun to begin with. I couldn’t believe what I saw and heard on the ATFR Show. I was honestly embarrased for Brad while watching it. In fact, it was very hard to watch. I knew then that Emily was definitely not on the show for the right reasons. She came across as a VERY spoiled brat that has to have her way. I see now that her life and the way she is living it with the Hendricks controlling her finances is probably the real reason she has turned out spoiled. I’m sure they give her everything she wants. I have been watching The Bachelor for yrs but this is the first time that I have honestly felt sorry for the bachelor, and I definitely feel that way about Brad. I came on here to watch some videos on input about Ashley’s season and came across Emily doing the vblog. I’m not surprised by the comments here and I have to say that Emily DOES NOT need to be giving her opinions on Ashley.
Come on! What is wrong with some of you? You keep harping on Emily but seem to be forgetting that Brad led many women on in his first go around and obviously had issues. Emily has the right once she is out of the “fantasy land” to get to know the real guy and find out if he is right for her and her daughter. Do any of you have children? Would you stay in an unhealthly relationship if you thought it would hurt you or your child? Especially if you weren’t married yet? If you don’t know Brad personally, you don’t know what she is dealing with. Also, Brad can comment on their relationship just as much as Emily. I don’t see anyone bashing him for his “no comments”. I believe that when you treat a person like many of you are there are only a few reasons why… A) you are jealous of what they have; B) you are jealous of the way they look; C) you are so unhappy with yourself, you need to tear someone else down to make yourself feel good.
Emily.. you have a right to be happy. Do what is best for you and your daughter. Keep on being a class act and ignore the negative comments. I wish you emotional happiness and all the best.
@ ATrueFan….You know, people come on here to see a vblog of Ashley and they find out that it’s Emily doing the video. That’s exactly what happened to me…
I’m sorry that it’s hard for you to read some of these comments but it’s just people posting their opinions. Good or bad everyone has a right to their opinions…period. Also, I really don’t think it has anything to do with being jealous of her or they are unhappy in their lives. I think they are simply trying to explain why they don’t like Emily.
In life you have to take the good with the bad…and I have to agree with the majority of these comments that Emily SHOULD NOT be doing this vblog.
Oh and By the way…I have 3 daughters and thank goodness none of them have turned out like Emily. She is definitely NO role-model!
Shawtel, Michelle, and others have blogs on here with their takes on the CURRENT season….why use this blog to try to incite information from Emily about her relationship status with/without Brad??? The sad reality is that people can be cruel, nasty, and judgmental especially when they are hiding behind a computer. I join those here who enjoy seeing Emily AND her vblog and will leave it at that, without throwing another stone in a glass house.
Comment by JoAnn BREW_CREW15 — June 9, 2011 @ 2:49 am
Don’t any of you guys remember when one of the girls from emily’s season said that she had the heart of mother theresa and that nobody could hate her? That was coming from the girls that should be hating her the most.They met her and they knew her. I’m pretty sure none of you guys have ever met emily. To me it seems she’s a sweet, beautiful, classy lady. And for those of you that are leaving all these horrible comments about how she’s not classy…well just by you saying that, I’m pretty sure she is more classy than you’ll ever be. When the time is right she will share things about her and brad. Maybe things aren’t final yet. You don’t know the circumstances she’s in, so just stop.
Emily- I love the videoblogs. You are doing a great job-keep it up! Love ya!
Just a question… Do any of you guys personally know Emily? Ya no. A girl in her season -one of her competitors- said she had the heart of mother Theresa and that nobody could hate her. The girls on the show actuallyKNEW her, loved her, and thought she was the sweetest girl ever. None of you guys even know her so quit judging. It’s Emilys life and when she’s ready to come out with news on her and brad she will. She’s obviously waiting till the time is right. Maybe things aren’t final yet-who knows? You guys don’t kn
Ow the circumstances. Love doesn’t always work out perfectly. And no one is forcing you guys to watch her blOg so if you have such a problem with it DONT WATCH IT. I Think you are doing a great job Emily! Youre awesome!
I just don’t get what there is to hate about Emily? She’s a genuinely sweet person. You guys hate her because she’s not revealing her relationship status? Grow up. She is an amazing woman and I’m sure none Of you guys are perfect so you have no room to be so rude. Yes you have a right to your opinion but there are nicer ways to say it. Live you em! Love the blog!
For every hater, there are a million people that absolutely love you Emily. Not for you as a couple with Brad, but for the poised and polished woman that you are. I am a HUGE bachelor/bachelorette fan, and you are my all-time favorite cast member. LOVE YOU EMILY!!
Comment by Heather Meeks — June 10, 2011 @ 5:02 am
Who said they hated Emily? All we wanted was a conclusion. You realize they got PAID to be on that show right?
Emily is truly a Cutie and great gal. She played the game well, but secretly I think she knew all alone that the network had a loser in Brad as their star for that season.
It wasn’t like there were others for her to choose from!
Give me Charlotte over Austin anyday.